How to convince the wife

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  1. UCP
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    I would like some advice from the ladies on how to approach bringing the wife in and successfully getting around to a threesome. She has mentioned that it would be fun to stop by for a drink sometime and we are local to Carson City so that is easy. My fear is the constant fear of coming across as some sort or pig :oops: or creating drama. Somehow it needs to be her idea on me being the supportive husband is just complying. And that is where I guess I need the help. Thanks for the advice! :?:
     
  2. torontoral
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    Why don't you just start with the drink? Bring her around, let her see what the set-up looks like and how friendly the ladies are, and let her make up her own mind.

    Just one piece of advice: You have to ring the gate to get in the door, and if you ring once, you'll automatically get a lineup.

    If you want to make it less stressful for her, ring the bell twice and when you get there, just tell them you're there for a drink. As you sit at the bar, chances are other people will also be coming in, so you'll automatically see what the lineup is all about, as will she, and maybe it will pique her curiosity to the point where she wants to try that threesome!

    Good luck! [smilie=hi ya!.gif] [smilie=hi ya!.gif] [smilie=hi ya!.gif]
     
  3. JadeCapri
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    I know we spoke before about this, but it's a good question that others might have so here we go.

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  4. OK. Here's the deal:

    Women need to have the control (or at least feel as though they do) when a husband or boyfriend wants to initiate a threesome. There have been many occasions where I have directly experienced this in the lifestyle swinger scene.

    For your wife/girlfriend, approach the subject as if you want to expand on THEIR pleasure. "Oh, I would really like to have me and another woman concentrate on you and your pleasure" or perhaps even introduce orgy/threesome porn.

    If you make her feel comfortable and be patient, let her lead then you will be surprised how quickly her curiosity will pique.

    GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN!
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  5. I'd suggest coming in one night for a drink with her, I'd recommend stopping in on a weekend while we are hosting either our DJ Night on Fridays, or Karaoke Night on Saturdays. With the larger crowd it is more of a social event that can make you both easily relaxed and get to know the ladies we have in the house, we have the most girls on shift on the weekends so you will get the chance to meet mostly everyone for that time being. :wink: [smilie=heart fill with love.gif]
     
  6. breastlvr
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    You could also rent the Cathouse DVDs and have her a couple of the shows with you. Then, ask her what she thought of it (make sure at least one of the shows has a scene with a couple partying together).
     
  7. Great idea - renting or watching the prior episodes of the" Cat House" is a great idea to see if the wife is interested is a threesome....
     
  8. JadeCapri
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    JadeCapri Genuine•Embracing•Assisting conquer inadequacies

    Great idea felix. Just to see how she feels about it, but keep in mind that Dennis has other houses with ladies that are not on the show, so look up http://www.loveranch.net as well before making a decision. http://www.jadecapri.com See you soon [smilie=heart fill with love.gif]
     
  9. Blindfolds work well. :) ;) xoxo [smilie=heart fill with love.gif]
     
  10. Just make her feel comfortable:)[​IMG]
     
  11. shelbystar
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    shelbystar Looks gets you, my personality brings you back!

    Just bring her in for a drink and let the ladies go to work! She has to find the right one that makes her comfortable!!!
     
  12. Take a ride up to Virginia City. Mention the Bunnyranch as you drive by our sign.

    On the way home, ask her if she'd like to stop in just out of curiosity.

    If not, maybe just a "drive by" in the parking lot.

    Maybe let her wait in the car while you are in our parking lot, tell her that you will take a peek inside and then go back out to the car and tell her everything looks real nice, that she would like it and that we have a real nice souvenir shop. Almost all women will welcome an opportunity to shop and buy buy gifts.

    Once you are inside, all of our friendly, fun and warm dispositions will do their magic!

    Also, you can say that you read somewhere that Air Force Amy gives free guided tours, no obligation, and she just might go for that as I am not very intimidating to women. :p

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  13. I think I'm the only one you intimidate Amy. :mrgreen: :p
    I am working on that though :twisted:
     
  14. Ha ha! Dennis & I and some of the ladies were just jokingly reflecting on how you could say whatever you want to someone, no matter how destructive, mean or hurtful, as long as you added an "lol" at the end of it. :mrgreen: :p lol

    Boo! :p
     
  15. Omg! Amy, that's funny!! :D [smilie=heart fill with love.gif]

     
  16. Its the best most drama free way to have a threesome!!

    And since the idea of your wife and ANY female is gonna be over the top hot,

    Let her have most of the authority over WHO you party with.

    It'll make her feel in control and at ease to get to pick the lucky lady! :wink:

    Not to mention if you propose the idea as if its something you want to do FOR HER

    It is more so something for you two to explore TOGETHER rather than something

    she is allowing because you want to do it.
     
  17. shelbystar
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    shelbystar Looks gets you, my personality brings you back!

    You should bring her! I have new wives with their husbands come and party all the time. I always tell the lady it is all about her. She is in charge. After the party gets going and the barriers come down, you would be surprised what happens!!!
     

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