In need of some good kissing tips?

Believe me, mastering the art of kissing necessitates a warning: Deep kissing can become seriously addictive. You would be surprised to discover what four lips and two tongues can get up to with a little bit of creativity.

The art of kissing promises to make lip-locking way more than an appetizer. It can be the main course - and certainly a continuing pleasure during sex. Deep kissing models the very essence of sensuality and intimacy and transports you to a shared place where passions are free to rise.



Good Kissing Tips and Techniques

1. First, always carry a mint. Your breath and the way your mouth tastes can make or break a kiss.

2. Make sure your lips are soft and moist. First contact feels good if it's as light as a butterfly landing. Lips are one of the most responsive erogenous zones on the body, so make full use of its erotic magic.

3. Deep kissing is most welcome when you start off gently. Trace your tongue around your lover's lips and tenderly suck or nibble the lower and upper lips individually. Softly part them with your tongue. Find the tip of their tongue and play with it. Enclose it and suck its whole length like an ice lolly. Tenderly suck on it, play with it and circle the tip with your tongue. Use your tongue to discover the underside of their tongue. Up the ante by pushing your tongue into your lover's mouth to explore the roof of their mouth, which is another particularly sensitive area.



4. Find that perfect balance between not too dry, but certainly not too wet and sloppy. Be careful not to open your mouth too wide. It's also good to remember that men prefer wetter kisses and more tongue action than most women, so adjust your style to please your partner.

5. Don't forget to use your hands to enhance the experience. Cup your partner's face and caress their features with your fingers. Press your lower body into theirs, but don't get too distracted from what your lips and tongue are up to. That's where the main action is!

6. Chances are good that you'll both be thoroughly aroused by this time. Keep varying your tongue movements: slow then fast, soft, hard, then hold still and let them do the work for a while. Make sure it lasts a good, long time.

7. Of course, you don't need to stay on the lips. Travel around your lover's face, to the cheeks, the space just under the ears... Trace the line of their jaw, gently kissing, gliding your tongue across the skin and then lightly exhaling on damp skin.



8. Play with different kissing techniques, including butterfly kisses, lip brushing, deep tongue kissing and love bites.



10. For something different, combine different tastes. Try dusting your lips in icing sugar or cocoa powder. Pass liquids from mouth to mouth, for example champagne.



11. Be inventive with your kisses. Have fun with kissing by playing with different temperatures. Keep ice and a hot drink handy to dip your tongue into before exciting your lover with the contrasting sensations.

12. Explore every part of the body using just your mouth and tongue. Devour every inch for a taste of the very essence of their chemistry.



Kissing is a sensual experience to be savoured as both a gift to your lover and to yourself. So what are you waiting for? Go kiss!

And studies have shown there are pheromone glands in the upper lip, below the nose, so that when kissing, you are also subconsciously searching for the mutual attraction of your mate.

There is so much about the kiss that is vital to a relationship and feelings between two people. I look forward to kissing Tamela, that's for sure!!!

I've found kissing and foreplay are a lost art. Nothing more enticing than a great kiss and being able to sustain that energy instead the rush to the action.

Draw it out, make them yearn for more and almost become the one insisiting on progressing to the next step. There is a fine line between an artful lover and merely a participating party. Timing, understanding and approach.

Love the lesson Tamela, we should definitely compare notes

If your lover has email then send an email every hour stating where on his/her body you are sending a kiss. Make each one short but sweet. Have the final one be on the lips. Then end it with telling them that this body language will continue in person where it left off when they arrive. If your lover has voice mail or text pager do the same. If your lover has none of the above then put it in hiding places of what they take to work... briefcase, lunch bag, etc.

Kissing tip of the day

Frozen Grape Kiss

When it is a hot summer day and you are ready for something new. Freeze some grapes, slip one in your mouth secretly, so when you go for the french kiss it will be cool and yummy.

Treasure Trail

Before engaging in a moment of blissful kissing, have your kissee pick out a fragrance of his choice. Then have him spray the fragrance evenly in a trail over his body leading to his lips. (Spray lightly to avoid headaches.) Follow the trail with kisses until youve reached the treasure at the end-his lips!

This can also be done when reusing the Swarovski Crystals! Just use body glue to apply them in a trail leading to where ever you want kissed!

Wild Ride Kiss

When you are at an amusement park with your love, go on a ride that will turn you upside down. Once youre upside down, kiss your love and dont stop until youre upright again.

Dazed Love

Look at the one you loves face and wait until she notices... normally she will ask what are you staring at... reply with the most beautiful person I have ever gazed upon... then look into her eyes lovingly and kiss gently, softly, slowly...

Massage A Kiss

Start with a massage at the base of your loves back. Slowly work your way up, sporadicaly placing kisses on their back. When you reach their nape of the neck work your way around to their nose, and then put a long, slow kiss right where it counts. What better way to relax and get into the mood? Your partner will love you for it too!

The Giggle Away

When a guy/girl is trying to kiss you, turn away and give them a little giggle. Do it a couple times just to get them annoyed then plant one on em. After a while it just turns into a cute little game.

Just wondering if you've ever played "Kiss Tag" with anyone?
The rules are if you're in the same room you can't "tag" that person back right away, you have to wait a few minutes (you decide on the time length). Whoever is "it" is the kisser and the kissee can only stop the kisser by putting both hands on them.

This causes the kisser to be creative, sneak up behind them or find them in the kitchen busy with their hands, and thus it gets creative and very much becomes foreplay.

Tingly Romantic

While sitting next to your lover in the car or anywhere else lean, over and lightly kiss them on the very bottom tip of their earlobe. This always sends goosebumps up and down my babys body.

Boring Movie

Go to a really boring movie, and in the middle of it, when you are both about to fall asleep, turn to the you other and say This is a really boring movie, how about we spice things up a bit?

Radio Romance

Find any song in your collection that involves the word kiss. Together in the dark listen to the song and kiss everytime the song says kiss. Softly at first and then more passionately toward the end.

Elevator Love

Race in separate elevators to the top of a high-rise building. Once there, ride in the same elevator back down, stopping to kiss on every floor...regardless of other passengers.

Starry Eyes

This can pretty much work anywhere but it even feels amazing on your front porch. On a beautiful clear night when the moon is shining and the stars are visible...sit out in the yard, front porch, beach, where ever with your love and star gaze. Suggest making a wish on the star. Both of you close your eyes and wish for whatever it is you want. Begin by asking what the other person wished for. Once your deep desires have been traded, lean in for a slow sensual romantic kiss that will top the charts!!!

. "A kiss is a lovely trick, designed by nature, to stop words when speech becomes superfluous."
--Ingrid Bergmen

Its All About Skill

Kisses are one of the most romantic ways to express yourself to your partner. This tip should help you make the kiss exceed expectations. Go up to your partner. Stay looking at her while you tell her the emmotions you feel. When you look into eyes, make sure that youre not staring. Glance at her lips or even to the floor quickly.. keep her comfortable. Then, put your hands on her waist, behind her neck, or just hold hands. Slowly approach her and start kissing her with your mouth barely open. This is when it gets romantic. And then slowly open your mouth a little more and lick the areas around her gums and the roof of her mouth. DONT GO IN TOO DEEP! That totally kills the moment. You should both know when the kiss has died out. Try to keep the kiss alive and different for as long as possible. As you pull away from her, breathe each others breath and hold her in your arms.

Just Right!

When you just want that one kiss to be the sweetest yet, not to mention romantic, you plan a perfect evening, just a way for the two of you to be alone and with each other. Look deep into his eyes and without saying anything lean in as if you were going to kiss him. But before you do, move your lips up until you reach his forhead. Give him a soft gentle kiss there and do the same all the way down his face until you again reach his mouth. Lay a small quick kiss on his lips and than take you index finger and outline the shape of his lips. If he smiles (which he should) lay a nice long kiss on him.

A tip for the guys....

Want to make a woman long and yearn for that kiss.

As your sitting with her and enjoying a lovely conversation kiss the back of her hand as you hold it. Start at her finger tips. On the next kiss, kiss her knuckles. On the next one kiss the area just above her wrist. One the next kiss take her hand and turn it sideways and kiss the underside of her wrist, there are several nerve endings there and the intensity will increase. At this point kiss the crook or her neck or just under her earlobe, again more nerve endings. When you hear her breath become more deliberate then slowly kiss her full on the lips and let the kiss linger.

Believe me guys it works.

Traveling kisses

If you or your mate are traveling somewhere out of town give them a pack of hard candy( doesnt melt as easily) with enough candy in it for one each night. Tell them to eat one candy every night at a certain time like 6:00PM( your home standard time) and you will do the same that way you will both know what each others kisses taste like at that exact moment every night that they or you are gone.

Red Light Special Kiss

When you are driving around town, steal a kiss from your significant other at every stop light you go to. See how many kisses you can give them. It makes taking the long way home even more fun.

Toll Collector

Arrange the furniture so your normal seat is along your loves path to another part of the house. Collect the toll of a kiss every time your love passes by.

ABCDEFG...

When tounge kissing (making out, frenching) try making the letters of the alphabet with your tounge! It makes it a little more interesting! You can also take turn guessing what letter it is!

The Slam Dunk

Does your loved one ignore you during sporting events? Watch the basketball game with your loved one. It may be a bit confusing at first but, its pretty easy to catch on. At every break in the game, just grab him, and plant a kiss. Short breaks give little kisses (20 second time outs, etc) and long breaks give long kisses. Then when the game resumes just move back over to you side of the couch, and remain calm. He will have a whole new appreciation of the game and you.

Televised Kissing

whenever you and your Love are alone in an elevator or near an ATM machine, make sure you kiss for the camera.

Movie Madness

Make a video of your favorite love scenes from movies. Watch them with the one you treasure most and at the end, recreate your own version of one the most passionate kisses from the movies.

Re-living Your First Kiss

Take your love to the place that you first kissed, take his/her hand, get down on your knee or something extremely old-fashioned (i.e.-Sit on a blanket under a tree, just make it special) and tell your love why you love them so much and what made you fall for them. Then take their hand in yours, and kiss it gently and make it as soft as you possibly can. Then ask permission to kiss them on their lips. Everything after that is up to you!

Pididle Kiss

While in the car with your love, look for pididles (a car with only one headlight). When you see one, yell, Pididle, and that means that your love has to kiss you!

Sunday Sundae Smooch (The Triple SSSmooch)

Should be done preferably on a Sunday, hence the title. On Sunday(perhaps after dinner), tell your love that its time for dessert and that you are in the mood for a specialty- a Sunday Sundae. Go to the kitchen, grab several dessert items: - chocolate topping - whipped cream - sprinkles - cherry (to finish it off) - whatever else you wish to add to make the SundaySundae unique Proceed to apply toppings to the dessert(your lovers lips), tell them they are dessert, and start to lick away the toppings. when you get rid of all the topping, say heres the best part- your lips, and sock them with a kiss out of this world!

Always

Kiss. Always. To say hello, good night, etc. Nothing makes my day brighter when I get a sweet kiss from the one I love. Kiss just to kiss. Just to show your special someone that you love them and that they are yours forever and always.

Liplock Kiss

Get really close to your partners mouth and just trace their lips with your tongue. Then go in for the mother of all kisses. For extra fun, use powdered sugar or something sweet on the lips.

Flying High

Get your love to swing with you on a swing set...be sure to sit on their lap. Just when you are getting as high as you two can, turn around and surprise your love with a sweet, long kiss. The feeling of kissing while flying through the air will be pure magic!!!

Pretend youre in a movie!

Okay, heres an idea. For all you guys and gals who are fans of big, on-screen kisses, you can make just as big a scene. Imagine you are Kate Winslet in Titanic or Drew Barrymore in Never Been Kissed and find a similar setting and to what the actors themselves would to on the big-screen and just go for it! After all, the Academy does give big awards to big kissers!

Timer Kissing

Set a kitchen timer for a minimum of 30 seconds. Find your partner, start the time, and kiss them, continously, until the timer goes off.

Goodnight Kiss

Before one of you has to go out of town, leave little pieces of paper (red, perhaps)under the pillow and/or between the sheets with lips drawn on them or Xs and Os...these are your Goodnight Kiss to your sweetheart when you cant be there.

SARAN WRAP KISS

I wrapped myself up in saran wrap and placed myself on the kitchen table. When my lover came home from work, he got to unwrap me only after a kiss. It was very romantic for us both, and he did NOT say Left overs again?

Kissing notes

Leave little notes for your love everywhere. (Ex: in his briefcase, his car, under the sink..) and every time he finds one, he owes you a kiss. Try to hide as many notes as you can and if he doesnt find them all have him take you out to a romantic dinner...for more great kissing.

Be very quiet kiss

When your honey is at your house. You tell him you have to go get something in the other room. You come back into the room being very quite. You start kissing his neck and slide on over to his ear then start kissing his lips. Your honey will love this when you do this to him. :]

Well it's cold here in the quiet
I'm drowning in the silence
Of everything I wish we used to be
So many chances wasted
And kisses left untasted
So much that still burns inside of me

The Kissing Bandit

Sneak a kiss from your sleeping lover and leave a rose on the pillow when you have to leave before your lover gets up in the morning.

Rear View Mirror

Put on your brigest colored lipstick and kiss the corner of his rear view mirror....let him find it......Evertime he looks up as he drives he will be reminded of what waits for him back at home........

The healing kiss

Tell the one you love that you have a sore finger, asking them to kiss it better. When they are done tell them you have a sore forehead and ask them to kiss it better. Keep naming sore parts of your body till the catch on. Then tell them your lips hurt.

Kiss and Blow War

Take your love by his/her head and kiss with both of your mouths slightly open. Then blow as hard as you can until the air blows into one of your mouths and your cheeks fill up with air!!!

Monkeyin Around

While you and your hunny are at the park, hang upside down and try to kiss. Its a lot of fun to see how long it takes you to master it!

Stop light kiss

When driving with your love, patiently wait until you get stopped at a red light. Then, lean over descretely and give him a kiss. It will really catch your love off guard.

Minty Fresh

What I like to do when my lovers breath isnt up to par....I hold a mint in my mouth and when we start to kiss, I pass it to him. Viola! Perfect breath everytime!

Sugar Lips

Before you see your love, lick your lips and then coat them in sugar. The sugar will stick to you lips. Then go to your love and tell then that youre cooking a Kiss Cake and the only way to make it is to have your love lick the sugar off your lips. YUMMY

Fairy Tale

When you see your partner asleep, slowly lean over and kiss them gently. It is a great way to wake them up, and they will wake up in a good mood.

Hersheys kisses

Take a bag of Hershey Kisses and remove all the little white tags. Cut up strips of paper and write your own Good for one kiss coupons. (Other good coupon ideas: good for one massage, hug, meal, date, etc. Be creative!)

Pet pecks

When wanting to sneak a kiss to your love, pick up your small pet and say my (name of animal) loves you when he/she leans forward to pet the animal..plant a peck on his/hers lips. Use this to start a kissing style.

Lickity Kiss

Open your mouth as if to French Kiss your partner. Then gently trace their lips with your tounge. This kiss works wonders for those of you who want to get your partner in the mood!

This may have already been mentioned, but guys as much as the ladies, if you like kissing make sure you take care of your lips.

No one wants to kiss someone who feels like sandpaper. Just sayin'.

BTW the more you understand a woman's change in her mood the more you'll be able to kiss her so it's a turn on for her.

Don Juan

Secretly invite your lover to a quiet party at your place. Leave a note so that when she arrives, she has to go to another room. In that room have candles and slow music going. Ask for the next dance. When you are about to dance, put a rose in your mouth. When you try to pass the rose into her mouth, convienently drop it and go for the big kiss!

Thats true For best results: Lips should be soft and moist.

Body Part Kisses

When we think of a kiss we automatically think of the lips. Remember to go out of your way to pay special attention to your lovers whole body, and Im sure they will thank you! Some parts we may forget have many pleasureable nerve endings are the ears, behind the knees, behind the elbow, ankles etc. Experiment and see what crazy places you like to be kissed in best!

Tease to build up the anticipation

Dont go to kiss right away. Tease your partner by getting really close, acting like you are about to kiss him/her, but then backing off at the last second. Keep approaching the lips with yours coming really close to making contact, but not making full contact. The more the other person tries to kiss you, the more you try to resist kissing. Keep doing this until the passion and anticipation builds up to such a high extreme. Then finally give in to both of your true desires and passions and indulge in the most passionate kisses you can have!

Memorable Touches

I have found that when you are kissing, stop in the middle and give him/her a small kiss on the cheek. It really turns them on.

Cherry Treat!

Tell your lover you want to give them an especially sweet kiss. Each one of you kneel on each side of the bed, leaning across it meeting in the middle. Bite a chocolate covered cherry in half. Then kiss deeply smearing the chocolate all over each others lips. Lick each others tongues, lips, face ... its messy, sexy, and FUN!!!

Sometimes it's nice to impress your kissing partner with something
soft, sensual and with a twinge of nervousness, so that they
know they're wanting to have a "perfect" kiss with you.

Just sayin'.

Daily Kissing Tip
for
December 18th, 2010

THE MOVIE KISS

Make a night of watching romantic movies with your love. Everytime two people kiss, try and imitate them. Test out each type of kiss and at the end of the night, pick your favorite and PRACTICE!

Treasure Trail

Before engaging in a moment of blissful kissing, have your kissee pick out a fragrance of his choice. Then have him spray the fragrance evenly in a trail over his body leading to his lips. (Spray lightly to avoid headaches.) Follow the trail with kisses until youve reached the treasure at the end-his lips!

Wild Ride Kiss

When you are at an amusement park with your love, go on a ride that will turn you upside down. Once youre upside down, kiss your love and dont stop until youre upright again.

It As Easy As A,B,C

Dont know how to move your tongue when you open-mouth ? Try making the letters of the alphabet with your tongue in your lovers mouth. Its easy to do and remember when making out. Try this! You could spell things out in their mouth and see if they can figure out what your trying to say!

Teasing Kiss

Look your lover right in the eyes then lean over to him, just as he goes to kiss you pull back so your lips barely touch. Do this a few time until he gets frusterated then plant a big one on his lips.

Underwater Pucker

When the summer heat gets to be too much for you, grab your mate and jump into the deep end of the nearest swimming pool. Hold onto each other and plunge under the water, bringing your lips together for a wet, juicy kiss. Its very different and very romantic and its a great way to stay cool while your kisses heat you up!

Random Kisses

You and your crush put pieces of paper, each with a different facial feature, in a shoebox or container. Then you take turns drawing cards and kissing that face part. If you draw a paper that says Jackpot, go for the full tongue kiss. Have fun!

Instant Kiss!

Place a heart shaped note telling your lover just how you would like to be kissed each day under his pillow and watch out!

Tamale I have two questions?

How many types of kisses are there?

what type of kiss do you like?

I like a deep French kiss obviously. you can still feel Joy's kis for hours afterwords . Is this normal for this type of kissing

Many many ways to kiss..i like soft french kissing (-:

...Ruby Red...

Drink Ruby Red Squirt. Ya know how it leaves the funny after taste? It kinda makes your mouth tingle... both you and your love drink The Ruby Red Squirt... Then you kiss.. You gotta share the tingling feelin!! Its Ruby Red!

Play Ground

Go to a local playground just as the sun is going down with your love. Go on the tire swing and get all dizzy then both of you try to walk. I did this once and we ended up falling on each other on the grass. Then plant a huge kiss on his lips if you can find them.

Boring Movie

Go to a really boring movie, and in the middle of it, when you are both about to fall asleep, turn to the you other and say This is a really boring movie, how about we spice things up a bit?

Radio Romance

Find any song in your collection that involves the word kiss. Together in the dark listen to the song and kiss everytime the song says kiss. Softly at first and then more passionately toward the end.

Nice Tamela that Faith Hill song Comes to Mind we'd be Kissing the Whole Song lol I can't wait to meet you darlin

Elevator Love

Race in separate elevators to the top of a high-rise building. Once there, ride in the same elevator back down, stopping to kiss on every floor...regardless of other passengers.

Palm Kiss

The perfect way to end an evening, whether you've been together for nine months or nine hours! Take your lovers hand, and slowly turning it over, kiss the center of his/her palm. (Then feel free to say what a great time you had !)

Its All About Skill

Kisses are one of the most romantic ways to express yourself to your partner. This tip should help you make the kiss exceed expectations. Go up to your partner. Stay looking at her while you tell her the emotions you feel. When you look into eyes, make sure that youre not staring. Glance at her lips or even to the floor quickly.. keep her comfortable. Then, put your hands on her waist, behind her neck, or just hold hands. Slowly approach her and start kissing her with your mouth barely open. This is when it gets romantic. And then slowly open your mouth a little more and lick the areas around her gums and the roof of her mouth. DONT GO IN TOO DEEP! That totally kills the moment. You should both know when the kiss has died out. Try to keep the kiss alive and different for as long as possible. As you pull away from her, breathe each others breath and hold her in your arms.

Happy Kissing!!

Just Right!

When you just want that one kiss to be the sweetest yet, not to mention romantic, you plan a perfect evening, just a way for the two of you to be alone and with each other. Look deep into his/her eyes and without saying anything lean in as if you were going to kiss them. But before you do, move your lips up until you reach their forehead. Give them a soft gentle kiss there and do the same all the way down their face until you again reach the mouth. Lay a small quick kiss on the lips and than take you index finger and outline the shape of their lips. If they smile (which they should) lay a nice long kiss on them.

Vocabu-kisses

Pick a magic word for the day and every time that word passes your loves lips, they are responsible for a kiss. A kiss debt can be accrued that must be paid off by the end of the day!

Re-living Your First Kiss

Take your love to the place that you first kissed, take his/her hand, get down on your knee or something extremely old-fashioned (i.e.-Sit on a blanket under a tree, just make it special) and tell your love why you love them so much and what made you fall for them. Then take their hand in yours, and kiss it gently and make it as soft as you possibly can. Then ask permission to kiss them on their lips. Everything after that is up to you!

Traveling kisses

If you or your mate are traveling somewhere out of town give them a pack of hard candy( doesnt melt as easily) with enough candy in it for one each night. Tell them to eat one candy every night at a certain time like 6:00PM( your home standard time) and you will do the same that way you will both know what each others kisses taste like at that exact moment every night that they or you are gone.

The UpsideDown Kiss

Bet youve never done it before, which will make your lover very impressed. Go to the park, and hang upside down on the monkey bars with him/her. Smooching upside down is a sign of creativity, romanticism, and intelligence.

Red Light Special Kiss

When you are driving around town, steal a kiss from your significant other at every stop light you go to. See how many kisses you can give them. It makes taking the long way home even more fun.

Toll Collector

Arrange the furniture so your normal seat is along your loves path to another part of the house. Collect the toll of a kiss every time your love passes by.

ITS ELECTRIC

If you ever happpen to be full of static electricity kiss your partner. There will definitely be sparkles. Best is if your partner doesnt know youre electric.

Secret Word

Pick a secret word of the day, and every time each of you says it, you have to kiss (or store them up for that evening).

Televised Kissing

whenever you and your Love are alone in an elevator or near an ATM machine, make sure you kiss for the camera.

Movie Madness

Make a video of your favorite love scenes from movies. Watch them with the one you treasure most and at the end, recreate your own version of one the most passionate kisses from the movies.

There are tons of nerve endings in your lips (100 times more than in your fingertips!) that stimulate desire. That's why smooching before, during, and after sex can be extremely arousing and satisfying.

100% Naturally Sweet

Do you like lip gloss? More importantly does your significant other like lip gloss? It can be a ton of fun to try new flavors of the gloss and see if your partner can guess what it is just by kissing you. It requires some practice. But if they succeed you can always reward them with another fun filled kiss.

Forty percent of men say that a really long, steamy kiss will get them immediately ready for sex. (Thirty percent said that grabbing their crotch will do it. Duh.)