Porn Sex vs Real Life Sex

Porn Sex vs Real Life Sex

A dive into the misconceptions of pornography by Kimberly Kane

This subject is incredibly important since the rise of free porn on the internet and the fact that anyone of any age can view hardcore pornography. I am just old enough that I didn’t grow up with free porn. When I was young, all porn sites were paywalled. Meaning you wouldn’t see much without throwing down a credit card for a website membership which was around $60 a month.

I remember porn tapes being as valuable as gold. If you had a really good porn tape you could trade it like currency. This might sound unbelievable to folks but the first time I ever saw a DP (double penetration) scene on video, I was 18 and I did not believe it was humanly possible, I thought it was some fancy camera angle trick.

Now a days seeing a DP is one of the least shocking sex acts you can see on the Internet. We have an entire generation that has grown up being able to access hardcore pornography for free and the concept of paywalls to view porn is simply abstract. My question is at what cost is the free porn generation really paying on a psychological level?

I am not a psychologist, I’m a pornographer/sex worker and I’m out here in the world talking to “generation tubesite”  and they tell me sex gives them anxiety. They have watched thousands of hours of porn and instead of it making them feel confident they feel inadequate. They think their penis’ aren’t big enough, if their partners aren’t screaming and squirting during sex they think they’re doing something wrong. There isn’t a lot of foreplay in porn so this very important aspect of intimacy is sometimes skipped over entirely. Because of the lack of access to sex education young people are watching porn to learn about sex. Which is about as warped as looking to social media to learn about inner happiness. Porn is entertainment not educational material.

The best way I can simply explain porn sex vs. real sex is by asking this question, “Do you believe the Superman movies are real? Do you believe Superman is flying around fighting crime? Of course you don’t! We can give superhero movies a suspension of disbelief. Now, try lending the same suspension of disbelief when watching porn.

Porn is a performance. The bigger the dick, the louder the screams, the more effortless position changes the better! Porn performers are simultaneously thinking about lights, body position and our next move. You’re also trying to convey connection and realism for the audience. If the scene is executed well the sex will seem easy but I assure you it is not. A great porn performance is a physical and artistic craft. It should also be noted that there are also camera operators and crew whos experience lends to the creation of great pornography, just like mainstream hollywood movies.

I personally do not have porn style sex at home. In order for me to be in the zone I need to calm my mind, focus on my partner and be in the moment. I want to genuinely please my partner and I want reciprocation in an honest and connected way. Sometimes my real sex is quiet and passionate, giggly and cute or sexually dominate and perverted. Another difference in my real sex is something not often seen in porn. I always incorporate my Doxy vibrator to reach orgasm because I do not climax from penetration alone.

If you take anything away from my post understand that pornstars are not always having crazy sex off camera. Lend some disbelief to the performance as physical acting and find comfort in the fact that even pornstars are having lazy, cuddle sex just like anyone else. Appreciate porn for what it is, entertainment like your favorite superhero movies!

Kimberly Kane Bunny Ranch Profile: https://www.bunnyranch.com/kimberly-kane
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Kimberly Kane

You might think you know me from my films, but films are fantasy, and while I love fantasy, and making fantasies come true, I’d also like you to get to know the real me on a deeper, more meaningful level. I’d also like to get to know you, and hope we can become friends.

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Breaking the SEX FANTASY – SEX REALITY Barrier with Alexis Adams!

I’m a sex fantasy. I’m not saying that to be conceited or smart-alecky, I’m saying it because it’s a fact — people from all over the world fantasize about having sex with me. As a highly accomplished nude model and pornographic actress, I’ve managed to garner hundreds of thousands of fans and admirers who subscribe to my sexy content and pleasure themselves as they imagine what it would be like to get it on with, as PornHub describes, “the kind of woman that can make men whimper like hurt puppies just to graze an inch of her body with the tips of their noses.”

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Adult Industry Superstar Alexis Adams

I’m not going to lie, I really get off on the fact that people enjoy my work. Knowing that men (and women) get as hot watching my films as I get making them really gives me a rush. I’m so very grateful for the messages and gifts I’ve received over the years from my devotees, and I can’t thank you enough for the support you’ve all shown me since I started as a porn star in 2013. You gave me the confidence I needed to become the self-respecting woman and sex entrepreneur I am today!

Alexis Adams is a featured VIP entertainer at Dennis Hof's Moonlite Bunny Ranch
Alexis Adams is a featured VIP entertainer at Dennis Hof’s Moonlite Bunny Ranch

Never one to rest on my laurels, I’ve recently been seeking new and exciting ways that I can expand my personal brand and better connect with the people who’ve made me a sex superstar. After a great deal of consideration and research, I’ve decided to take a huge leap in my adult industry career and finally offer something far greater than any mere fancy — I’m going to break the sex fantasy barrier and offer you a one-on-one sex reality with me, exclusively at Dennis Hof’s Moonlight Bunny Ranch!

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That’s right, starting NOW I’m available for a private, discreet relationship where the two of us can get to know each other intimately and begin a fiery romance the likes of which you’ve only dreamed of. Not only will we have the best, most intense, sex of our lives, but we’ll also begin a unique friendship where we can finally connect on a truly personal level. What can be better than a genuine “Girlfriend Experience” with the quintessential girl next door, who just happens to also be the most superb fuck on the planet?

The world famous Bunny Ranch is a 100% legal sex resort where men, women, and couples go to explore every imaginable erotic desire. It’s private, safe, and provides every conceivable amenity we’ll need to embark on our amorous adventure, including VIP accommodations, hot tubs, swimming pool, massage facilities, and much more. We could even arrange an outdate where we can explore the electrifying nightlife of Reno or Las Vegas, or take in the immense beauty of Lake Tahoe. My knees are getting weak just thinking of all the possibilities available to us so that we can sincerely have the time of our lives together!

Sex-wise, here is my personal bucket list for my first tour here at the Ranch. Hopefully you guys will help me accomplish a few of my goals…

Hot-And-Heavy Threesome

I love threesomes! But now that I’m at the Bunny Ranch, I can do more than simply pretend to be the “plus one” for a married couple. Over the years I’ve received a lot of emails from couples mentioning that they enjoy watching my work and would love to invite me into their bed. Well, now I can accept that invitation! Guys, bring your wives and girlfriends to the ranch and let me show you that my girl-on-girl scenes are much more than an act. I’ll make sure that all three of us come hard, like it’s the last day on Earth. Let me be the best wedding anniversary present you’ve ever given to each other… 

Nuru Massage

When I do my nuru massage scenes, I get so turned on I can barely concentrate. There’s just something amazing about how the super-slippery nuru gel feels as we slide our oily bodies together in an erotic frenzy. You’ve seen the video — now you can get oiled up with me and feel what it’s like to have my gorgeous 34C breasts pressed against you. A mind-blowing, wet-and-wild happy ending just for you.

Role Play

Do you want to role play with me? Can I be the cheating wife who seduces the horny boss? As an actress, I love to take on the role of a character, so sex role play comes naturally to me. If you want to reenact any of the scenarios from my films while your with me, I would be totally flattered and down for it!

Sex Tape

Want a memento of our time together? A personal sex tape starring you and yours truly? Nothing is off the table at the Bunny Ranch. Let’s talk…

Alexis Adams

Alexis Adams is a celebrated nude model and adult video superstar. Her work appears in magazines such as Hustler, Stare, and Penthouse, and she was the Playboy Coed of the Week for January 19, 2012 (as Jordana Ryan). Alexis performs in explicit hardcore films featured on BangBros, Twistys, Mofos, and 18eighteen.com. She is currently touring Dennis Hof's Moonlite Bunny Ranch as a highly sought after VIP companion.

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Why I Prefer Prostitution Over Porn

Those of you who have been seeing me professionally for a while know that I began my career in the sex industry as an adult film actress. I’ve always been exceedingly interested in sex, nearly to the point of obsession. When I was younger I had many opportunities to fuck and to get fucked — and I delightfully indulged in those fervid encounters, developing considerable prowess to the point where I was able to enter the sex world as a professional lover. I saw porn as a natural step for someone of my disposition and desire, so I started having sex on camera and was able to pay my bills by being one of the many porn stars that people, maybe even a few people reading this post, spank it to on a regular basis.

At first, it was exciting. Getting calls for shoots and having filmmakers interested in working with me and flattering me made me feel good. But something was missing. I got into the business because I loved sex, but the sex I was having for the videos was mechanical, contrived, repetitive, and, worst of all, usually emotionless. It didn’t take me long to realize that watching porn is a hell of a lot more fun that shooting it.

I longed for a profession where I could have hot and impassioned love affairs that were truly satisfying, but since I thought prostitution was illegal throughout the USA, it looked like the only sexy job for me was to continue making monotonous masturbation material. Then, one day on set, a coworker informed me of the Bunny Ranch, a place where it’s entirely legal to get paid for having sex — real sex — private, one-on-one encounters with horny people looking for steamy rendezvous. I got on a plane a few days later and have been loving my job at the ranch ever since! Here are just a few reasons why I prefer legal prostitution over having porn star sex.

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22 year old Aria Arial provides the Girlfriend Experience at Dennis Hof’s Moonlite Bunny Ranch

It’s REAL Sex

Porn stars are actors. When we perform in an adult video, we’re less concerned with making our sex partners feel good and more concerned with what we look like while we’re doing it. The positions are designed less for pleasure and more for what looks good on camera. Orgasms are faked most of the time and there’s a lot of stopping, repositioning, and starting again. Not to mention that having a crew of one or more people hovering around you kind of kills the mood.

The sex I have at the Bunny Ranch, on the other hand, is part of an actual date. I specialize in the Girlfriend Experience, so my sessions and outdates involve a lot of intimate conversation between me and my client, thus we can get to know each other and develop a legitimate and meaningful bond. When I have sex with my clients at the brothel, it’s sumptuous and euphoric, and thoroughly genuine for the both of us. This is real sex, real passion — and yes often real orgasms — between two real people, not actors merely penetrating each other for the benefit of a camera.

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Sexy and sensuous Aria Arial

I Feel Wanted

When you act in a porn movie, you don’t get to see the people that really enjoy your work. Those people are the viewers who will watch the video days, weeks, or months after it is shot, edited, and posted online or distributed as a DVD. When I do porn, I never get to meet the people who really want to be with me and fantasize about having sex with me. This is a tragedy!

As a licensed prostitute, the people who visit me truly want to get together with me and crave my attention and my touch. There’s no better feeling than knowing I’m wanted by the men (and women) who visit me at the brothel — there’s nothing that turns me on more and makes me want to show my clients an experience that will make them come like they never thought possible. I feel needed at the Bunny Ranch, and I take great pride and pleasure in satisfying the needs of my clients in return.

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Aria Arial is a former adult film actress

It Pays Better (and not just in money)

When you’re good at what you do, and you love your work, you’re usually very successful at it. This has definitely been the case for me. Since I started working as a legal companion at the Bunny Ranch, I’ve managed to get to a point financially where I’m no longer “living month-to-month” and I’m able to fully concentrate on the welfare of my new and repeat customers. Moreover, since I started on this path, so many wonderful people have become a part of my life and have deeply enriched my world. I’m not only having the best sex of my life, but also meeting people who care about me and my well-being, and who have become true friends. For this sexually audacious girl, I’ve discovered what I was yearning for in my work: a real connection.

Aria Arial

Your naughty little secret and most coveted sensual fantasy, Aria Arial offers an unforgettable Girlfriend Experience as a VIP courtesan at Dennis Hof's world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch legal brothel.

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Porn Legend Taryn Thomas In Residency At Love Ranch Vegas

If you’ve watched porn in the last decade, and you have, you’ve probably seen me.  My name is Taryn Thomas, & I’ve been in more than 250 XXX films, along the way to being named “the dirtiest girl in porn”.  I started in the adult business at 18, and I went on to become known as the dirtiest talking, hardest fucking girl on film.  I’ve been featured in Cosmopolitan, Maxim, Esquire, Penthouse, & Rolling Stone magazines.  I even ran my own production company before taking a hiatus a few years ago.  Now I’m back with a different goal in mind, and that goal is to have sex with you.

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Taryn Thomas is in residency at Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch near Las Vegas

I’m currently in residence at The Love Ranch Vegas legal brothel, and I’m focused on becoming as big of a name here as I am to porn watchers around the world.  Sure, you can pull me up on the internet no matter where you are, but there’s only one place in the whole entire world where you can be in my bed.  Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch Vegas, located just outside of Las Vegas, Nevada, is  just a short complimentary limo ride from the airport away.  Our driver will meet your plane, and the next stop will be you meeting me in my private suite for as much ecstasy as your mind will allow.

Throughout my years in adult films, I met thousands of fans.  Posing for pictures, signing autographs…All the while thinking about what it would be like to blow their minds with a one on one sexual encounter.  I never forgot my fantasy, and now I’m making it a reality at southern Nevada’s preeminent legal brothel.

I recently appeared on The BrothelCast to discuss in detail my decision to transition into legal prostitution, and my desire to thrive within the business.  Give it a listen and tell me if I sound convincing:

Contact me today at [email protected] to schedule our time together.  You can also call (775) 372-5251 to make an appointment.  

I can’t wait to meet you, and to have that intimate sexual encounter that will make a lasting impression on both of us.

Love, 

Taryn

Taryn Thomas

Award winning adult entertainer Taryn Thomas is a celebrated porn star, director, producer, featured exotic dancer, and model — and now, for the first time ever, she’s allowing her long time fans to get down and dirty with the “Dirtiest Girl in Porn” at Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch legal brothel near Las Vegas!

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