The Importance of Non Sexual Intimacy

Posted by Roxanne Price on October 26, 2017

Intimacy can come in many forms, with or without the inclusion of sex. It’s important to experience as many different levels of intimacy with your partner as you can both before and after intercourse. As a specialist in the girlfriend experience, I’d like to share some information about the different types of stimulation that can be achieved from something as simple as touch or an intense kiss. Oxytocin, sometimes called the ‘bonding hormone’, is naturally produced by your body during close intimate contact. Participating in these activities often can even promote your health! I hope that this article can help clarify why taking your time with intercourse is so very important. I’ve found that a number of people have this idea that they should just jump right into sex, especially with a provider of sexual services, like myself, but even the most casual foreplay can be crucial if you’re wanting to have a worthwhile experience.

There’s a myriad of positive sensations that come from being kissed, held, and enjoying human touch. I’m a big proponent of spending my time this way in the bedroom. It allows the both of us to relax and become more vulnerable to one other so we can really enjoy our experience together. While experiencing this kind of intimacy, you can simultaneously build sexual anticipation and discover exactly how to please your partner’s body. The mouth is a highly sensitive area and even small amounts of stimulation on your partner’s lips can drive them wild. Subtle sensations, like your partner’s scent and taste, start to overwhelm all of your own senses and allow you to become lost in experiencing their body. Feeling their breath on your face sends you into a sort of rhythmic trance, which can be extremely erotic! Not to mention there’s so many different ways to kiss, or be kissed… The tongue is eager to be stimulated, and slow kissing starts to become so much sweeter.

Personally, I enjoy a naughty bite on the lip to grab my attention, and playfulness in the bedroom can create some delightful results! The most intimate part of kissing someone is making eye contact… That’s really what fuels a passionate makeout session. I take great pride in learning how to be a great kisser for my partner. I make an excellent teacher in person, but what I will share with you now is that you don’t have to be a good kisser naturally… It’s all about learning how your partner would like to be kissed, and being able to communicate your own desires. If you are being kissed a certain way and enjoy it, then you can always mirror your partner’s rhythm, or you can switch things up with a little bit of communication. Everybody enjoys different things, so be sure to give your partner feedback on what you like!

The best way to cuddle with your favorite person is during a cold winter night. It feels the absolute best when you can notice the delightful contrast of hot and cold. It’s the same reason why lava cake is so delicious! You have the option of being the big spoon, or the little spoon… It’s such a conforming way to drift off into dreamland. Cuddling is a genuine bonding exercise as well! The closeness makes you feel valued, and it can be healthy for both parties psychologically. If you want to have a long lasting relationship, then remember to do lots of it! Feeling the weight of another person’s body encircling yours can remedy feelings of anxiousness, just like a weighted blanket would.

You should always cuddle before and after enjoying sexual intimacy. I understand that some people aren’t as interested in extended connections, but as a long-term sex worker I always do my best to invest in meaningful encounters. I focus on enjoying my partner as much as I can, and part of that is achieved by communicating what arouses my desires. There have been plenty of occasions where someone has sought out my services and we didn’t have sex on the first date at all! Candid conversations and having interactive experiences together is another way to build a healthy amount of sexual tension… Of course, this is the preferred way to achieve a healthy connection between two people. A willingness to cultivate a connection properly will always result in better pleasure for both of us… The more sexual tension we can build up before our encounter, the more thoroughly you will enjoy yourself. I’m someone who aims to maximize my partner’s pleasure, so this is the best advice I could ever give for doing just that.

Many people seek out organic time, love, and care. To me this comes naturally, as I take my time with every experience I enjoy with a partner. I believe it’s important that non-sexual intimacy be a part of every experience! It’s my hope that the idea of sex workers strictly providing rushed encounters can and should be a thing of the past. Being able to provide therapeutic intimacy for someone who doesn’t normally get it is by far one of the most satisfying parts of what I do.