I recently responded to a very interesting topic which asked "What makes a lady a courtesan?" (Shout out to Madison Graham!! )

This is a very good question.

In my humble opinion, there are several factors in which differentiate a "true courtesan" from your "average working girl" per se. If the actually act of sex itself is your main and ONLY concern, then some of these factors may be irrelevant to you. But, for those of us who value the intangibles, the difference between your "average working girl" and a "true courtesan" are as clear as night and day.

In this thread I will be taking the time to shed light on some of the key fators in which seperate your "average working girl" from a "true courtesan".

One of the most important factors being "Class"!!

Although, many things in life can be taught, learned, practiced, and mastered, I am a firm believer that the fine art of "having class" is NOT one of them.

Thus, when deciding on which lovely lady to spend time with, this is DEFINITELY something I keep an eye out for.

Now the question is yours....

What are some of the differences between your "average working girl" and a "true courtesan"?

I will continue to add my thoughts as they come and as always I look forward to your responses.

-P

When it's about more than just sex you're with a Courtesan.

Great topic Purdue. A true courtesan not only pleases physically, but mentally as well.

Welcome, Kelf.

Though our paths have rarely crossed over the past couple of years, I'm glad I could come up with a topic that peeked your interest.

As for the subject at hand, I totally agree with you. The ability of genuinely fulling the desires of a client with style and grace is one indicative factor that let's you know you are dealing with a true courtesan.

Thanks for taking the time to stop by!!

I couldn't agree more, Willow.

Anyone can have sex (yes, some better than others ) but it's all of the other things besides the obvious in which seperate the "average working girl" from a "true courtesan".

Thanks for your reply, sexy lady!!

As always, right on point, Stacy!!

(That's why I like you, well one of the reasons. )

The physical portion of pleasing can be satisfied by any lovely lady with a moderately high libido, but it's the mental aspect which truly "seperates the men from the boys". Well, in this case a "true coutesan" from your "average working girl".

Thanks for your reply, gorgeous!!

With a true courtesan there is a connection that goes far beyond sex. It is usually that connection or friendship that prompts repeat parties.

No problem babe!

Well, thank you for your input, Kelf.

I also was lured to the wonderful "Land Of Milk And Bunny" by HBO's Cathouse. If watched "correctly", the show clearly illustrates some of the many differeces between the "average working girl" and a "true courtesan". Thus, my avid support as well.

Stop by any time!!

I agree, Doc!!

Though it could be the first time the two of you have met, a "true courtesan" has the uncanny ability of providing the comfort and ease as the company of a life long friend. This is one of the many reason in which makes her special.

Thanks for the reply, pal!!

In my opinion, Ruby, you definitely qualify as a true courtesan.
When we first met, I was very nervous, but it didn't take very long talking with you for me to feel much more at ease. After just a short time of conversation, I had the feeling that I imagine a person would have when reconnecting with a close friend after time apart. I definitely had the feeling that I would be able to talk with you about almost anything, which is an exceptionally rare thing for me

Speaking from experience you do both very well Stacy!

YES! This is a GREAT thread!

I will never speak negatively about the way that a client wants to party, we are all different. Some guys want to walk in, pick a lady and get going. I too, think a courtesan is more of the full package, not just a "here's the money, let's go fuck" experience. I think that is why so many of the true courtesans do so well at the Ranches. As gorgeous as so many of the ladies are, I don't think that I could ever do a line-up and be getting hot and heavy with a lady 10 minutes later, it's just not my style. The true courtesan satisfies the mind and body. The whole experience is what got me to make the trip.

If you look at the ladies who have done well and have been at the Ranches for a long time, they provide the whole experience. That is pretty much why I would not consider the majority of the ladies there "hookers" or "lovers".

Just my 2 cents!

Awe, thanks babe!

A true courtesan is well-rounded and sophisticated!

Atrue Courteson in my humble opinion is a lady that carries herself with class and creates one of a kind memorable experiences for all of her clients regardless of their bank accounts and is a genuine and truthful lady

This is a nice topic. A courtesan is professional yet personable. She should not only be good in bed but should also have great people skills. Just my opinion.

I agree, Ruby!!

A true courtesan is always conscience and considerate of her client. Her number one priority should be his COMPLETE satisfaction. Physically, mentally, and of course financially.

Thanks for posting, cute butt!!

Thanks, Squirrelly!!

Great minds think alike. I am also not one for the whole "here's the money, let's go fuck" bit. I like to build the excitment and take the time to really enjoy the company of the lady I'm with.

Appreciate your reply!! Stop by anytime, pal!!

Two things that you most certainly are Ms. Tyler!!

Yet, another reason I am so taken by you.

Right on the money, Kev!!

Thanks for your reply!!

Well put Dr. J!!

Great people skills are a MUST for a true courtesan!!

Thanks for your response!!

Professionalism

A true courtesan has a certain level of professionalism that far surpasses that of your average working girl. She holds herself to a higher standard of excellence in which seperates her from the "rest of the pack".

She values her clients business and knows that their satisfaction is priority number one. Thus, a true courtesan is a great business woman!!

-P

Awe, thank you sweetheart! I'm looking forward to seeing you again soon!!!

A true courtesan takes the time to get to know the wants and needs of her client. She genuinely likes to make people feel happy and loves her job.

Rider

How about bubbly personality like me ?

Patience is key to being a true Courtesan. You must have a lot to deal with a wide variety of requests.

It's all in the way you carry yourself.

Well put, Rider!!

A true courtesan DEFINTIELY should love her job!!

Thanks for stopping by, pal!!

I definitely would qualify that as a much needed trait for a courtesan, Sunny!!

You are such a cutie!!

Thanks for joinging us, sexy!!

Right on, Jayla!!

A true courtesan has a certain "swagger", as they call it!!

I would know... I'm third generation

Prestige

There is a certain amount of prestige associated with a true courtesan.

Dicitionary.reference.com defines the word courtesan as..."a prostitute or paramour, especially one associating with noblemen or men of wealth."

Hmmm, noblemen.

It seems even in the days of horse and chariot a true courtesan was much more than your "average bed wench".

You must know the art of sensuality and what it means to give someone sexual euphoria.

Etiquette

Another differentiating factor between a courtesan and your average working girl has to be etiquette. Things tend to go a certain way while in the company of a true courtesan. Although personal and unique, she follows a set pattern of procedures specifically suited for the gentleman at hand, critiquing as she goes. Thus, there is a difference in behavior in that of a true courtesan and your average working girl.

This is such an interesting topic!

Personally, I believe a courtesan should be as invested in improving herself as she is in providing unique and memorable experiences for her clientele. When I think of a courtesan, I think of an almost geisha-like service. In the Japanese culture, geishas were known for their versatility and excelled in the art of entertaining and companionship. These women would study the art of storytelling, conversation, massage, and even dance in order to provide a higher level of companionship to discerning gentlemen. In my opinion, a courtesan should approach her trade like a geisha in that she is continually learning new ways to be an exceptional companion.

Just my two-cents

I completely agree with you Purduefan! This is a great post!!!

To be a true working girl you have to have a thick skin. You can't be weak or you will be brought down

Maturity

Regardless of her actual age, a true courtesan possesess a ceartain level of maturity. As there are many differences between a "girl" and a "woman", the same theory can be held when distinguishing your "average working girl" from a "true courtesan".

Knowing when to class it up or when to get kinky

Every client I have, I have a different experience with... because I truly like to take the time to get to know them, and vise versa

I agree with many when I say class tends to be the big difference. Anyone can have sex, but a true courtesan goes up and beyond the physical to stimulate and please all of the senses and does it with taste, style, and class.

Sounds like my kinda gal!!

Getting acquainted with the lovely lady that I am planning to spend time with is a very important part of the experience for me as well.

Thank you for stopping by, gourgeous!!

Spoken like a true courtesan!!

Very well put, Laci!! Thanks for joining us, beautiful.

Stop by anytime!!

You know I don't mind joining you anytime. It's good to be back!

I should think a true courtesan would be kind, considerate, compassionate, flexible, non judge mental, articulate, intuitive, honest, appropriate, punctual, attentive, entertaining, humble, impeccable manners, good taste, tastes good (the highest of standards in personal hygiene and cleanliness), neat, organized, spontaneous, relaxed, ready, willing and able. She sets boundaries. She doesn't compare herself nor her clients to others. She is kempt, polite, courteous and patient at all times to everyone. She dresses appropriately for the situation. She remembers to reach out especially on birthdays and anniversaries and holidays. She remembers details. She can hold a conversation. She loves what she does and she doesn't kiss and tell.

Funny thing, I do not believe a true courtesan needs to have the most posts on a message board. I think if she is going to post, she should be engaging, honest, seem interested and have substance, thought and consideration in her posts. I think she should put thought and time into everyone of her posts. I think she should be entertaining and informative as well as always remembering to always compliment, congratulate, encourage, console and, of course, flirt.

There's more, but that's enough from me for now because a true courtesan also practices restraint and moderation.

I totally agree with you Laci!

MOULIN ROUGE STATUS!!!!!

Great reply, Amy.

I agree with you completely. A true courtesan is definitely multifaceted.

Among other things, ( ) your style and class have me very intrigued with you. I look forward to meeting you and getting better aquainted.

Side Note: The courtesan "makes" the post. The post does NOT "make" the courtesan.

Definitely, Jessica!! (I rather enjoy that movie )

Thank you for posting, sexy!!

Going with what Airforce Amy had to say... I agree on the post. Kissy faces and one word answers are not interactions. You have to be able to show your personality through text.

Great post babe!!!

Thanks, Tam!!

Stop by anytime!!

I believe a courtesan is defined by the way she holds herself and by how she treats her clientele, the clientele of a true courtesan is more than just a client based relationship, it becomes a true connection and friendship with mutual respect for eachother.

Always be ready for the unexpected and handle sticky situations with grace and class.

Absolutely Grace & Class;-)

Thank you babe!

Not every woman is cut out to be a courtesan... it take a lot of class, beauty, and intelligence to make it.

Great response, Angelina!!

The way a courtesan holds herself is very important.

Thanks for stopping by!!

Style & Grace

The style and grace of a true courtesan is unmistakingly different than that of your average working girl. Everything from her choice of clothing (or lack there of ) to her mannerisms seem more sofisticated and elegant. Thus, with or without any fashion sence, a true courtesan is more "stylish" than your average working girl.

Hehe I'd love to

Well, you know what they say, ( or atleast I do ) every "good bump" deserves another!!

P.S. I'd love to give you a "good bumping" sometime!!

I'd love that to

I absolutely agree hunny!

Wow, what a great way to answer this question! I also think possesing a certain finesse, articulation, and charm & PERSONALITY don't hurt either:)
XOXO

Awesome, and well put! I too was intrigued as well as impressed by Cathouse, and the wonderful demeanor of the ladies was a definite motivating factor in my decision to apply for work here:) Thanks so much for your comments, kind words, and Beautiful SMile:) XOXO

By the way, have you watched the new Cinemax show"Working Girls in Bed?" It too features hot ladies form the Bunnyranch, and Love Ranch, and IS SUPER STEAMY! A MUST SEE:)


PS...You are a hottie

KELF...TRY THIS TV GUIDE LINK I FOUND...IT DOES HAVE SOME LINKS ON THE PAGE THAT REFERENCE THE 2 SHOWS THAT HAVE AIRED SO FAR... I SENT OUT AN SOS ON TWITTER..WE WILL HAVE THE ANSWER FOR YOU, ( one way or the other) BEFORE THE NEXT SHOW


[http://www.tvguide.com/tvshows/working-girls-in-bed/515021


hope this helps,

XOXO

Summed it up well Stacy.

Why thank you Courtney!

Sophistication

Although, there are no degrees required for the job, a true courtesan is not only sophisticated but educated as well. She possesses a vast knowledge of worldly information perfectly suited for her clientele. She is up to date with current events and is aware of life outside of her profession. Therefore, a true courtesan is not only able to discuss her favorite position in the Kama Sutra with you, she may also be fluent in "rocket science".

Another good one Purduefan!

Huh? I gotta be smart too. LOL!

Do I fit the bill?

AAaaaaww man! I didn't see THAT requirement either!