I few months back, I posted a review of my party with Sandi Benks and Remy Martin. But let me go back in time a little bit to a previous encounter with just Sandi... In the early Spring, I had the extreme pleasure of seeing two sides of Sandi Benks' sensuality. We had seen once before, and she had been wonderful about staying in touch via email. We had told each other some of our sexual fantasies in rather explicit detail, making our exchanges quite hot. Now it was time to turn those fantasies into reality. First, it was Sandi's turn. She had told me this fantasy of being awakened to a morning of romantic sex. I wanted to indulge her this time with HER wants and desires, We arranged the party the night before, so when I got there early in the morning, she was mostly asleep. Another lady escorted me into her room. I opened the window shade just a bit, letting the warm morning sunshine in. I put on some soft music, and quickly and quietly stripped and crawled into bed with Sandi and wrapped myself around her. I sprinkled her with gentle kisses and caresses. As she awakened from her slumber, she started to moan softly. I could feel her temperature rising. She pulled me tightly to her and placed my hand between her legs. She obviously was already aroused. Our passion grew stronger and stronger, and spent the next hour or so devouring each other. Then, she brought out her magic wand and showed me how I could help her to orgasm. Afterwards, we spent time talking and laughing. I had brought her some fresh coffee (she likes plain black coffee) and pastries (Gents – the ladies of the house love it when you bring pastries for everyone!). After a relaxing shower together, we planned that night, when it was my turn to have one of MY fantasies fulfilled. We said goodbye, but it wasn't for long. That evening, I picked her up for dinner. The weather had broken through and we looked for some outdoor dining (Sandi loves the outdoors). We ended up at Reds Old 395 in Carson City (really good barbecue!) After a great meal and more conversation, talking about everything under the sun, we headed back to LoveRanch. Sandi is experienced in BDSM, and I had never done anything in this area, but I was very curious. I like strong confident women, and I had brought her some handcuffs and bed restraints that I hoped we could use on each other. But I really wanted to learn from her. I asked her if she could be a “gentle Domme” during my first experience. She gave me a sly smile and said “maybe” and cuffed me to the bed. The next 30 minutes were both the most sexually stimulating and erotically agonizing of my life! She blindfolded me and I felt her caressing my legs with a flogger that I had brought her. She slapped the bed near my legs and then gently dragged the falls of the flogger across me over and over again. I could feel the rush of the wind generated by the whip. The sound of the “whack” against the bed drove me wild with carnal desire. She teased me relentlessly. I could feel her lips close to my skin, but she didn't touch me and wouldn't allow me to talk. Then she brought the flogger up to my outstretched arms and slowly caressed them with the suede tails – the feeling was incredible! Then she began with light gentle kisses at my fingers, working up to my wrist, my forearm, my shoulder and neck. I was writhing against the restraints in ecstasy! By the time she reached my lips we were both on fire! She finally removed my blindfold and released my arms so I could touch her, but climbed on top of me and rode me to one of the most incredible orgasms I had ever had! After I came down from my euphoria, we cuddled for awhile, basking in our mutual pleasure. Sandi is wonderful to talk to. I told her how grateful I was for her willingness to allow me to experiment in such a safe, non-judgmental environment. If you are interested in trying something different in the bedroom, the Ranches are definitely the best place to invite a lady to be your “sensei” – and Sandi is among the best! Sandi and I have already talked about our next encounter, where she can bring out more of her BDSM toys and she can be the “Sub.” I can't wait for our next lesson!
