BDSM in the Brothels- What you need to know

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  1. AliceLittle
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    AliceLittle Alice Little, Bunny Ranch

    Originally from my blog http://www.thealicelittle.com/blog/brothelbdsm

    BDSM- Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism, is also known as Kink, Fetish, and by a variety of other names. This particular category of activities tends to involve a variety of sex toys- such as floggers and whips, as well as restraints- such as ropes, chains, or handcuffs. Such activities are lots of fun, and bring great variety into the bedroom. After being popularized in the mainstream by the 50 Shades of Gray trilogy, there has been a dramatic increase in such activities here at the brothel. As a professional BDSM Educator and Presenter, I feel its my responsibility to give you all the information you need to know about BDSM in the Brothels!

    1. Experience Matters
    Unlike a typical party, experience really matters in the BDSM world! You're going to want to seek out a lady such as myself who specializes in BDSM, and has the experience to back that specialty up. Having presented at over 50 events nationally and internationally, I'm more than qualified to fulfill your kink fantasies! There are legitimate risks to working with an inexperienced person, because many of the tools of the trade can cause injury or marks if improperly used. The best way to determine a lady’s genuine experience is to ask questions- what toys does she own, what specific kink activities is she familiar with, and what recommendations does she have for your time together?

    2. Dominant, Submissive, or Switch?
    In BDSM, there are distinct roles for the participants. The Dominant is the one giving the action- be that typing the person up, paddling them, inflicting pain, etc. The Submissive is the person that is receiving the action- flogging, spanking, etc. Then there’s the third category- Switches. A Switch is someone who can be either Dominant or Submissive, depending on what has been negotiated. You'll want to know if the lady offers the particular type of session that you're looking for! Personally, I'm a Switch, so I'm versatile enough to take on whichever role is best suited to your desires.

    3. Negotiations
    No, this isn't a typical negotiation where we simply discuss activities and price, then move on to the fun. With BDSM parties, you're going to want to spend a bit longer going over the details. Who is going to fulfill which role? Does either participant have injuries or medical conditions to be aware of? For example, if you have low blood sugar, its worth mentioning this to your partner so they can prepare appropriately should there be a problem. What toys are to be used? It's important to review each piece of equipment item by item to ensure that both parties are comfortable with them being used in the party. What are the Safe Words? Safe Words are used to stop the scene- most choose to use the stoplight system. Green means all is good to go. Yellow means slow down and lower the intensity. Red is a full stop- all activity must stop. By making safety a priority, you're going to have a much better experience!

    When planning a BDSM party, it is best to contact the lady in advance so you can discuss your scene ideas, what items you'd like to have available, as well as establish rapport. My BDSM clients have found that taking the time to exchange a few emails back and forth greatly enhances their experience! BDSM can bring a whole range of excitement, arousal, and enjoyment to a party. If you're interested in such an encounter, I encourage you to e-mail me directly so we can begin planning our time together!
     
  2. PhoenixRising
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    PhoenixRising Well-Known Member

    now that are thoroughly informed you can relax and embrace your "kink" in the safest/ most satisfying way [smilie=happy.gif]
     
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  4. AliceLittle
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    AliceLittle Alice Little, Bunny Ranch

    I'm glad this post has been to helpful! I've gotten a number of emails asking for other posts like this- what topic suggestions do you have?
     
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    cumishaamado THE ULTIMATE PSE AND I LOVE TEACHING VIRGINS

    Awesome information!!! Well written!!![smilie=heart fill with love.gif][smilie=heart fill with love.gif][smilie=heart fill with love.gif]
     
  6. LeahJaymes
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    LeahJaymes Trini Bombshell

    A definite 'Must Read' For anyone that is interested in having any kind of bdsm party. Thank you for posting this, these are all good things to consider.
     
  7. One thing you forgot to cover what if you can't tell theperson your with to slow down or stop, because your hands are tied behind your back and you have a ball gag in your mouth? It would seem rather difficult to tell your partner to slow down or stop if your hands are tied behind your back and you can't take the ball gag out of your mouth to speak
     
  8. CeeMia
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    CeeMia Well-Known Member

    Interesting and informative post, great responses lady. This helps as I am not an expert on BDSM. I have been a dom a couple of times which involved a wooden paddle and a man bottom. The first experience felt a bit weird but after several sessions, I actually enjoyed it.
     
  9. Great Information for the uninitiated. ;)
     
  10. Amber Adams
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    This is great Alice! Well put, I cannot think of anything else to add.
     
  11. AliceLittle
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    AliceLittle Alice Little, Bunny Ranch

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    AliceLittle Alice Little, Bunny Ranch

  13. Sakaki
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    Sakaki Well-Known Member

    Im not into whips but i wouldnt mind being tied down.
     
  14. Funny I was thinking the same thing.
     
  15. Ashlyn Sparks
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    Ashlyn Sparks Vintage Courtesan

    You are so talented and knowledgeable. If someone is looking for BDSM I know where to send them!
     
  16. I've not gone to far into the "Kink" side of things personally. Besides ropes and handcuffs that is. But it's awesome that you help people looking to explore this side of themselves Alice.
     
  17. AliceLittle
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    AliceLittle Alice Little, Bunny Ranch

    Well I would love to help you explore anything you are comfortable with. Or maybe something you want to be more comfortable with <3
     
  18. Ashlyn Sparks
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    Ashlyn Sparks Vintage Courtesan

  19. I've always wanted to meet a professional for kink play Miss Alice ;)
     
  20. AliceLittle
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    AliceLittle Alice Little, Bunny Ranch

    Having someone with experience can help in a major way. It allows you to avoid some of the pit falls that happen when trying something new.
     
  21. I want you to be my new master Alice... wait where did that come from... Hmmmm... :)
     
  22. Very good insight on your blog there Alice.
     
  23. RoseReznor
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    RoseReznor Nine Inch Nails Rose Reznor @ Kit Kat Ranch

    Love it! @AliceLittle I think most people would enjoy the world of BDSM, they are just afraid due to the rough porn that shows the more extreme sport action. It doesn't always need to be too rough or too soft.. It's all about learning what you like... If you don't try it you won't know if you like it... Kisses, Rose [smilie=hi ya!.gif]
     
  24. AliceLittle
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    AliceLittle Alice Little, Bunny Ranch

    That is very true RoseReznor, I appreciate you saying that!
     
  25. I really like this thread it is very informative
     
  26. BDSM in the brother is a completely different experience. Thank you Alice for the blog.
     

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