Lock on the bedroom door? Check. Lustful twinkle in your eye? Check. The must-haves for better sex are pretty simple. The must-knows are right here. Feel free to add your own!!



Here is the first one:

Every Woman Has a Surefire Happy-Making Position

By all means, try new things, mix it up, find an alternate use for your baby's exersaucer when she's asleep if it adds to the variety — but figure out your no-fail move or position so you know you can always have an orgasm when you need one.

That Position May Change

Maybe in your misspent youth you were all about acrobatics and funky props, but now you strive for a deep connection with your guy. (Or maybe it's the other way around!) What you crave, both physically and emotionally, can shift over time, says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Yale School of Medicine. Pay attention to what you're feeling (or not feeling) and adapt to your new normal.

I totally agree on this one! I love sex on my period.

Good stuff, Tamela!

Well, I'm not a woman, but this is interesting stuff!

I'd be happy to explore and help you find better orgasms.

Whoo hoo...me too

He Doesn't Have a Flaw-O-Meter

That would be you scanning your body for an errant pudge or a dimple in the wrong place. "During sexual arousal, men are experiencing such a neurochemical cocktail rush, they're really just caught up in the intoxication of it all," says REDBOOK Love Network expert and sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. In other words, he's too overwhelmed with joy to notice your "flaws." Put aside your body angst and you'll soon be having as much fun as he is

Besides, the physical "flaw" or "flaws" you may feel you have may be invisible (or irrelevant) to your lover - or may even a turn-on to him/her!

Warmest regards,
Speed Racer

Very nicely said doll

Very true

Nice !!!

Sex in a Soft, Clean, Comfy Bed Is Underrated

You're supposed to want to do it on the kitchen floor, in the airplane bathroom, and hanging from your light fixtures. Bah! There's no shame in enjoying your good sheets.

I like "drinking in" the vision of a woman, most get self-critical and think we're noticing flaws, but in actuality we really are appreciating a woman's body and the moment. Not to say there aren't some crude individuals out there who like to crush a woman's self image, but for myself it's enjoying the woman and the moment.

We are all beautifully different

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
And sometimes you want to stop and stare so that you can
commit the vision to a permanent memory.

Ladies PLEASE listen to this one! You are much more critical of your bodies than we are. So much of sex is in the head, keep that in mind, its the seduction, the intoxication of you that we're caught up in. We most certainly are NOT judging your looks, accept this and join in the fun!!!

Its so true..Thanks tired frog!!

Nicely said

Sex Clichés Are Clichés for a Reason: They Work!

Get a hotel room. Have date night. Take a bubble bath. For God's sake, buy some scented candles already!

Yes..he a way with words

Learning to express oneself was an art I learned...
Too many times I was speechless and fumbled around with my words
so it's paid off.

Everyone Else Is Not Having More (or Better) Sex Than You Are

There is no "normal" amount we should all aspire to, no magic number of times per month that signifies your relationship is hunky-dory. There's only one question you need to answer: Are you having enough sex for you?

Awww.. thanks TIred Frog!

And Tamela, great thread by the way!!!

very nice!

keep the tips coming!

Will do

Thanks CeeCee

So true, TiredFrog. I have seen that from some of the newer ladies at the ranch, they don't feel like they have the "perfect" body and try to even apologize. Even some seasoned veterans turn the lights down low, either consciously or subconsciously trying to hide or minimize what they feel are "imperfections" of their body. Perfect looks or body is not important to me. I'm a guy, if a girl that I'm partying with has nipples, vagina and clit, I'm good. Sometimes I like to see and touch those parts too, total darkness in her bedroom is not a turn on for me, I need some visual. Everybody is different, and maybe some guys are going for the "perfect" model look, but I look more for personality, "chemistry" and a bit of the unknown.

So very true Isurfer

Great Tips

Thanks Angelina!! Anything you would like to contribute??

15 Skills Every Woman Should Master


1. Change a tire. And no, using a can of “Fix a Flat” doesn’t count. Here’s an excellent YouTube tutorial — but I won’t judge you if carry a some “Fix a Flat” with you for back up.

2. Change your oil. It’s silly to pay someone $25 to do something that’ll take you 15 minutes to do yourself. Besides, then you can re-enact that hot Rihanna video.

3. Satisfy yourself. And your partner. A-hem. Cough. Wink and nudge.

4. Tell a joke to your boss/nephew/BFF/lover. Here‘s a great joke-telling “how to.” This is my go-to joke: slightly cheeky, unexpected, and appropriate for mixed company.

5. Say “no”/change the subject/turn someone down with class. My favorite way to deal with awkward/unwelcome questions is to say, “Oh, you! Now tell me about your [insert new topic here].”

6. Master a signature dish. This is mine. It’s crazy easy, super delicious and seems to impress everyone who eats it. I always spoil it by telling them it’s just the recipe off the back of the couscous box.

7. Invest your money. If we can see past her bizarre penchant for blazers, Suze Orman can probably teach us a thing or two.

8. Travel with only a carry on. Yes. For realz. I know you can do it! Here’s a tutorial on packing in your purse!

9. Do one choreographed dance. The Electric Slide. The Roger Rabbit. The Tango. I’m working on Thriller.

10. Look good in a photo. Here’s how I do it: tilt my head down slightly and look up through my eyelashes, angle my head to showcase my jawline, and keep my arms a bit out from my body to avoid Mashed Bicep Syndrome. Sure, all my photos look shockingly similar — similarly awesome, that is!

11. Hook up a computer. Now I know you were looking for an excuse to invite the cute IT guy over, but why don’t you just go to Comic-Con with him instead?

12. Know which direction you’re facing. And if you figure this out, will you teach me? I never know what to do when people tell me to turn north or west. What are you talking about? My only settings are right and left and even those are sometimes tenuous.

13. Make conversation with anybody. Being able to talk to people will get you just about everywhere. When in doubt, ask them questions about themselves, then nod sagely. Seriously, this skill alone can get you through three hours of conversation. Here‘s a good tutorial on conversation-making.

14. Take a compliment. Even if you don’t believe the compliment or you get all full of blushes and stammers, you can just say “Thanks!” or “Ohhh, you flatterer!”

15. Negotiate. For a raise, for a car, for a house. Here’s a great podcast series on negotiating in different situations. Yes, many of us turn inside out at the prospect of asking for a lower price or higher pay rate, but let’s suck it up and do it anyway. We deserve the best, right?

Oh and heres the link how to change a tire! Thanks Thunderstorm!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDjbz5TrHJA

Bikini-Ready Beauty Secrets

Whether you want to prep for a mid-winter beach vacay or get a jump on bikini season after seeing Sports Illustrated swimsuit model Kate Upton's sexy cover, these tricks will leave you smooth, bronzed, and gleaming all over.

A Woman Should Have .....

Enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to...

Every woman should own a strand of real pearls

Every woman should have that one friend they call at any hour, and have that number memorized. Just saying because now police confiscate your phone.

Knowing how to be quiet and not argue

Agreed! So classic and sexy

Aha!

every woman needs to know how to cook at least one thing.

Every woman should have one routine thing for themselves (aside from masturbation ) that lets them relax and achieve some peace of mind.

That's why I take so many bubble baths

I'm thinking you need a little company, and beforehand a great massage. Just sayin'

We need to learn how to give ourselves orgasms...the more we do it the more we can have

and a helping hand or two doesn't hurt either

I'm always willing to assist you in any and every capacity.

I will definitely keep that in mind

Every woman should know how to drop it like its hot! LMAO!

Every woman should know how to put a condom on with her mouth

Every woman should know how to give herself a breast exam and know where to get a CA-125 test (cancer cell count test)

Those things are so important!

Change the oil on her car (probably already said)
Change a tire
Compile her own resume
How to protect their online identity and know how to resolve credit issues.

Just a few things women need to know how to deal with instead of depending on others, which sometimes backfires.

How to give a good blow job

How to put a pair of garters on. Remember the bow or rose goes in the front.

How to put chains on your tires (if you live by us lol) I learned!

love this!


Stamina!

Good doesn't even begin to describe your blow jobs.

And how would u describe them??

I wonder how many bunnybabes have that talent

I know I do

[quote="tamelalee"]I know I do

Before I go on deployment I must see if you can put your money where mouth is!

Hehe please do

UMM>>>

how to RIDE!!!

'FUCKING AWESOME!' was the first thing that came to mind, but I try not to swear in front of a lady.

Hehe ill take that

This girl makes me wet.... Just saying!

You do the same to me

She makes me hard... Just saying!

I GET WET AND HARD WITH YOU TWO AROUND!

JUST SAYING...........

Every woman should know a few classic or ballroom dances so she can be someone's dance partner.
Just sayin

Would you be my teacher?

YES!! You don't have to ask twice.

Good

Every woman should know what to pack when traveling alone. Especially in the winter.
Water, energy/granola bars, flashlight, blanket, gloves and by all means let someone know the route you're taking.

love this answer.. very true!

I love mixing it up in the bedroom it makes the sex better!

Safety first

Gotta keep them guessing

I love learning naughty tips from a beautiful sex goddess

How to manscape/most men don't so we should show and teach them hw to better maintain, since we do it daily (-:

Hehe some of us know and love to return the favor.

Every woman should know how to come up with a financial plan/retirement plan.
Ahem, being Donald Trump's mistress doesn't count as a retirement plan either.

I'm so glad you mentioned this, I completely agree!

Be your own research source. Nothing better than knowing first hand.

❤ ❤Happy Valentine's Day!❤ ❤

Oo really

Most definitely, you should see my technique....it's very erotic and relaxing.

Mmmm sounds like it I would like to

I'm truly a Renaissance Man, and would love to show you all my talents.

Every woman should know how to romance him (-:

Every woman should know how to balance a checkbook.

Every woman should know how to cook

Every woman should know who her real friends are. Just sayin'

Every woman should know how to forgive

Every woman should know how to accessorize.

Every woman should know how to smile