What’s the best way to prepare for a brothel trip? The reason I ask is it’s been years since I last set foot inside a brothel.
Have a nearby motel where you can rest up and freshen up before you go there. Plan out your transportation whether it be a car rental, uber or whatever, especially if you're going to be drinking while at the ranch. Other than that, I'd say just make sure you have the funds available to enjoy whatever parties you're interested in. That plus a respectful attitude toward the ladies and you should be having a pretty good time.
Actually, that I already knew. I’m talking about so I don’t disappoint myself and the lady I’m with. I’ve read I should keep my hands off myself for a few weeks prior. Probably should have been getting myself used to condoms again. I crashed and burned my first time because I didn’t know what to expect. I’d hate to do the same when I do know what to expect.
Just relax, hydrate with water, juice etc. I do find during my ranch trips, I do not self please myself, a week or two before so I can have plenty built up, because naturally you tend to apply more pressure than what her hands may grip you and her love box has a total different sensation as well. I believe if memory serves me correctly @AliceLittle wrote a blog on this Get plenty of sleep and do some self meditation to relax and destress and try not to psyche your self out. Be open with the lady and let her know you may be a bit nervous and let her guide you on your pleasure cruise. Hope this helps, this is what I do to prepare .
Awesome! I wish I had this info when I first started going to brothels. In fact, there’s a lot of advice I wish I had. Thanks, @grizzly. Much appreciated.
You are welcome @Old Nick feel free to message me any questions you have. I have been in the hobby since 2004 and have learned a lot from the ladies that I have been blessed to see. Plus when I have extra stressed or did not get enough sleep I tend to have trouble performing. I also recently learned my excess weight hindered me as well, it was not a deal breaker, just took longer to get off and recover for the next party. I tend to drink lots of water, orange juice and eat more healthy in preparation for my trips to the ranch. Have an amazing time at the ranches!
Masturbating wearing a condom will help you get more familiar with the the difference in feeling. Also try masturbating without looking at porn, the stimulation changes quite a bit when you’re relying on your imagination instead of a screen. Get cardio when you can, not necessarily to burn calories but to get more blood flowing through the body. Park your car farther away when you go to work and run errands, take the stairs instead of the elevator, things like that. On the day of your appointment, make sure you’re comfortable. Don’t eat anything that might disagree with you (but don’t skip food altogether either), don’t wear something that is irritating because it looks nicer (like pants that are a bit too tight or a new shirt that is scratchy). Before the party starts, bring up any concerns or questions you have. Then when all of THAT is out of the way, the only thing left to do is have the best party ever!
I did buy some condoms at Walgreens, and the clerk said to me, “Have a great night,” to which I replied, “ Oh, I’m sure I will.”
I know I’m supposed to stay away from stressful situations, but I have to deal with my ex, and she is stress incarnate.
Totally understandable! Listen to some soothing music, I listen to a CD that uses Native American flutes and Tibetan bowls to help create a sinful state. @RoxyGold has some awesome advice as well. I know it can be hard but forget your ex! I have not met you but can tell from your posts, she has lost a great person and gentleman! Go to the ranches and forget about your home life for awhile, it will help with the healing. Once again have fun
Relax, minimize stress, avoid masturbating a week or two before your trip, but get used to condoms prior to abstaining. Eat healthier, and smaller portions, lots of water and juices (preferably not from concentrate) so that you'll help your system prepare. Also try to work in some walking (light cardio) if its not part of your routine. This will allow you to prepare your body for the cardio required for sex.
