As humans We think we want sex. It’s not always about sex. It’s intimacy we want. To be touched. Looked at Admired. Smiled at. Laugh with someone.
At my age .You are correct! Can have sex ,any time . But want to have a connection. With who I am having sex with!
I had an outdate once. It was glorious! I had a good time. In my regular life, I've never had a date that I enjoyed.