About Me HELP ME, What answers about losing your virginity need to be answered?

So I am working on a book about losing your virginity as an adult, I need your help guys and ladies:
What questions need answering?

So far this is my outline:



I. Introduction (approximately 1,500-2,500 words)

• The societal pressure to lose virginity at a young age
  
  
• The reality of losing virginity later in life
  
  
• Why the topic is important and relevant
  

II. Common reasons for remaining a virgin (approximately 2,500-3,500 words)

• Personal values and beliefs (family beliefs and deconstruction)
  
  
• Fear of intimacy or rejection
  
  
• Lack of opportunity or interest
  
  
• Trauma or past experiences
  
  
• Addressing any age-related concerns that may arise
  
  

III. Overcoming societal stigma (approximately 2,500-3,500 words)

• Dealing with negative comments and reactions
  
  
• Building self-confidence and self-worth
  
  
• Surrounding oneself with supportive people
  
  
• Addressing any age-related concerns that may arise
  

IV. Preparing for the experience (approximately 3,000-4,000 words)

• Understanding consent and communication
  
  
• Educating oneself on sexual health and safety
  
  
• Exploring personal desires and boundaries
  
  
• Addressing any age-related concerns that may arise
  

V. The actual experience (approximately 5,000-7,000 words)

• Managing expectations and nerves
  
  
• Celebrating the moment and embracing the journey
  
  
• Addressing any physical or health concerns that may arise
  
  
• Addressing any age-related concerns that may arise
  

VI. Moving forward (approximately 3,000-4,000 words)

• Coping with post-sexual experience emotions
  
  
• Exploring one's sexuality and sexual preferences
  
  
• Embracing one's individual journey and timeline
  
  
• Addressing any age-related concerns that may arise
  

VII. Questions that virgins may have about losing their virginity (approximately 25,000-30,000 words in total, divided among the different age groups)

• Providing comprehensive and informative answers to the most common questions that virgins in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s may have about losing their virginity.
  

• For those in their 20s:
  
  
  • What is it like to have sex for the first time?
    
    
  • How do I know if I'm ready to have sex?
    
    
  • What if I don't enjoy the experience?
    
    
  • What if I have trouble with performance or reaching orgasm?
    
    
  • How do I talk to my partner about my lack of experience?
    
    
  • How can I make sure I'm being safe and practicing consent?
    
    
  • Will losing my virginity change me or my relationships?
    
    
  • What if I experience pain or discomfort during sex?
    
    
  • How do I navigate the emotional aftermath of losing my virginity?
    
    
  • Is it normal to feel nervous or anxious about losing my virginity at this age?
    
• For those in their 30s:
  
  
  • How will my age affect my experience of losing my virginity?
    
    
  • Is it too late to lose my virginity?
    
    
  • What if my lack of experience is a turn-off for potential partners?
    
    
  • How do I navigate dating and relationships as a virgin in my 30s?
    
    
  • Will my physical age affect my sexual performance?
    
    
  • How do I prepare myself mentally and emotionally for the experience?
    
    
  • How do I address any physical or health concerns that may arise?
    
    
  • What if I have religious or cultural beliefs that have prevented me from having sex until now?
    
    
  • How do I talk to my partner about my lack of experience?
    
    
  • How can I be sure that I am making the right decision and won't regret it later?
    
• For those in their 40s:
  
  
  • How will my age affect my experience of losing my virginity?
    
    
  • Is it too late to lose my virginity?
    
    
  • What if my lack of experience is a turn-off for potential partners?
    
    
  • How do I navigate dating and relationships as a virgin in my 40s?
    
    
  • How can I be sure that I am emotionally ready for a sexual relationship?
    
    
  • How do I communicate my boundaries and desires to a partner?
    
    
  • How do I deal with potential rejection or judgment from partners?
    
    
  • Will losing my virginity change the way I view myself or my relationships?
    
    
  • How can I make sure that I am practicing safe sex and protecting my health?
    
    
  • How do I address any potential religious or cultural conflicts that may arise?
    
• For those in their 50s:
  
  
  • How will my age affect my experience of losing my virginity?
    
    
  • Is it too late to lose my virginity?
    
    
  • What if my lack of experience is a turn-off for potential partners?
    
    
  • How do I navigate dating and relationships as a virgin in my 50s?
    
    
  • How can I be sure that I am emotionally ready for a sexual relationship?
    
    
  • How do I communicate my boundaries and desires to a partner?
    
    
  • How do I deal with potential rejection or judgment from partners?
    
    
  • Will losing my virginity change the way I view myself or my relationships?
    
    
  • How can I make sure that I am practicing safe sex and protecting my health?
    
    
  • How do I address any potential physical or health concerns that may arise?
    

• For those in their 60s:
  
  
  • How will my age affect my experience of losing my virginity?
    
    
  • Is it too late to lose my virginity?
    
    
  • What if my lack of experience is a turn-off for potential partners?
    
    
  • How do I navigate dating and relationships as a virgin in my 60s?
    
    
  • How can I be sure that I am emotionally ready for a sexual relationship?
    
    
  • How do I communicate my boundaries and desires to a partner?
    
    
  • How do I deal with potential rejection or judgment from partners?
    
    
  • Will losing my virginity change the way I view myself or my relationships?
    
    
  • How can I make sure that I am practicing safe sex and protecting my health?
    
    
  • How do I address any potential physical or health concerns that may arise?
    

VIII. Sexual Dysfunctions and Virginity (approximately 10,000-15,000 words)

• The potential effects of over-masturbation and excessive masturbation on one's sexual experience
• Understanding Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED) and how it can impact one's sexual performance
• Exploring other potential sexual dysfunctions that can affect a virgin's first sexual experience, such as premature ejaculation or vaginismus
• Addressing these issues through therapy, counseling, or medical intervention

VIIII. Sexual Dysfunctions and Virginity (approximately 10,000-15,000 words)

• The potential effects of over-masturbation and excessive masturbation on one's sexual experience
• Understanding Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED) and how it can impact one's sexual performance
• Exploring other potential sexual dysfunctions that can affect a virgin's first sexual experience, such as premature ejaculation or vaginismus
• Addressing these issues through therapy, counseling, or medical intervention

Conclusion (approximately 1,500-2,500 words)

• Normalizing and celebrating the diversity of sexual experiences
  
  
• Encouraging self-love, self-discovery, and self-acceptance
  
  
• Summing up the key takeaways and final thoughts.
  

 

Always love your input @Air Force Amy

 

Almost done!!!!! I can't wait!!