{"id":2639,"date":"2017-02-09T01:20:07","date_gmt":"2017-02-09T01:20:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/?p=2639"},"modified":"2017-02-09T02:00:11","modified_gmt":"2017-02-09T02:00:11","slug":"bdsm-sex-slave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/bdsm-sex-slave\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips for Dominating Your BDSM Sex Slave"},"content":{"rendered":"

With the release of Fifty Shades Darker<\/i> this week, America\u2019s interest in BDSM is at an all time high. You see it on the news and read about it in magazines, but what you aren\u2019t witnessing is the reality of what it\u2019s like to really take part in a BDSM session. Here at America\u2019s Red Light District<\/span><\/a>, ladies like me are proficient in being not only dominant, but also submissive participants in bondage sex parties. The BDSM specialists at Dennis Hof\u2019s legal Nevada brothels cater to clients with a desire to take control and be sexually dominant. Many BDSM-acquainted working girls\u00a0like me are eager and willing to accommodate these fantasies and turn them into reality, as long as all parties agree to the rules and mores associated with dominating a licensed sex worker. Do you want to be Christian Grey? I\u2019ll be your Anastasia Steel, but there are a few things you should know before putting your Grey tie on…<\/span><\/p>\n

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Alice Little from Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Negotiations are Mandatory<\/span><\/h3>\n

It is imperative that we take the time beforehand to sit down and discuss our needs, desires, interests, as well as things that we are not comfortable with. It can be very helpful to write these things down. Think of it like a safety check list. The first thing you want to discuss is \u201csafe words.\u201d A safe word is a way to communicate important information without interrupting the scene. The most commonly used safety words are color coded: \u201cgreen,\u201d \u201cyellow,\u201d and \u201cred.\u201d \u201cGreen\u201d means all good,\u00a0 <\/span>keep going! \u201cYellow\u201d means slow down \u2014 this may mean turn down the intensity, or pause for a few moments. If someone calls \u201cyellow,\u201d you\u2019ll want to halt activity momentarily to discuss what needs to happen. Red means everything stops, any bondage is undone, and the scene is ended. It is very rare to use \u201cred\u201d if you\u2019re playing with safe words, because any potential problems can be addressed using \u201cyellow.\u201d An example of a time to call \u201cred\u201d would be if you were having an asthma attack (this has happened to me in the past), or a similarly unexpected medical emergency.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Other things to discuss during negotiation are prior experiences you may have had with BDSM, what things you enjoyed during those experiences, and what things you would change. This helps to let your sex worker know your experience level, as well as things that you aren\u2019t fond of. It\u2019d absolutely be worth it to take the time to negotiate in advance, as it will improve the quality of your scene tenfold. There are multiple books on BDSM<\/span><\/a> on the market, if you\u2019re seriously interested in researching BDSM prior to your arrival at the brothel.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is also the time to discuss aftercare: the period after our scene ends, and our adrenaline is still pumping. many times this involves a light snack, cuddles, and pleasant conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Alice Little is a professional sex slave<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Take Control<\/span><\/h3>\n

You\u2019re the Dominant. Establish what it is you are looking for! don\u2019t be afraid to speak up and communicate your preferences on everything from what I wear to how I should present myself before you. If you\u2019re unsure of how to do this, just ask \u2014\u00a0 <\/span>as an expert I\u2019ll be able to guide you through the process, and help you feel assured in your role as Dominant. Many men exploring domination for the first time are apprehensive about taking control and telling me what it is they really want me to do. After we negotiate and establish our parameters, don\u2019t be afraid to give in and take what is yours. Submission is a gift \u2014 when I kneel before you, and offer you my neck, I’m trusting you with my safety and well being. in return, I\u2019m asking for you to seize that control. The power exchange aspect of BDSM is incredibly erotic when we\u2019re both fully committed.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Alice Little – all tied up<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

A part of committing fully also involves taking on the persona you\u2019ve so chosen. If you\u2019re dominant, wear something that makes you feel in control. Use affirming body posture, and a confident tone of voice when giving commands. This gives me, the submissive, something to work of off and respond to. A great example of this is requiring me to respond to everything you say with \u201cYes sir.\u201d Those two words are simply electrifying to hear from a beautifully bound lady who\u2019s fully exposing herself to you, body and soul.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Alice Little is a professional Dom or Sub<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Enjoy the Ride<\/span><\/h3>\n

There is no place on earth other than the legal brothels of Nevada where every wish, whim, and fantasy is possible. Take advantage of your time here to fully indulge in every encounter that strikes your fancy. By making the most of your time with me, you\u2019ll have a life changing experience that you\u2019ll always be able to look back on and appreciate. There is so much that can be learned from being Dominant \u2014 that powerful feeling in your very core is one that you can translate back to the real world. The confidence you\u2019ll gain from a BDSM encounter with me doesn\u2019t end with our time together, it carries forward, so long as you continue to personify those dominant traits. BDSM is something I’m very passionate about. I could talk for hours about how a single session can and will change your life. I invite you to enjoy the ride, seize control, and become the powerful dominant person you\u2019ve always known yourself to be. I\u2019m willing to be the slave you\u2019ve been yearning for, and the teacher you need. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

With the release of Fifty Shades Darker this week, America\u2019s interest in BDSM is at an all time high. You see it on the news and read about it in magazines, but what you aren\u2019t witnessing is the reality of what it\u2019s like to really take part in a BDSM session. Here at America\u2019s Red … Continue reading “Tips for Dominating Your BDSM Sex Slave”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2639","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bdsm","category-featured"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2639","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2639"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2639\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2651,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2639\/revisions\/2651"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2639"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2639"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2639"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}