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February 2017

Sex and Married Men: Unhappily ever after?

By Lexie James

-Love Ranch North Lover

With Valentine’s day fast approaching, gentlemen are often at their romantic best as chocolates, lingerie, impromptu vacations, and other glamorous gifts are showered upon their ladies. This isn’t an exclusively February occurrence however. I see plenty of men all year round that are madly in love with their wives, gushing as they speak about their soulmate and mother of their children, and yet many of these men consider themselves unhappily married. They feel that sexual communication in their marriage is limited or they cannot express their true erotic desires to their wives. This leads to a lot of sexual as well as emotional frustration. If you cannot be open up with your life partner, who can you be open with?

While many would say you can share everything with your spouse but keep it professional with a prostitute, it is often quite the opposite. I have had my fair share of sex parties that were truly about a married man exploring his kinks with a nonjudgemental professional. I see many recent divorcees as well, whose marriages have not been successful because of a lack of communication or an unwillingness to try new things in bed. It’s stunning how many sexual secrets lovers hide from one another, for fear that their partner will harshly judge their “deviant” sexual inclinations. Whether it be foot fetishism, anal play, cross-dressing, or even dirty talk, many men only reveal their true sexual selves to working girls like me.