The Truth About Kinky Women!

Discussion in 'LoveRanch North Lovers Forum (Reno-Carson City)' started by Remy Martin, Sep 5, 2016.

  1. Remy Martin
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    You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.

    Let me ask you something:

    -Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says “I’m a guy. I’m looking for a girl. If you’re a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?”

    -Suppose you’re into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say “I’m a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and I’m looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting.”?

    -Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say “Hey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?”

    You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she’s somehow different from a “normal” woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.

    Submissives aren’t submissive to everyone
    You’ll hear submissives say “I’m submissive, but I’m not your submissive.” No matter how many times you’ve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.

    Kinky women are not whores
    Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them “whore,” but they’re not sex workers. They’re not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)

    Kinky women are not easy
    Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.

    Kinky women are not objects
    Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.

    Kinky women have feelings
    Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?
     
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    OMG!!!!!!! THANK YOU REMY............YOU HAVE SUMMED SOME OF THIS UP SOOOO WONDERFULLY...........

    SOMETHING ELSETO REMEMBER....... Submisson is a privledge and a gift both have to be earned to be be given. To expect the level of service offered by O you either have to invest the time, energy and truth to earn the trust needed to receive the "Gift" or you have to be prepared to be told "NO" when you beleive that you are entitled to that level of service.

    Those of us who can embody "O" do so out of joy and our own self gratification.... if you are lucky enough to be the recipient of that submission, realize and recognize that you have done something to earn a level of trust that you really do not want to betray. We can take away what we have bestowed.
     
  3. AdaMarie
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    These are amazing points Remy!! Thank you for posting this!!!
     
  4. GezabelleSinclaire
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    These set the truth perfectly Remy!!
     
  5. StevenL
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    I have said that a few times myself. Not all subs are the same. Not all single subs are happy to accept the first person who says "Submit to me NOW!!!" (and yes, there are Dominant women out there who will do that).

    HELL YES! Preach on! I swear, I should print this on flyers. So many subs Ive talked to have been accused of having "trust issues". Well, no shit we have trust issues...the things that some of us enjoy very much happens to put us in situations where we are trusting someone with our freaking lives. Speaking for myself, thats not something I casually do, because lets be honest...if I trust you enough to let you fully restrain me, the things I am willing to let you do to me will make 50 Shades of Grey look like a Disney cartoon. If I reach that point with someone, I only have 3 Hard limits, so yeah serious trust is mandatory.

    Thank you for putting this up, Remy
     
  6. shelbystar
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    Thank you Remy! Steven you brought up some good points to. I agree!
     

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