Sexual fetishes refer to a sexual fascination for a specific body part or object.

The word fetish originally stems from the medieval Portuguese word feitica, which refers to religious relics with magical properties. The term only took on a sexual meaning in the 19th century. Today, people are called fetishists if they become turned on by objects that are not usually associated with desire. It can be anything from stiletto heels to obesity to nappies. The Internet has a broad range of fetish sites.

Here are a few of the more general sexual fetishes:


Footwear

Shoes (and indeed feet themselves) have vast potential to arouse fethishists that are so inclined. Some prefer shoes on somebody's feet, while others use them to masturbate into. Those who are into sadomasochism find stiletto and spike heels arousing because it can be used to inflict pain.


Underwear

Underwear is admired and even collected by fethishists for a variety of reasons. It can be kept as keepsakes or a trophy; and used or 'soiled' underwear are popular to sniff whilst masturbating. 'Super-soiled' underwear sells online for surprising amounts of money.


Leather, latex and rubber

These fetishes are based on the feel of the materials. Fethishists wear anything from rubber and latex skirts, suits, hoods, gasmasks and shoes. Black tends to be the preferred color of these garments. The feel and smell of leather is said to give people a feeling of power. Some fetishists report that wearing skin-tight materials makes them feel as if they're taking on the identity of different animals.

Sexual fetishes are not everybody's cup of tea, but it's good to be informed. You never know when you might meet a potential sex partner with sex fetishes. If you are able to recognize it and discuss it openly, you can make an informed decision about partaking - or not.

My advice is to know yourself and your boundaries. You should never be forced to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. On the other hand, if you are a fetishist yourself, make sure that your sexual partners feel comfortable with experimentation.

ok, what are nappies?


My fetish....is the female skin

Nappies are the British term for what we Yanks call diapers, for those who are into the adult baby fetish. Which I am not. I have my own kinks.

Fetishes can be hard to talk about. I've found in my marriage before I was divorced that when I attempted to share my sexual fetish with my ex-wife, I was made to feel very foolish. This was sad and very unfortunate, and our marriage didn't last. I believe everyone's sexual fetish comes from very deep places in our hearts and minds. They can be shut down very easily if we are attempting to share with the wrong person.
When I finally came to the Ranches, I wanted to fulfill a simple, yet profound lifelong fantasy that has become my sexual fetish. It was fulfilled and I'm so grateful.

Fetishes are simply fantasies jacked up to a thermonuclear level. Fantasies deemed worthy of frequent return by the mind that is enchanted by them.

There's a reason that courtesans constantly encourage us patrons to bring our fantasies and fetishes to them. Hell, some of the girls practically beg for them. Because they're interesting, they're novel, they're fresh, and that means most of the time, they're pretty fuckn fun! I remember the words of a lovely pro I was with last year......."I want you to bring to me the fantasy in your head that you jack off to. Dare to bring THAT to me. And we'll have some fun!"

Of course, if you're packing a fetish that would gross out Howard Stern.......

All about communication...great thing about the ranch is we strive to satisfy you and all your needs (-: We want you cumming back for more...

You know what's really nice......is when you have a fetish for talking about fetishes! That's when the bar and parlor at the BR really warm up!

Ah ha..I think i have that fetish lol

Pm me and I will tell you mine, darlin.

That's awful.

No one should feel judged or persecuted for fetishes, so long as they don't harm an unwilling or underage participant. One of the great things about the BunnyRanch is that you can be yourself here.

Fetishes are just another way for us to express ourselves in different and unique ways (-: I love to learn and try new things...If I like it I will try it twice, and 3 times to makes sure (-:

hmmm i think fetishes are great. Its something to be passionate about. I dont think I have any though.. hmmmm

I love it when people have fetishes. They are fun to act out.

Always Willing,
Veronica

I am pretty sure you do.... We all have one at least... maybe you need help finding out what it is...

I think that most people have a fetish hidden somewhere within.
It is very fun to talk to people and have them open up and share
and then go discover how much they love it.

Always Willing,
Veronica

Whips, chains, hot wax... that kind of "dark sex" is very common among many people including myself.

So out of curiosity, has anybody found that their fulfilled fetish would have been better left an unfulfilled fantasy? I've had awful luck in meeting anybody in the least bit interested in experimentation, looking at making my next ranch visit a fetish party...

You wanna help me find them?

Jayla is your girl!!!!

We only dabbled in it before...so that would be a yes!!!

I've been lucky enough to have had fetishes fulfilled and the experience was much better than the fantasy!!!!

Always is thats our goal!!

Ahhh, for some ranch time!

Nice to know, Jayla. Those fetishes can turn up the heat in a party.

Totally

Amazing fetishes

Jayla is our fetish queen!!

I think my fetish is for Tamela Lee. Would that be called Tamish?

Fetishes are fun

Kisses Courtney Cross

Hehe Im honored to be your fetish

I'm very much into the BDSM scene, have been for almost a decade now. I've yet to do a "Fetish Party" since my sessions are usually very intense and time consuming. But I love expanding my own horizons and working small details into my own "bag of tricks" if you will.

Although with some of my parties it's nice letting the woman on top and being "dominant" and let them control the pace of the party. Such a turn on and the light swats on the butt are always amusing.

Overall though I love "worshipping" a woman's body, kisses, massages, caressing and doing whatever comes to mind for her.

Awe...I think ur famished for me!! nomnomnom

Im sure you are gonna teach me a lot next time we play!!

Hell yeah! I'm going to eat you up Tamela!







I love doing this as well. Giving love and pleasure to a woman is pleasure in itself.

You better!

We'll have a great time teaching and learning from each other...oh some of the things I have planned.

You tell me yours and I'll tell you mine

Can't wait

Sounds like a plan!! xoxoxoxo

U can always tell them your fantasy too!! I do!! Its more fun!!

I've got all the fetishes. I just can't make the trip.

Awe

Tamela Lee:

You're saying, "Aww?" You should see it from my point of view! There was a chance for me to get out there for Halloween night or sometime this week and it just didn't work out. I would have loved to have indulged a few fetishes at the Bunny Ranch that night.

Always like taking things small steps at a time introducing aspects of my fetish/lifestyle to parties.
Jumping right in sometimes can be a bit overwhelming, so small introductions make it a bit more erotic.

Well hopefully you get another chance soon

Small steps give you more time to enjoy

With you, Tamela everything is enjoyable and time always goes too fast.

I'm hoping to dine on fine Tamela tonight!

U WILL!!!

Total fetish would be to have a Tamela Worship party and she has to let me do all the work.

Yea..I get to give orders too!! YAY!!

Hehe
I have a few ideas of my own to get you to have your "O" face several times, but you know me I always take orders.

SCHWING

She shoots, she SCORES!!!
and that means a WIN for me too

Uh huh!! We will both shoot and score lol

Can't disagree with that. Double win, and I enjoy "scoring" with you Tamela

I gotta say, fetishes are a hell of a lot of fun. I thoroughly enjoy mine ^_^. Lookin to experience it with a partner now.

Ditto

Fetishes are fun! Welcome to the boards. I'd like to hear about yours

One of my many fetishes is to have a woman cuff or tie me up,and then do acts of lite pain on me...

Mmmm i know u like a little pain..like pinching or whipping? scrathcing??

Is "Fifty Shades" it's own sexual fetish?

Pm me..Im interested to hear more

I really need to read that book lol

You can get it on books on tape as well, as we know you area fan of listening to things....

Lol that I am

I was reading 50 Shades just because of the buzz. I had no idea so many women were in need of a good spanking.

I think, deep down, most women want a man to take charge and make them feel helpless! (IN the bedroom, at least....not OUT of it.)

Ranging from control, to pain (light to extreme), trampling, dominance, role play, costumes, fantasy dates (somewhat like role playing but more specific in nature), and feet come to mind for some very easy fetishes that can be incorporated into a party without being too restrictive.

I'm going to throw my 2 cents in here about "50 Shades"
Anyone who knows anything about BDSM or the lifestyle isn't impressed with this book
and I'm of the same opinion. It's "hollywood" and glitzed and glammed to the
point where its nothing relevant.

If you want a good book on fetish and dominance to read try "O", it's a classic and much more relevant and well written.

Just my opinion

Don't we all from time to time

I agree but I like to take charge also. It's good to switch it up

Maybe another book ill have to read

I like how your sexy mind works

My gears are always turning

And those are some sexy gears on top of that.

Heheh

Story of "O" instead of 50 Shades of Grey
and I will do some research on some good reads for BDSM

Im interested to learn more from u..bondage!!! bunny style!

Would be my honor and pleasure to show you the ropes (hehe) and finer points of bondage and control.

We have a lot to learn from one another

I'm a kinda simple Guy....I would just like to lick you till you cum
all over my face...hmm ....oK i'll be wearing a batman cape
is that a problem ??

The best book I found was "Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns" It is very informative.

Kisses Courtney Cross

We all have some kinks hehe

I think everyone has a fetish. It's just that some people don't have any idea what it is. This thread sounds great for those who have an object for a fetish: high heels, underwear, diapers, etc. But for some, the fetish is an activity and often an activity that most people would never associate with sex. And to make it worse for those people (myself included), sometimes it's very difficult finding a partner who is even capable of fulfilling the fetish without a little pretending. Then when you do find somebody who can, traditional beliefs and kinesthetic perception often gets in the way before the fetish can be fulfilled. That's why some guys need to be very selective when choosing a courtesan based on these types of fetishes. Sorry I got to ramblin, but I hope this all makes sense.

For you..anything

I am very open to new fetishes and new things (-; Please pm me more info (-:

I have a beautiful woman fetish!!! What more do you need?

Just me as a fix

Thanks honey

Fetishes have become less taboo, and it's not that anything has changed other than society's view.
The more that fetishes are viewed as a "taste" or desire and allowing people to have their personal preferences is how change happens.
They might call us "freaks" but it's all in how you look at it. I consider it a compliment and just shows I have an open mind and don't follow the crowd.

I love your open mind

And I love your creativity, your open mind and the chemistry we have.

Perfect match

Yes, Tamela I would have to say you're PERFECT and I'm just a match waiting to get lit, and when I'm around you, it's just spontaneous combustion.