My wife and I are planning a visit to the Bunny Ranch in July and talking to a couple ladies about setting an appointment. One thing we are wondering about is hanging out at the ranch before our appointment to get comfortable in the environment. If our lady of choice is available we would also enjoy getting to know her before our session. I am a planner by nature and trying to work out the details for our trip. My wife is more of an “in-person” type and will need to be face-to-face to get comfortable. Question is, is it normal or rude to expect that we can spend some time to get to know our courtesan before we move on to more amorous activities? Can you hang out at the pool before your appointment or are you relegated to the bar? Is the time you spend before hand expected to be compensated for when you are negotiating the actual party? Yes or no on all these makes sense to me (I can see both sides) and just really want to know what to expect. We are also considering coming to the ranch the night before as we will already be in town. Is it frowned upon to just hang out for an evening without partying because we are set for the next day? Any advise from the girls or regulars would be appreciated! Thanks!
I would suggest that you come in the night before. Get to know the layout and the vibe you get there and maybe visit all 4 brothels before making a final decision for your party the next day. If you want to, maybe even finalize your appointment then since you can negotiate and find out pricing when you first visit and know what it will cost you. It may take a while before your wife can find a lady that she is comfortable with and actually excited about partying with. Over the years I've heard that it is best if the female actually chooses the lady to party with since it is better if she is more emotionally involved and has a real sexual desire to have a party with a lady. Guys are easier to get sexually excited. You can tip for a failed negotiation if you feel like, but I don't and only offer the lady a drink as compensation. I rarely party on a first in person meeting, reading body language and getting an in person feel of her personality is important for me to eventually ask her if a lady wants to party with me. I don't pick ladies from lineups either, I want a bit of chemistry and relying mostly on looks is not as important as personality for me. Go and have fun, take your time to get comfortable.
I remember my first party at the ranches. I didn't know what to expect either. I showed up the day before and hung out to get a feel for the place as well as finalize negotiations. That made things so much smoother for the appointment. I may have still had some stress from the anticipation, but I was able to relax in the environment of the ranches. Anything you can do to relax is beneficial. Like surfer said, let your wife take an active role in selecting a lady to party with. Going in the evening before, and letting the lady or ladies know you will be there, gives you all a chance to build some chemistry. Most importantly, and this was the best advice I ever got, is relax and have fun.
Thanks for the insight. Your response and isurfer’s is very helpful. My wife is definitely picking out the lady. She basically gave me a short list based on their profiles. She doesn’t want to handle any of the business stuff, so that falls to me. Not a problem since I like to plan anyway. She is certainly going to want to time to connect with our choice and we were just wondering how much time is usual without our lady feeling like we are taking advantage of her time. If she isn’t otherwise engaged, would it be normal for her to spend time socializing the night before are even a few hours before our appointment? Or should we be expecting to just hang out with whomever is around (also sounds like fun!).
I would think that most ladies will spend some time beforehand making you feel comfortable, especially if you have an appointment booked. Tipping is always appreciated. So is buying the drinks at the bar. Still, each lady is different and that is something you may want to ask the ladies on your shortlist in an email. Sent from my SM-G930U using Tapatalk
a lot of the time, too--even in the ads--the girls themselves would say that they prefer to take things easy and have some time for all involved parties to acclimate to each other; feeling relaxed around each other benefits even non-sexual and instructional expriences anyway. if i could do things my way, you know, if i had all of Donald Trump's bank account for just this: i would, regularly, get kind of a Specialized Therapy session from Alice Little--in which sometimes we'd have sex at some point, some sessions we'd just talk and/or i'd ask for a massage; i'd book Ruby Rae to be my "arm candy", you know, that girl that i'd have around to just show off--i haven't decided if i'd want the GFE from her, or just the true escort experience; i'd book Vixen for those times when i just want that "friend who'll encourage me to be more out going sometimes" experience; i'd book Natasha Star, and defer to her who to add when i want more than just her, to just roll in the hay with; i'd book KiKi Lover for when i want the more sensual, serious, intimate treatment [more the mistress than the girlfriend] and i might pair her with Tiffany Hilton 'cause i've recently discovered what my type would be if i had only one "type". i'd want Jessica Johnson for my designated Girlfriend Experience and, still, i wouldn't want sex every date. for me, it'd be about the girls' presence rather than about their pussies; i'd want to take that first beat for everyone to acclimate, get a spiritual rhythm felt out, myself, so that things are that much more enjoyable for everyone, and not just for me. fortunately, i'm weird, and am getting a feel for these girls from just their ads, my interactions with them pre-trip, and from what they post on these boards. you know, like Ruby Rae: i didn't just read what she's got on her personal website; i've listened, and figure she'd be most comfortable with me if i book her for dates that i'm not asking for sex [not even more than kissing the back of her hand] during, at least for as long as i haven't gotten what teeth i have left removed and all replaced, because i get where she's coming from with her aversion to jacked up grills and poor oral hygiene; i might feel the same if i had her job. i would say, book the girl(s), you know, put the deposit in; if she asks you before you're sitting down with her what your idea for the date is, be truthful: tell her that you'd like to wait until you've met in the ranch and are sitting at the table to go over the brief description. you'll have to wait 'til beyond then, anyway, to talk pricing.
Most ladies will probably be okay with having a drink at the bar first. Just be mindful and respectful of time
Thanks Ruby! That’s definitely a consideration for us. We are aware that time is money for the ladies and want to respect that. Also want to make sure we are comfortable before jumping into it as this will be a first for us!
i've been figuring, for myself, that an eight hour budget out is a good number; it would provide [again, for me] the acclimation that you're talking about and, again, not waste anyone's time [this, i think, is the money number for "no rush" service]. another thing to, maybe, think about is taking the girl(s) out to dinner or lunch, depending on when you meet her(them)--even if you meet them at the ranch's bar [perhaps budget a tip for a ranch driver, so that you're not wasting gas? i don't know how at works] for this acclimation time, rather than coop everyone up in the ranches; i figure it would promote the relaxation of all. ... ... ... i admit that i think too much, so my idea might not be good; it might give you a good idea, though. Sent from my KFSUWI using Tapatalk
I always take an enormous amount of extra time - up to several hours - in a couples encounter - before going on the clock - to allow the lady to get comfortable with the whole situation and to allow myself to know how to gauge our activities and time.
Amy, Thank you so much for the reply. That was my thinking as well, just didn’t know how this was viewed by the ladies. I’m very sensitive to not wasting your valuable time or taking advantage of your desire to close the deal. However, as a couple who has never done this before I don’t know how else you get to a comfortable point with a third without taking some time together before finalizing everything. I certainly intend to tip the lady for her time at a minimum if we don’t end up booking a party with her! I appreciate you sharing your experience.
I'm sure you will be thrilled with your choice and have a fantastic time. I always tell people on both sides of the coin to "look for the similarities, not the differences". and everything will be fine. One word of caution though, one must make sure not to drink too much alcohol to settle the nerves, that can ruin everything....
For me personally, I don’t mind at all hanging out for a little while and having some PG rated conversation to find out if we will be a good fit. Stop by, meet the ladies, get Some good vibes, and go from there.
Hey Willow, Thanks for the reply. My wife and I have decided to spend an evening at the ranch on July 6th to help us select a lady. This is our first time and really all about her! She is much more comfortable getting to know someone in person and can’t really decide from profiles and emails. We don’t want to waste anyone’s time but we will make our decision that evening for a party on the 8th. We hope to build some chemistry and finish up any negotiations that evening so we can just enjoy our time on the 8th. Hopefully, we can see you that evening and talk for a bit! We’d love to buy you a drink if your available! Maybe we could message between now and then to discuss
I totally understand where your wife is coming from. I would love to meet you guys!! I’m at the love ranch now. I hope you can stop by.
Can a guy just stop in, unannounced, and have a few cocktails without a line up, talk to any ladies that happen to be around just to get comfortable and then maybe make a decision to party or not?
We will absolutely stop by on the 6th. Probably around 5 or 6pm. We are planning to make a “date night” out of it and hang at the bar and talk to whoever is available and just enjoy ourselves. Make sure to swing by if your not busy. We’ll buy you a drink!
Sure you can @Chief I've seen many guys do just that at all 4 Mound House brothels. Some guys just go to the bar to get a drink and wait for the different ladies to approach him. Just tell the staff member greeting you at the door that you want to have a drink first at the bar and not want to pick a lady from the lineup. You might also want to tell the greeter that you would rather have the ladies approach you first (maybe you are uncomfortable or shy and need to have a drink to "unwind" and calm down) but if you might be interested in some ladies that are 18-20, they can't talk to you at the bar so maybe take your drink to one of the sofa seats away from the bar and wait for some ladies to come up to you. If there is a lady sitting by herself or in a group, you can go up and ask them if you can sit next to them and you might start a conversation that way.
Unless you are already on an active paid outdate, the ladies can't come to you, you have to go to the brothel they are working at. From reading your reply to Willow, it sounded to me like you wanted Willow to come to you (at the BunnyRanch?) but you would have to go to the Love Ranch to just talk and hang out with her. That's the rules, the ladies have to stay in the houses they work at to meet guests, the guests have to go to the different brothels physically to meet the ladies. The exceptions are when there is a special occasion event to where the ladies rotate to the event then go back to the brothel they work at. I suggest you make plans to visit the 3 brothels on the Kit Kat Drive cul du sac, Kit Kat Ranch, Love Ranch North, and Sagebrush Ranch, and for a change of pace even visit the strip club Red Light Cabaret which all share the same parking area. By my saying rules, it might actually be the law, soliciting for prostitution can only be accomplished in the brothel that the lady is licensed to work in. She can't go to a brothel that she isn't licensed to be working at just to solicit or talk to a customer. Lyon County brothel ordinances are a bit different from some other counties, they don't allow the ladies to have multiple brothel working licenses at the same time.
Another cool thing to remember, if you're going to be visiting all the houses anyway, is that you can use any of the VIP rooms. Girls often come over to the KitKat with their dates, as we have the only VIP room with a full kitchen. So if you can picture yourself partying in one VIP room, but prefer a lady from another house, it can be arranged.
I had completely forgotten about this part and wondered why some of the ladies never approached. Thanks for the reminder isurfer!
