The Pleasure of Pegging

Pegging!

Do you know what it means?! If you do — yay! if not, no worries! Any place surrounding me counts as a safe space and ya girl here is here to help! No such thing as judgement or shame here with li’l Doomy!

Pegging is the term for when a woman uses a strap-on to indulge a man anally, stimulating and pleasing his mythical and also very real, prostate gland.

Now ya girl doesn’t wanna get too medical, but I have to for just a hot second — then it’ll get real sexy, I promise!

Draven Star from Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch near Reno, Nevada

So — are you a touch nervous about taking it up the butt? SAME. Same with a lot of people! Trust me when I tell you that with enough time, patience, lube and trust – it can be and is amazing. Remember the first time with vajay sexings? Kiiiiind of like that, but for some people it takes longer – boys and girls! Here, we’re talking about the boys, though…

Hear me out – I know I can be the “wild child” porn star but I will let y’all in on a secret. The very first time I had a P in my B was ON CAMERA (Joanna’s Angels 3) so I might be a little crazy but I feel that my experience helps with providing a safe environment, as well as giving some advice for preparation. if you touch the stove, you can get burned – you feel me? Trust and believe that your fav goth slut has all the knowledge you want!

So! Boring stuff first (I think the boring stuff is hot buuuuut that isn’t everyone)! Basics, safety, logistics and prep – in no particular order cause I tend to bounce around…

First off – CONSENT! Make sure everyone is down for the butt party or things get real un-fun real quick.

ALSO – before I get too into prep and stretching I want y’all to know that spit and lube are all that should be going in ya buttholes. Coconut oil clogs pores, and anal numbing creams are a real easy way to get hurt or torn. Getting torn in the b-hole takes a very long and un-fun length of time to heal. Just go slow. Please please please. I care so much about your b-hole even if you don’t! You only get one! Be sweet to it!

Consider this – if you are numbed, you don’t know if you are experiencing pleasure — or pain! Sooo just invest in lube and some grown and sexy tunes. Like, who doesn’t love long sexy sessions? Something about a tortoise and a hare? Finishing is cool but the run is where all the fun lives!

Logistics! Done!

Prep! Go!

So! Your body is yours and boys are fancy but this is what has worked for me!

If I know Im gonna get weird in the butt, the day beforehand, I pay a lot of attention to what I eat. I try to stay away from anything too fatty or drink too much; I also keep my portions to the size of my palm and stop eating solid foods around 5-6 PM.

DAY OF!

Enemas aren’t scary! Just PLEASE DUMP OUT THE SALINE AND REFILL THAT THANG WITH WATER. The fluid that comes in enemas is designed to make you wanna, ya know….mondo duke. NOW!!!!! If your butt plans are a surprise and you wake up early but aren’t getting weird until the evening – maybe don’t dump the saline haha! It all depends on how YOUUU and your sweet sweet b hole are feeling.

NOW ITS TIME TO GET WEIRD AND SEXY. (About fucking time, right? Jesus Draven, maybe stop talking about how much you care about my butthole for like 30 seconds?!)

BUTT STUFF IS BEAUTIFUL

Since you’ve gotten this far in my li’l tale, I will take this moment to say that there is nothing ‘queer’ or ‘homo’ or ‘faggy’  or any other slur about wanting an internal orgasm as a man. AND I AM QUEER SO Y’ALL CAN BELIEVE ME.

Do what feels good – and boys, this feels reaalllll good.

So, like I mentioned before, the prostate gland is how dudes can have internal orgasms. This. Shit. Is. Lit. Not all women can have internal orgasms, but as one that can – trust me when I tell you that you want one. Or five.

Lube is fun and important! Showers are cool but water isn’t lube. Take the plastic curtain off of your ish, lay it on your bed and that is a KILLER start.

I usually tell girls to play with their pussies or clits but y’all have different parts! Jerking off in that sweet way that keeps you hard but not cumming (you fucking know!) is the best way to loosen ya’self up. Personally, I adore watching a dude jerk off so please make sure you ain’t being shy.

Breathe deep and go slow. Put on your favorite jam and let passion take over. Sooner than you know it, you’ll be feeling some shit you never thought you’d feel before and taking more than you thought you ever could.

When you start to feel funny, don’t hold back. When women are fitting to have g-spot orgasms, they low key feel like they are gonna pee. When they don’t hold back, squirting happens. Y’all love squirting. We love watching y’all cum real hard. It’s all relative and beautiful.

You will probably have one of the most intense orgasms as well as one of the biggest loads of your life — who doesn’t want that? I want that! I love pleasing a man and watching the different faces he can make – to see how much I can make him sweat and beg for me to do more for him. Have him grinding against me, aching for me to grind against and eventually penetrate to please him. Make him chant my name, the name of his chosen deity and then in turn make me never forget his. This is my goal in every party, but something about a man being this vulnerable and open makes me drip so much more (though I tend to get extraordinarily wet as it is…).

Sound interesting? Feel free to come visit me at the Sagebrush Ranch, or email me for more info! I love humans and all of their different facets and shapes and smells — and questions!

Draven Star

Draven Star

Also known as the "Doom Doll," AVN and Inked award-winning porn star Draven Star is the kinky Girl Next Door you’ve been lusting after all your life. She currently offers the finest in Girlfriend, Porn Star, and Kink experiences at Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch near Reno, Nevada.

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Tips for Dominating Your BDSM Sex Slave

With the release of Fifty Shades Darker this week, America’s interest in BDSM is at an all time high. You see it on the news and read about it in magazines, but what you aren’t witnessing is the reality of what it’s like to really take part in a BDSM session. Here at America’s Red Light District, ladies like me are proficient in being not only dominant, but also submissive participants in bondage sex parties. The BDSM specialists at Dennis Hof’s legal Nevada brothels cater to clients with a desire to take control and be sexually dominant. Many BDSM-acquainted working girls like me are eager and willing to accommodate these fantasies and turn them into reality, as long as all parties agree to the rules and mores associated with dominating a licensed sex worker. Do you want to be Christian Grey? I’ll be your Anastasia Steel, but there are a few things you should know before putting your Grey tie on…

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Alice Little from Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch

Negotiations are Mandatory

It is imperative that we take the time beforehand to sit down and discuss our needs, desires, interests, as well as things that we are not comfortable with. It can be very helpful to write these things down. Think of it like a safety check list. The first thing you want to discuss is “safe words.” A safe word is a way to communicate important information without interrupting the scene. The most commonly used safety words are color coded: “green,” “yellow,” and “red.” “Green” means all good,  keep going! “Yellow” means slow down — this may mean turn down the intensity, or pause for a few moments. If someone calls “yellow,” you’ll want to halt activity momentarily to discuss what needs to happen. Red means everything stops, any bondage is undone, and the scene is ended. It is very rare to use “red” if you’re playing with safe words, because any potential problems can be addressed using “yellow.” An example of a time to call “red” would be if you were having an asthma attack (this has happened to me in the past), or a similarly unexpected medical emergency. 

Other things to discuss during negotiation are prior experiences you may have had with BDSM, what things you enjoyed during those experiences, and what things you would change. This helps to let your sex worker know your experience level, as well as things that you aren’t fond of. It’d absolutely be worth it to take the time to negotiate in advance, as it will improve the quality of your scene tenfold. There are multiple books on BDSM on the market, if you’re seriously interested in researching BDSM prior to your arrival at the brothel.

This is also the time to discuss aftercare: the period after our scene ends, and our adrenaline is still pumping. many times this involves a light snack, cuddles, and pleasant conversation.

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Alice Little is a professional sex slave

Take Control

You’re the Dominant. Establish what it is you are looking for! don’t be afraid to speak up and communicate your preferences on everything from what I wear to how I should present myself before you. If you’re unsure of how to do this, just ask —  as an expert I’ll be able to guide you through the process, and help you feel assured in your role as Dominant. Many men exploring domination for the first time are apprehensive about taking control and telling me what it is they really want me to do. After we negotiate and establish our parameters, don’t be afraid to give in and take what is yours. Submission is a gift — when I kneel before you, and offer you my neck, I’m trusting you with my safety and well being. in return, I’m asking for you to seize that control. The power exchange aspect of BDSM is incredibly erotic when we’re both fully committed.

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Alice Little – all tied up

A part of committing fully also involves taking on the persona you’ve so chosen. If you’re dominant, wear something that makes you feel in control. Use affirming body posture, and a confident tone of voice when giving commands. This gives me, the submissive, something to work of off and respond to. A great example of this is requiring me to respond to everything you say with “Yes sir.” Those two words are simply electrifying to hear from a beautifully bound lady who’s fully exposing herself to you, body and soul.

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Alice Little is a professional Dom or Sub

Enjoy the Ride

There is no place on earth other than the legal brothels of Nevada where every wish, whim, and fantasy is possible. Take advantage of your time here to fully indulge in every encounter that strikes your fancy. By making the most of your time with me, you’ll have a life changing experience that you’ll always be able to look back on and appreciate. There is so much that can be learned from being Dominant — that powerful feeling in your very core is one that you can translate back to the real world. The confidence you’ll gain from a BDSM encounter with me doesn’t end with our time together, it carries forward, so long as you continue to personify those dominant traits. BDSM is something I’m very passionate about. I could talk for hours about how a single session can and will change your life. I invite you to enjoy the ride, seize control, and become the powerful dominant person you’ve always known yourself to be. I’m willing to be the slave you’ve been yearning for, and the teacher you need.

Alice Little

Alice Little

Alice Little is a 4’8” red-headed cutie with a super-fit, all-natural body -- but don’t let her small stature deceive you. This friendly firebox is a pocket-sized sexual powerhouse with unparalleled lovemaking skills. A part-time girlfriend coveted by both men and women, Alice will make you feel right at home at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch.

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