Common Mistakes Sex Workers Make

Posted by Randy Ryder on February 27, 2017

This year, after working at Dennis Hof’s world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch for over half a decade, I have managed to become “Bunny of the Month” for the first time. This means that I’ve distinguished myself as the preeminent prostitute of the moment by out-booking my fellow working girls, exceeding the expectations of my wonderful clients, and thoroughly fulfilling my customers’ every sensual and carnal desire. It is no small feat in the world of Nevada’s brothels — especially when you take into consideration that the Bunny Ranch is the most successful brothel in the world.

While I’ve always loved sex and intimacy, and enjoy meeting new people, being a licensed sex worker didn’t come easy to me. Do not be deceived into thinking otherwise, sex work is real work — there’s a lot more to this job than just the fun stuff. It took me quite a while to figure out that there is a lot that goes into being a successful courtesan at the Bunny Ranch, and I’ve made my share of mistakes over the years. Here are a few common mistakes that working girls make. 

Randy Ryder from Dennis Hof's Moonlite Bunny Ranch near Reno, Nevada
Randy Ryder from Dennis Hof’s Moonlite Bunny Ranch near Reno, Nevada

Time Management

Time is money and money is time, especially in the legal prostitution business. Sex workers actually have a lot of down time in between appointments. Because the Bunny Ranch is a sort of non-stop sorority party, a common mistake that ladies make is waisting their time gossiping or partying too much, when they could be using the “down time” to be communicating with their repeat customers and making new connections. A lot of beginners think that clients just magically appear, but there’s a lot of hard work that Dennis Hof puts into marketing and publicizing the Bunny Ranch, and it’s important that each individual harlot makes a daily effort to build her personal brand and market her unique services. In a sea of gorgeous, sexually-charged vixens, it’s important to get yourself out there and differentiate yourself from the crowd, whether it be through effective use of message boards, social media, or other marketing tools. There could be a sweet and generous client out there just waiting to meet you, but he has to know that you exist first.

Randy Ryder has been a legal working girl for six years
Stunning Randy Ryder has been a legal working girl for six years

Dirty Hustling

Dirty hustling is when a lady moves in on a customer that is already booked with a different lady or is currently conversing with another sex worker. Unless the lady invites another courtesan into the conversation, it’s generally considered highly rude to interject yourself into another sex worker’s business. In this industry, it is important to have boundaries and to respect your coworkers. A brothel can be a very competitive environment. It’s an unusual societal situation in a brothel, where women uncharacteristically compete for the attention of men — which is why it’s necessary to have rules and mores dictating how and when a sex worker should approach and engage potential clients.

A lot of clients don’t understand what’s going on when we don’t interact with them while they’re conversing with another courtesan. Such behavior sometimes gets mistaken for being disinterested in the client, but it’s actually a show of respect for our fellow working girls — and being respectful allows every potential client a fair opportunity to determine whether or not he’d like to get down with one or more of the women he meets at the bordello. 

Randy specializes in GFE (Girlfriend Experience) sex parties
Randy specializes in GFE (Girlfriend Experience) sex parties

Financial Planning

A lot of ladies at the Bunny Ranch make five, even six figures in a single day — and sometimes they spend it just as fast. This is a rookie mistake if there ever was one, because there are also days when we make nothing. It is very important to keep track of how much you make and how much you spend. New girls entering this industry often make more money than they’ve ever dreamed of, and they have no idea what to do with it. It’s a rush to see your bank account numbers skyrocket, but it’s also a little overwhelming. A seasoned sex worker knows enough to take a breath, assess her financial situation, and invest her money properly so that she builds a solid financial future for herself.

Randy is a confident, experienced courtesan
Randy is a confident, experienced courtesan


The hardest attribute for many new sex workers to successfully cultivate is by far confidence. Having confidence and believing in yourself is crucial to succeeding in any business, including the sex business.

If there’s one mistake I’ve made in the past, it’s being afraid to ask for what my services are really worth. I’m a naturally shy and introverted woman, so it took me a while to develop the sense of self-worth and dignity necessary to excel as a professional paramour. Thankfully, my clients and fellow working girls have always been very kind, supportive, and flattering to me.  They helped me understand that what I have to offer is sublime and magnificent, and they helped me grow over the years into a sexual superstar deserving of the title “Bunny of the Month.”

Randy Ryder

Randy Ryder

A sexy, blue-eyed, big-booty brunette with a great smile and a warm personality, Randy Ryder is the VIP companion who specializes in being your secret girlfriend. Randy is currently a full-time dream-maker at Dennis Hof's Moonlite Bunny Ranch.

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A sexy, blue-eyed, big-booty brunette with a great smile and a warm personality, Randy Ryder is the VIP companion who specializes in being your secret girlfriend. Randy is currently a full-time dream-maker at Dennis Hof's Moonlite Bunny Ranch.

10 thoughts on “Common Mistakes Sex Workers Make”

    1. Thank you. Yes, we are independent contractors and set our own prices. I don’t ask ladies there age but the lady who has been here the longest is Air Force Amy.

    1. Thanks Kendall. Social media sucks everyone in for hours. I try and sprinkle a little love on all the media outlets and move on, time management is key.

  1. Congrats on your achievements, Randy! These are some great tips to consider, as well as a glimpse for the guys to understand a little more of what our world is like. 🙂

    1. Thank you Amelia. Yes a lot of people don’t realize we are building our own business within a business and that takes a lot of time, energy and hard work. I enjoy what I do but sometimes its hard to keep up with it all.

  2. Over half a decade? Wow! How time flies! I am pretty sure I have known Randy from the beginning.

    I will say that I have the deepest respect and admiration for this very special lady.

  3. Congratulations on your Bunny of the Month award Ms. Randy. Your blog lays out an excellent reminder that your profession is a legal business and good sound foundations help achieve success. (and it just happens to be fun too) Thanx.

    1. Aww thanks Grandpa Daddy! Yes, I really do enjoy my job. Most of the time it doesn’t feel like a job but there is the business side of things that have to be done in order to be successful.

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