{"id":1613,"date":"2016-09-13T16:56:30","date_gmt":"2016-09-13T16:56:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/?p=1613"},"modified":"2016-09-13T23:29:34","modified_gmt":"2016-09-13T23:29:34","slug":"why-powerful-men-risk-being-caught-with-prostitutes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/why-powerful-men-risk-being-caught-with-prostitutes\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Powerful Men Risk Being Caught With Prostitutes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Huge numbers of men, and women, pay for sex on a regular basis.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>This is evidenced by the sheer enormity in the numbers of sex providers worldwide, listed in the personal section of newspapers, working the streets, in brothels and advertising on popular internet sites. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Let&#8217;s not forget all the employers (madams) who offer sexual services to a more exclusive clientele, as well as the countless sex providers who fly under the radar, operating by word-of-mouth only.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Sex workers are found in all countries, cities, towns and in the countryside.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Sex is a booming business, always has been and always will be.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The people who seek sexual services range from low level workers, to those at the highest echelons of society.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">For many, being caught with their \u201chand in the cookie jar\u201d comes with huge consequences; loss of family, love, career, respect, money, their hopes and dreams. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But for the high-profile client, the cost is often far greater. Powerful people have a lot to lose.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>There\u2019s more expectation for them to behave a certain way, and an enormous amount rides upon their maintaining a certain persona.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>If caught, their sexual \u201ctransgressions\u201d are plastered all over the news.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They lose their reputations, and are made into a public laughingstock for the whole world to see. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We see this happening time and time again with powerful men such as former President Bill Clinton; Governor Eliot Spitzer seeing escorts;<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>former Israeli President Moshe Katsav; Head of the World Bank Paul Wolfowitz; John Profumo, Britain&#8217;s Secretary of State for War seeing a call girl; New Jersey Governor James McGreevey; French President Fran\u00e7ois Mitterrand; Czech Republic President Vaclav Klaus; Detroit Police Chief Ralph Godbee; Former New York Rep. Anthony Weiner; former Director of the CIA and four-star general David Petraeus; Lockheed Exec Christopher Kubasik; Former South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford; Former U.S. Rep. Gary Condit; former Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick; U.S. Rep. Vance McAllister; Senator David Vitter who frequented a D.C. escort agency; former vice-presidential candidate John Edwards; Hugh Grant and Warren Sapp soliciting hookers. I could go on and on, but you get the picture.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1617\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1617\" style=\"width: 700px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1617 lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/IMG_3406A-e1473784848954.jpg\" alt=\"Bryce Stevens from Dennis Hof's Kit Kat Brothel\" width=\"700\" height=\"953\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 700px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 700\/953;\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1617\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bryce Stevens from Dennis Hof&#8217;s Kit Kat Brothel<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">With so many clear cut examples of what can happen if caught, one can\u2019t help but wonder why high-profile gentlemen continue taking such risks for sex?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And why paid sex, which carries with it an additional social stigma?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>To answer these questions, we need to explore the options available for men seeking pay-for-play sex here in the USA and examine the benefits of paid sex.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Unfortunately, in the USA, the only option for risk-free prostitution is to visit a legal Nevada brothel like the <a href=\"http:\/\/kitkatranch.com\/\"><span class=\"s2\">Kit Kat Ranch<\/span><\/a> where I currently practice my trade. A sexual encounter at\u00a0a legal brothel eliminates the risk of being caught because the client never has to worry about the place being raided by law enforcement, and their name discovered in a little black book.\u00a0 In all the history of legalized prostitution in Nevada, not one person has been \u201couted\u201d by a legal sex worker or brothel employee.\u00a0That\u2019s over 40 years of safe sex, and that\u2019s a pretty good track record.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">But, aside from these respected sex dens in Nevada, there are no other risk-free options for high-profile men to exercise their sexual desires with a working girl. The sex drive is a very powerful motivator that will compel men from all walks of life to seek out a way to satisfy their desires. If no risk-free option is available, most men will take the risk. It\u2019s that simple &#8211; the desire for the services sex workers provide is irresistible. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So to the other question: What makes paid sex such a desirable situation?\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\">As a courtesan who\u2019s worked with many high-profile gentlemen, here\u2019s what I\u2019ve learned.\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s1\">Men seek sex outside their relationship to solve a problem.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Here are 17 of the most common problems paid sex solves.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1618\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1618\" style=\"width: 700px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1618 lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/263Acrop-e1473785117116.jpg\" alt=\"Risk-Free-Escort\" width=\"700\" height=\"620\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 700px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 700\/620;\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1618\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bryce Stevens offers risk-free encounters at the Kit Kat Ranch<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<ol class=\"ol1\">\n<li class=\"li2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Sex at home has become a chore; weighted down by too many expectations, and burdens of daily life. Men want to play and have fun, free from expectations or burdens.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Call girls provide light hearted, carefree fun.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It\u2019s adult playtime.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\"><span class=\"s1\">Escorts provide headache free, drama free sex, with no judgments, condemnations, prying questions or jealousies that go with many relationships.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>One never need put on an act, feel dirty, or ashamed of their sexual desires since the paid sex worker has likely seen it all.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Anyone who\u2019s lived a hi-stress life knows you can\u2019t put a price on peace of mind.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\"><span class=\"s1\"> Powerful men have trouble letting go. They have to be on guard 24\/7.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>There\u2019s always someone ready to take what they have.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They need a place where they can decompress and let go.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Most of them get very little of this.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Visiting a courtesan is their one chance to totally let go and play like kids. Here they have romance, great conversation and great sex while I pamper and spoil them. They leave feeling like a million bucks, ready to conquer the world<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\"> Good escorts tend to see the inner person.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It\u2019s incredibly freeing to be with someone who accepts and loves you as is.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\"> I don\u2019t care how beautiful and sexy your mate is, at some point, sex with the same person gets boring.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Money and power opens the doors to try out a lot of women with no strings attached and this is very attractive.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\"> Men want a partner who thoroughly and unashamedly enjoys sex.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Someone who is dying to get fucked, and cannot get enough of his cock.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Courtesans are more uninhibited sexually.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As a result, they thoroughly enjoy sex and have no problem showing it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Many, including myself, are highly orgasmic.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Men love being able to satisfy a woman sexually.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\"><span class=\"s1\"> Sometimes men just want get their rocks off, without the pressure to perform, or please a partner.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Paying for sex ensures he can get the kind of sex he wants, when he wants, 24 hours a day, seven days a week, including holidays.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li3\"><span class=\"s1\"> GFE (girlfriend experience) courtesans, such as myself, deliver a instant connection with genuine intimacy.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A lot of busy, powerful men don\u2019t have time for a relationship.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Nor do they want the headaches of one.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>For them hiring a GFE courtesan is the perfect solution.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They get a beautiful companion for dinner, romantic outings, business functions, special events, sexy overnights or weekends in bed.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A quality GFE is sexy, classy, intelligent and sophisticated.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>She knows how to dress and act in public, so no one will guess the beautiful lady you\u2019re with is for hire.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Having a turnkey girlfriend far less time-consuming and dramatic than an actual girlfriend.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You avoid all the fighting, jealousy, questioning, drama and in-laws.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You\u2019re 100% free, your life and time are your own.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\"> Being surrounded by a lot of good \u201cpussy\u201d represents status, power and success.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Rich and powerful men pay huge bucks to have lots of good quality, varied pussy at their command, because of the power and leverage it provides.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Escorts are a regular aspect of doing business, ensuring new alliances, sealing business deals, and entertaining clients. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\"> Men want to feel desirable, virile, and potent.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Having their entire body ravished by a hot, sex starved female makes them feel alive, immortal. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">It can be very lonely and scary at the top. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Sometimes the men there just need comfort and closeness with no questioning or judging.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A good courtesan provides comfort, closeness and a sympathetic, understanding ear.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sex is great way for men to release stress quickly.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Paying for sex means he can have it whenever he wants, how he wants. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And he can experience all kinds of things he&#8217;d never get to do otherwise.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Plus, it&#8217;s often cheaper to pay for sex than go to the expense of wining and dining someone in the hopes of possibly getting laid.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>With a hooker, sex is a done deal.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sexual advances and suggesting unusual sex techniques and fetishes in the relationship are often met with rejection.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>With an escort he knows he won&#8217;t be rejected.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Courtesans are a great source of sexual advice.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Some men seek their services to learn or practice sexual skills.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Many first-time sex experiences are with prostitutes.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I&#8217;ve seen 30, 40 and 50 year old virgins.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Courtesans are more skilled than the average woman and men yearn to experience this, knowing they will learn from her abilities and thus increase their own sexual prowess.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Courtesans are a great way explore sexual fantasies.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A lot of men have fantasies they don\u2019t share with a significant other, because the typical women may find them too shocking. Paid sex lets them try out their fantasies in a safe, non-judgmental environment, with a willing, fun partner.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">For some men, seeing hookers is a kind of sport they participate in with their friends; it\u2019s a form of male bonding.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li2\"><span class=\"s1\">When one is unhappy or unfulfilled in their life, having a special lady appreciate them, value them, and treat them like a VIP helps fill the gap.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A courtesans sole job is to make the man she is with feel special.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1622 lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/MN8A0056crop-e1473785420649.jpg\" alt=\"Bryce-Stevens-Sex-Worker\" width=\"700\" height=\"1048\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 700px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 700\/1048;\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">As Marlene Dietrich said: &#8220;A country without brothels is like a house without bathrooms.&#8221;<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>Men will continue to seek the services of prostitutes, no matter the legal situation in their area. Perhaps it\u2019s time that legislators in other states in the USA think about adopting the Nevada model for regulated, risk-free prostitution. Such legislation would certainly save a lot of powerful clients the reputation damage that comes with being caught with an illegal sex worker.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Huge numbers of men, and women, pay for sex on a regular basis.\u00a0 This is evidenced by the sheer enormity in the numbers of sex providers worldwide, listed in the personal section of newspapers, working the streets, in brothels and advertising on popular internet sites. \u00a0 Let&#8217;s not forget all the employers (madams) who offer &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/why-powerful-men-risk-being-caught-with-prostitutes\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Why Powerful Men Risk Being Caught With Prostitutes&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":1616,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,53],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1613","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-featured","category-legal-brothels"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1613","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1613"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1613\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1631,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1613\/revisions\/1631"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1613"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1613"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bunnyranch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1613"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}