POLL Dominant or Submissive

Polling our audience: What's your preference during "the act" -
Dominant or Submissive? ​

 

I’m not really sure what I am. I was in a class for BDSM years and years ago, and all I really learned was I’m way too vanilla.

 

I have said it before , on here.. I enjoy my women submissive. In my life…So that makes me a dominant! But I do enjoy them in many other submissive roles………

 

Where did you find your BDSM class?

 

I got invited to it by this girl I met on Alt.com. She was my sponsor. This was in Salt Lake.

 

How funny, I am from Utah! Is that where you live now?

 

I’m originally from Utah. I have lived in other parts of the states in my youth, between 1991 and 2002. I moved back to Utah and I’ve been here ever since.

 

mmm I'm a sub leaning switch when it comes to BDSM stuffs. I mean... I can and have topped before. I am a tad interested in exploring my primal side a bit.. but yeah been in my local BDSM community for a good 10 years off and on.

 

Nice, I've been in Utah about 12 years now.

 

I'm a switch and it really depends on my mood

 

I think a lot of women are divided among gender lines- like I prefer to be in the dominant role with men and I don't mind being submissive with women at all. I feel like women are just better at topping!

 

I can give the kitty cat big eyes and say yes sir, or I can make you kneel and use you as a stool while I Netflix & Chill

MEANING:

SWITCH

 

I think I'm a switch. I enjoy initiating, being in control, picking her up and moving her where I want her most of the time but then from time to time I enjoy her initiating and telling me what to do, how to do it, and switching positions when she wants something different.

 

For me it depends on "the act" which is why I consider myself a switch. Best of both worlds.

 

Submissive. I enjoy chastity


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I'm a switch

 

I’m willing to be both so I’m a switch

 

Same here depending on the mood or partner.

 

Thanks @SailorB for liking my post!!!

 

Cumisha , you do not look like a switch. I that I ever seen!

 

I see we are going to have a lot of fun together hehe

 

You read my mind and can’t wait

 

My top sexual fantasy is, and always has been to have a woman be totally submissive. I've always wanted to tell my partner what to do and have her respond with
either

'yes sir"

"yes daddy." or if she's REALLY into being submissive

"Yes Master." but I suspect "Master" might be a little far for some women, even if you do lean submissive in the bedroom.

It's funny because my ex asked this very same question but when she heard I had a master/slave fantasy, let's just say she wasn't open to the idea, VERY VERY NOT open to the idea.

 

I'm confused. Is this a choice you have to make during sex? Like ordering lunch and the waiter says you can have soup or salad with your entree, but you have to pick one?

 

Pretty lady, you and I can be rock stars in our time together partaking in both.

 

I would consider myself a mix of both. I like being the aggressor, but I love a man that can take charge.

 

Mostly submissive, with sometimes bratty tendencies. I like to be playful and sassy sometimes, but mostly soft and sweet.

 

I definitely see you as a mix of both! I can't wait to explore a side of that equation that we have not tried together yet when I see you next! Or probably both sides!

 

I’m so excited! I feel like the luckiest girl in the world!

 

I am naturally a dominant, I like being in control but can be submissive with the right man.