Is it really a GFE without

Madison_Graham · **Posted:** Sat Nov 10, 2012 1:00 pm

the French Kiss?

This experience seems to be subjective.

What is GFE to you?

crumbie · **Posted:** Sat Nov 10, 2012 2:10 pm

this French Kiss? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdPKBpiNyGw

GFE implies initmacy
kissing, especially the French Kiss, is intimate

pecks on the cheek are kisses for your mother and grandmother
sticking your tongue in a girls mouth is for your lover/gf
sex with no kissing is just plain old fucking

no tongue = no gfe

just my opinion

whterbt · **Posted:** Sat Nov 10, 2012 2:25 pm

I'm with crumb, it's all about intimacy.

There are particular activities I associate with GFE -- DATY, at least LFK (preferably DFK), it would be hard to call it GFE without those.

But moreover, it should feel like an experience with a girlfriend. Passionate, with the lady into it as much as I am. Mutual caressing and kissing all over the place. Both bodies moving with the rhythm.

Pre- and post-party is key too. It doesn't feel like true GFE to me if the lady just says "hi, nice to meet you, let's go talk" or if she just drops me off at the bar/door as soon as we're done. It should be a steady ramp-up on the way into the party, and a gradual come-down afterward, not a switch thrown on and off.

BTW Madison, I enjoy seeing your posts on the board, you have some interesting and insightful topics and responses.

jax · **Joined:** Sun Jan 08, 2012 3:24 pm **Posts:** 752

whterbt wrote:

I'm with crumb, it's all about intimacy.

There are particular activities I associate with GFE -- DATY, at least LFK (preferably DFK), it would be hard to call it GFE without those.

But moreover, it should feel like an experience with a girlfriend. Passionate, with the lady into it as much as I am. Mutual caressing and kissing all over the place. Both bodies moving with the rhythm.

Pre- and post-party is key too. It doesn't feel like true GFE to me if the lady just says "hi, nice to meet you, let's go talk" or if she just drops me off at the bar/door as soon as we're done. It should be a steady ramp-up on the way into the party, and a gradual come-down afterward, not a switch thrown on and off.

BTW Madison, I enjoy seeing your posts on the board, you have some interesting and insightful topics and responses.

Not to sound redundant, but I completely agree with the previous posts. The GFE is intended to simulate a real relationship with all that implies including conversation (pre/during/post)
and at least some LFK (in my opinion). In many ways passionate kissing is as or more intimate than sex (I'm guessing because of the face to face/eye contact). Perhaps this is why some women choose not to make it part of their GFE, keeping it for their real-life relationships. At any rate if kissing (LFK or DFK) is important to you, You should probably check with any potential lady ahead of time to see where she stands on the issue.

Madison_Graham · **Posted:** Tue Apr 23, 2013 11:00 pm

I have seen advertised on the outside "Pornstar Experience" To me when I hear that I think "unsafe sexual practices".

Is that a correct perception of a PSE?

alphawolf · **Joined:** Sun Oct 07, 2012 5:09 pm **Posts:** 981

Madison_Graham wrote:

the French Kiss?

This experience seems to be subjective.

What is GFE to you?

No, it definitely is not. Kissing is my favorite thing to do. Deep, passionate kissing is the most intimate part of the experience, to me. The lack of that would be an instant dealbreaker for me.

redsatin · **Posted:** Wed Apr 24, 2013 12:46 am

I love to kis and make out during my GFE parties!

SmokinAmber · **Posted:** Wed Apr 24, 2013 2:41 am

I have to agree with these guys.. Besides, a great make out session is one of the best ways to arouse me...

kevinz0071 · **Posted:** Wed Apr 24, 2013 6:22 am

Without open mouth kissing imho it isn't a true gfe doesn't mean you have to french Kiss but definitley open mouth Kissing in a true GFE

tahoebigbear · **Joined:** Sat Dec 08, 2007 5:58 pm **Posts:** 677

redsatin wrote:

I love to kis and make out during my GFE parties!

Yes you do [smilie=heart fill with love.gif]

hollywood · **Posted:** Wed Apr 24, 2013 11:45 pm

It's all in the kiss. A great kissing session is the spark that lights the fire.

KARAOKESINGER · **Joined:** Thu May 24, 2012 10:27 pm **Posts:** 284

Madison_Graham wrote:

the French Kiss?

This experience seems to be subjective.

What is GFE to you?

NO FRENCH KISS THEN NO GFE! That other kiss the one with the pursed lips is not gonna cut it for GFE... its about passion and intimacy!

KS

HBKPunk · **Posted:** Thu Apr 25, 2013 6:21 am

I guess I'm in the minority. I know there are a few of the ladies that either don't allow FK or even kissing at all but they're still great GFE's and some have won numerous bunny/lover of the month awards. I guess it's all about what you want. Personally, I don't mind FK, but its not my favorite thing either. If the lady goes above and beyond the "call of duty" so to speak with everything else, then I can live without it.

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thunderstorm · **Posted:** Thu Apr 25, 2013 8:52 am

I have to agree with Crumbie and Amber. A GFE is about the passion and intimacy a couple would have in a relationship. It is not just about sex.

Madison_Graham wrote:

I have seen advertised on the outside "Pornstar Experience" To me when I hear that I think "unsafe sexual practices".

Is that a correct perception of a PSE?

PSE is different for different girls. Maybe that means she is willing to be filmed or let you take photos of her. Others, it is more of a vigorous sex, rather than passionate. For some it is anal and or bondage. I think it is more of what you would see and expect in a porn movie rather than how adults really make love. How adults really make love, is closer, in my opinion to the GFE.

allyjames · **Posted:** Thu Apr 25, 2013 9:00 am

Personally, I love it all. There's nothing that can compare to the feeling of being wanted and someone being passionate for you. The kissing, cuddling, touching.. All play an important role to me. While sex is amazing of course, it's taken to a whole other level with intimacy. :wink:

Riley Sapphire · **Posted:** Thu Apr 25, 2013 12:52 pm

I agree with some of the other responses...GFE is a matter of intimacy, and that's unique to the individual. For some, kissing may be a major part of it. For others, maybe not.

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hollywood · **Posted:** Thu Apr 25, 2013 1:12 pm

In the end, it"s about the people involved and what their needs and wants are.

redsatin · **Posted:** Thu Apr 25, 2013 7:37 pm

hollywood wrote:

In the end, it"s about the people involved and what their needs and wants are.

words of wisdom

caressakisses · **Posted:** Sun May 05, 2013 11:15 am

Madison, it was a true pleasure to meet you & spend time with you in LA, You are such a SeXXXy intelligent person!!!!!

I can see why you truly are a wonderful GFE experience!!!!!!!!!

kevinz0071 · **Posted:** Tue May 07, 2013 1:35 am

allyjames wrote:

Personally, I love it all. There's nothing that can compare to the feeling of being wanted and someone being passionate for you. The kissing, cuddling, touching.. All play an important role to me. While sex is amazing of course, it's taken to a whole other level with intimacy. :wink:

And people wonder why i am nuts about you