Hi! I’m Sable Renae and I am a legal courtesan at the Sagebrush Ranch in Carson City, Nevada. I’m also an adult film performer, so I have had my fair share of Mother Nature’s plethora of penis sizes and shapes. I get missives and pictures from all over. On the Bunny Ranch Message board, Twitter, Facebook, ect. Pictures of all sorts of “equipment.” Big ones, little ones, circumcised, un-circumcised, every color, every race, every creed, and all these penises belong to men who all with the same question…”Is it big enough?”
So, in order to put your mind at ease, here are some things you should know. Most males, at some time in their lives, worry about whether they are “big enough.” Many women also wonder whether bigger is better.
Dr. David Buss and his colleague Dr. Cindy Meston wrote a wonderful book called Why Women Have Sex. In it, they discuss penis size and sexual satisfaction. Their results may surprise you.
First, some penis facts…
The average penis ranges from 5 to 6 inches in length when erect.The penis averages 3 to 4 inches in length when flaccid, or non-erect. Contrary to popular belief, penis length is not closely related to height. In a study of over three hundred flaccid penises, the largest was 5.5 inches long (about the size of a bratwurst sausage) and belonged to a
5’7-inch tall man. The smallest non-erect penis was 2.25 inches long (about the size of a breakfast sausage) and attached to a stocky 5’1-inch tall man.
Does size really matter to women? More Importantly…does it matter to us working girls?
When people talk about penis size, they are usually referring to penis length. But according to one study, penis width is more important in determining if a potential mate “measures up.”
Psychologist Russell Eisenman and his fellow researchers at the University of Texas in Edinburg asked 50 sexually active university women whether penis length or penis width was more important for their sexual satisfaction. 45 out of 50 women said that width was more important. Only five said length felt better and none said they were unable to tell the difference.
Now that being said. I know for me there is “Everyday Cock”, “Special Occasion Cock”, and “Once in a lifetime Cock.” If you fall into the ranges of the Average Male which is 5 to 6 inches, honey I want to see you everyday! We are going to have a LOT of fun!! If you are 6 and 1/2 to 8 inches well then you are that “Special Occasion” for me… lots of foreplay and lube and ……OH MY that was a grand time that I will cherish on those nights when I haven’t had any and really need that naughty fantasy to take the edge off. Now if you are bigger than 8 inches….you my friend are that ONCE IN A LIFETIME!
A Rollicking good time…BUT I may need some prep work for this one.
LOTS and LOTS of foreplay and toys and LUBE on my the LUBE!! I-am-not-going-to-be-walking-normal-for-a-while LUBE!
“But,” you say, “I’m not any of those things” with a frown. Never fear my sweet. See, while everyone out there is focused on length, they forget girth is also a factor. Studies have shown that a wider penis provides greater clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse as well as more stimulation of the outer, most sensitive portion of the vagina. So smaller but with more girth is actually more fun. So although you may, and I state may not be John Holmes, Ron Jeremy, Peter North, Even Stone, or any of the other male actors out there in the adult industry…if it is wider than a sausage, we are going to have a TERRIFIC TIME!
“BUT, BUT SABLE,” you say with a blush and a tear, “I don’t have even that!” Never fear sweetheart. I have the knowledge and the desire for “not even that.” See, I know ways to compensate for “not even that,” and I will teach you everything you need to know. You, my dear sweet embarrassed darling, can pleasure yourself and me with positions and techniques you’ve probably never thought of, and I am more than happy to show them to you. As they said in that T.V. show: “We have the tools, We have the Technology” — and because I am a professional, I invest heavily and wholeheartedly in learning about all of the different ways to please YOU. (Which, consequently, pleases me.)
SO…….NO MATTER THE SIZE, the girth, the color, ect…we are going to have a GOOD time. That I promise!
With Valentine’s day fast approaching, gentlemen are often at their romantic best as chocolates, lingerie, impromptu vacations, and other glamorous gifts are showered upon their ladies. This isn’t an exclusively February occurrence however. I see plenty of men all year round that are madly in love with their wives, gushing as they speak about their soulmate and mother of their children, and yet many of these men consider themselves unhappily married. They feel that sexual communication in their marriage is limited or they cannot express their true erotic desires to their wives. This leads to a lot of sexual as well as emotional frustration. If you cannot be open up with your life partner, who can you be open with?
While many would say you can share everything with your spouse but keep it professional with a prostitute, it is often quite the opposite. I have had my fair share of sex parties that were truly about a married man exploring his kinks with a nonjudgemental professional. I see many recent divorcees as well, whose marriages have not been successful because of a lack of communication or an unwillingness to try new things in bed. It’s stunning how many sexual secrets lovers hide from one another, for fear that their partner will harshly judge their “deviant” sexual inclinations. Whether it be foot fetishism, anal play, cross-dressing, or even dirty talk, many men only reveal their true sexual selves to working girls like me.
In my personal life, I am married, but lead an open polyamorous lifestyle. My husband and I attend orgies and parties, but we also date others and are allowed to pursue sexual relationships on our own. I can have boyfriends and lovers as well as pursue this line of work because I truly love what I do — and I do it with the full trust and blessing of my husband. It is what makes the relationship between my spouse and I strong. I wonder: If my gentlemen clients had an open dialogue in their home and a partner willing to explore new things with them sexually, maybe their marriages would be more successful and complete. For the time being, it stands unanswered, and that’s where sexually open women like me can truly provide a service to the frustrated men who seek our company.
As a married man or divorcee, when you come into a Nevada brothel, no judgement is passed. We understand the bitter reality of unhappy marriage. You will be welcomed with open arms and an open line of communication, in a highly discreet and private environment. You will be given an opportunity to share what exactly it is you would like from our experience — no fetish is shunned here. We can also serve as emotional support by providing a sincere and genuinely compassionate listener, if that is what you need. The ladies truly enjoy giving you this experience and, if this post strikes you, we hope to be able to do so for you soon.
I have found the perfect lovers for me because I always was, and continue to be, open about my personal and sexual feelings. It’s a fearlessness that I’m proud of and that serves me well in my relationships and in my role as a sex worker. Without fail, honesty is the best path to not only a happy life, but also a healthy and fulfilling sex life.
Lexie is a featured courtesan at Dennis Hof's Love Ranch North and comes from Huntington Beach, California. She prides herself on always saying YES and trying new things, making your every dream come true.
Growing numbers of both men and women are becoming intrigued by the possibilities of pleasuring the prostate gland. As a legal Nevada sex worker, I’ve been performing prostate massages for about 5 years. A percent of my clients request or are intrigued by prostate stimulation. I’m quite skilled at it and know how to do it safely. Now, it’s important for me to state that this activity is done for pleasure! Prostate massage opens up a whole new door to sexual satisfaction. Unfortunately, many men feel awkward or uncomfortable about requesting a prostate massage when they visit a sex worker, thinking that the simple fact of practicing it will make them feel less masculine, or even homosexual. But the truth of the matter is, the prostate, also called the “Male G-Spot”, is accessible only via the anus (which is itself an erogenous zone, by the way). If you’ve never experienced prostate massage, you should try it at least once! It’s the only way for you to know if it’s something you enjoy or not. The important thing to keep in mind is that both the giver and receiver must be into it. Then the rewards will be tremendous! When you have a willing, sexually creative partner, the most intense orgasms and the highest level of sensual bliss can be achieved.
It’s been known for a long time that women can have intense pleasure with anal stimulation. Now it’s time for you, the man, to learn what this anal play is all about it and why it feels so good! Sexual curiosity has always been part of the human mind — it’s what many people find so enticing about sex. I know you’re curious, so don’t pretend like I’m not talking to you. I will show you how to safely find and stimulate this little love marvel that is the prostate.
Know that us ladies will not find you less of a man for letting us touch and explore areas of your body. I can honestly say that I get very aroused by doing it.
Locating your “Male G Spot”
Every man has a “male G spot”. The prostate lies just beneath the bladder and is easily reached by the insertion of a finger into the canal (see diagram below). The prostate’s normal function is to secrete a milk, alkaline fluid that protects sperm once semen has been ejaculated. It surrounds the top portion of the tube that carries urine out of the bladder (the urethra). The prostate is about the size of a walnut and actually changes in hardness just before and last during the orgasm. The whole canal up to the prostate is also full of nerve endings, making for a very pleasurable experience when massaged with the finger or a male toy.
Before you begin, it’s important to make sure you are ready. It takes a huge level of trust and intimacy between two people to do this right! Be gentle and careful when testing both your limits and the recipient’s limits as well. First, make sure you’ve emptied your bladder. Second, the giver must trim the nails well in order to prevent any tearing of the delicate rectal lining. Nails can cause injury even when gloves are worn! Third. make sure your bowels are emptied and your entire rectal area is very clean. I offer showers before and after. That will make us both comfortable about the experience. Fourth, you must be relaxed in order for your body to allow the passage of a finger, making it painless. The session should begin with an external massage. Your partner may touch and press on the gluteus maximus (the butt cheek!) in the direction of the anus. It could also start with a simple back massage. Or oral sex while simultaneously beginning to touch massaging the perineum (the skin between your testicles and anus) or the anal area itself. The whole idea is to arouse you and get you ready. I always encourage my clients to express what feels best when I am doing it.
Lubrication is essential
Whether a latex glove is used or not (a well-oiled glove will slide more easily than your bare skin), make sure the giver’s finger is covered in lubricant. I have my personal favorites and it works wonders for me and my partners. Affectionally and slowly insert one finger. When the time comes, you will feel that the finger is “sucked” in by the anus. Once the finger has been allowed in, hold still and allow the anal sphincter muscles to become accustomed to it’s presence. Do not move fingers in and out unless it’s to add more lubricant. It can become uncomfortable at this stage for the recipient to experience eve subtle moves.
Finding the “G Spot”
When your partner is more comfortable. it’s time to go deeper into the anus —about 5 centimeters (2inches). Move your finger in an upward motion against the anterior rectal wall (the side of the rectum that is closest to the recipient’s stomach). Slowly and gently try to find a round, bulb-like mass. This is the prostate. It’s important to breathe and relax the muscles of the whole body as well the anal muscles. If you become tense, you will lessen the probability of pleasure.
Now that You’ve Found It…
Once you’ve located the little male love mound, start massaging the prostate very lightly, using the pad at the tip of your finger. (Remember not to use nails!) A toy designed for men can also be introduced into the mix, however, I have learned that it is always better to start with the finger.
Always ask your partner if he would like a little more or less pressure, or slower or faster motions. You can take breaks until the whole sensation is no longer foreign for the recipient. Depending on your level of intimacy, you can touch with your other hand, lick, stroke the penis in an up-and-down motion, he can stroke it as he pleases, or you can also perform oral sex while massaging the prostate. It may take some coordination on the part of the giver, but you will get the hang of it — and always remember: don’t apply your weight on the hand that you are using to massage the prostate! Once it’s fully aroused, you can begin to rhythmically move the partially inserted finger in and out to stimulate the super-sensitive nerve endings around the anus. I like to do this and reach for the prostate every time my finger slides back in.
During the male orgasm
A combination of events occur simultaneously when a man orgasms. The prostate gland releases prostatic fluid, which makes up about one-third of the total volume of semen and contains various enzymes, zinc and citric acid. I like to apply a firm but gentle pressure rhythmically or irregularly to the prostate before and during orgasm, which increases the duration of those wonderful sensations. I know you are about to cum even before you know it, because your prostate glad inflates and become hard as a rock!
Who should learn more about prostate massage
• Couples interested in new ways to pleasure (yes, I can teach it)
• Adventurous and curious men of any age
• Men over 40
• Men with fetishes
• Men with performance challenges
• Prostate cancer survivors
• Men with erectile dysfunction
Quotes from my clients
“I would agree that men have a genuinely hard time allowing anyone near their butt hole and prostate. I am very clean as a man and also very open and curious. There is a lot to feel and experience, so why not down there.
I went in thinking I would not be as shy compared to if it was a girlfriend.
The initial play was arousing and really caught me off guard to how my body wanted to keep trying, as though it knew where to go. The feeling quickly vanished from embarrassing to pleasure. I have never felt that kind of pressure build up to the end. It was well worth my trip!” – R.
“If you’ve experienced ED and had prostate surgery, prostrate massage can give you additional stimulation. It may assist you in keeping and or getting an erection, something prostrate surgery makes difficult “. I would also say the partner is as important as the practice. It takes skill and patience and trust to make the experience special. I can say “JADE” has those skills” – A.
“I wasn’t sure if I was all in yet, but I did discuss my fantasies with my lover. Then, one night, soon after, while we were making love and she was getting me hard, she pulled out a rubber glove. I had no idea what was coming. So she proceeded to lube up the glove and insert her finger into my butt hole. I was totally surprised. She slowly moved it deeper and deeper, taking care not to cause any pain. The sensation was very erotic and exciting. It didn’t hurt, but was very pleasurable. Once she had her finger all the way in, she proceeded to give me a prostrate massage. Something I had never experienced before. It felt very pleasurable and I was getting so excited, I chose to started jerk it. She continued to pleasure me and get me more and more excited. Eventually, I jerked my cock so hard with the excitement that I exploded with my cum. It was truly a fun, erotic and pleasurable feeling and experience and I ended with an amazing orgasm. I look forward to the next time my lover and I get to try this.” – R.
“I found out about this during a visit to the medical examiner. My regular doctor wasn’t available, so a female physician took his place. She was attractive and when she started the exam around there. I immediately got an enormous erection which caused her to become embarrassed. Later I did some research and learned more about what had happened.” – M
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A lot of people will tell you that great sex can only be between two people that are truly in love. And, don’t get me wrong, sex between two people in love can be truly great, however, just because you are in love does not mean you are likely to have great sex…let alone even good sex.
Now you might remember the first time you had sex with a new partner, or even your spouse. You might remember it being the best sex of your life. But if you really think back, how was it a week or a month later? Not as good, was it? In fact, if you are honest, it was boring, plain, uninspired, and probably the worst sex of your life. Why is that? The first time we have sex it is blinded by the excitement of something new, and in some cases it has just been so long that any sex would be better than none! We ignore all the bad things in the excitement of the moment. Eventually, as the novelty wears off, we begin to realize there are more “bad things” than good things and the sex becomes just another activity, if we even continue to have sex at all.
Why are there more “bad things” than “good things” in our sexual activity with someone we love? Simply because most people don’t know how to do sex “right.” They have no real skill in the art of “making love.”They rush thru every aspect of sex without taking time to enjoy each other or the feelings that are going on within their bodies. They try as many positions as they can think of without knowing why they are trying them or if they actually even feel good.They just know they saw them somewhere.They try to seem experienced by what they think they are doing right when in reality they are not. But no one says a thing so nothing changes.
How did you find out about sex? Maybe you experimented in the back seat of a car with someone equally inept, repeating what felt good. Is that the best way to learn a new skill? To develop an art? Just fumble along, the blind leading the blind? Think about it how much do you really know about having sex. What do you know about pleasing another person…what do you know about pleasing yourself. Could you help someone learn to please you? No, then how do you expect your sex life to get any better by following the same pattern.
Maybe you read or watch porn. Perhaps you even learned a technique or two that actually work in the real world. Most guys just end up angering, or even hurting, their partner by trying something impractical they saw in porn. Not every position you see in porn is designed to be used during your sexual encounter, they are not what feels best, but are what is best for the camera angle. Think about it? Men, have you ever had a lady climb on top for sex? How many of them chose to face your feet in the position seen in virtually every porn “Reverse Cowgirl”? I’ll bet none of them (if you have had one choose that position, take that as a hint and check your breath next time!). Why? Why is that position in nearly every porn but never in real life? Because it doesn’t feel as good for the lady, and generally women like to look into your eyes, to see you. So if it doesn’t feel good, doesn’t offer connection why is it in so many porns? Because it looks great on camera. That is right just because it looks good on camera does not mean it feels good in reality. So remember that if you want to make a hot sex tape, but forget that position if you want your lady to enjoy the session! I could go on about other positions in porn’s that are downright awkward and uncomfortable, and even a few that are downright dangerous. I have been in porn films, and if you watch carefully, the non-porn positions are generally the ones in which you’ll see me cumming (over and over and over again!).
With the experience I have had in my private life, in porn, and as a legal licensed courtesan I maintain that the best sex is with someone who is experienced. The one who has practiced the art of making sex enjoyable for both parties. Someone with the skills and knowledge to not only make the current session more fulfilling but to raise your level of knowledge and experience, to make you a better lover in the process.
The first thing I have learned as a legal licensed courtesan is that in order to make your fantasies come true I need to truly listen to you and your needs and wants.I enjoy listening to your stories, ideas, fantasies, and learning what makes you tick.This gives me an advantage since it allows me to use every skill I have to make you feel good, let you enjoy yourself, and give you the best mind blowing orgasm you have ever had. So the ability to not only make our time together more enjoyable by showing you tricks I have learned in my own life experiences, but also those I have learned on porn sets.But since I am a life long learner I love to research topics and then thru practice I do my best to perfect those new skills to make you my VIP and fulfill your fantasy.On top of all that I really enjoy sex and being a courtesan. One of the other important parts of being good at sex is actually enjoying it.I can honestly say that I do enjoy it and enjoy it even more when I see that you are enjoying yourself as well.
Here at the Love Ranch North, you’ll find ladies that are trained and practiced in the art of sex. Ladies that enjoy sharing their knowledge with you. Ladies that are patient and willing to train you. Ladies that are ready to share that art of sex.
Our ladies enjoy instructing and practicing with both men and women. You could come alone to learn what we have to offer, however consider bringing your lover with you. What better way to add a new thrill to a boring sex life than for both of you to work together, under our guidance, to become great lovers together. We love to work with couples to teach each of you things that you may not know to help you have a better sex life to enjoy a more satisfying and enjoyable orgasm.
After you have learned from me or one of the other ladies, then you can truly enjoy great sex with the one you love or come to the Love Ranch North and have mind blowing sex with one of us.
Soyouhavebinge–watchedCathouseonHBO.YouhavejoinedtheBunny Ranch message boardandhadfunchattingwithallthelovelyladies.Youhavecompletedextensiveresearchonhowtomakeitto the Reno areawithoutraisinganyeyebrows.Allthisandyoustillhaven’tpulledthetriggerandmadeitouttoseeus.Whatisholdingyouback?Youmayhavesomelingeringquestionsinthebackofyourmind.Yousaytoyourself“Maybethisisn’trightfor a married guy like me?”Well,Iamheretoconsoleyourfearsandputthedoubtoutofyourmind.Ihavecompiledthemostcompellingreasonsyoushouldcomeseeme (oroneofmyfriends) at Dennis Hof’s Red Light District.
Our society has rules to ensure the fringe stays in line with what comes natural to the majority of us.We don’t murder, we don’t steal, we don’t assault, because not doing these things comes as natural to us as breathing or blinking.However, monogamy doesn’t seem to come so easy.Why?Because it’s NOT NATURAL!One day our society will catch up and this whole thing will pass.Until then you will need a discreet partner to help you live more naturally.Come see me, I can be your secret partner.
2. Your marriage has become a friendship
Many years ago you had a best friend and a lover.As the years and your relationship have progressed, it seems you have a best friend who occasionally allows you access to “the goods.”While you love your wife and have no intention of living without her, you don’t want a sterile mechanical sexual relationship.You want that willing participant that rocked your world so many years ago.Come see me, I will rock you.
3. A non-judgmental ear
You have spent a lifetime working to make yourself the best you can be.Some days were smooth as silk.Some days, however — some days felt like the weight of the world was sitting on your shoulders.Those stressful days are hard to deal with.Sometimes you need someone who listens to you, someone who won’t judge you for being vulnerable and having doubts.I absolutely love to hear about you and what makes you tick. I also love getting naked and showing you what makes me tick.
4. Kinky secrets
You have sex regularly and she does her best to please.However, you have a kinky side and want to try new things.The problem is you don’t want to ask your wife, the mother of your children, to do those things.Ask me to do them instead.I specialize in “those things.”
Probably the reason mentioned most often.Sometimes you just feel the daily grind has extinguished any excitement in your life.If you want the adventure back, come see me and the ladies of Nevada’s sex dens. I will make your sex life adventurous once again.
River is a vibrant, thirty-something, southern belle excited to make your acquaintance. This Simply Extraordinary legal courtesan, exclusive to The Sagebrush Ranch, will take you on a sexy trip through space and time.
Hey Babes! I’m Mercedes, and I’m going to rock your world.
I want to show you a few basic yoga poses and the benefits they have to offer. Originating in ancient India as a physical, mental, and spiritual practice; Yoga has more recently traveled to the western world to take our physical drive up a notch. So, what do we know about sex and yoga?
From banging it downward doggy-style to reveling in the sex-friendliness of a flexible yogini, Yoga has increasingly become a popular influence in sexploration between starry-eyed lovers, and here’s why.
A regular yoga practice will:
tone the body
increase alertness and energy levels
Enhance libido, performance, and sexual satisfaction
Practicing yoga can support a rich, full and dynamic sex life. The poses featured here work directly to increase your circulation of blood flow to the pelvic area, and with this, energy and vitality follow. Circulation and increased blood flow are directly linked to level of arousal. Start using these poses in the bedroom today!
Bridge Pose- Setu Bandha Sarvangasana
Why this pose is great:
• Stretches the chest, neck, and spine
• Stimulates abdominal organs, lungs, and thyroid
• Therapeutic and calming for the brain
• Energizing to the nervous system
Great for Sex Because:
Bridge pose activates ‘Mula Bandha’, the pelvic floor muscles-tightening and toning much like a Kegel exercise would. To find an optimal rhythm, I would suggest your partner start by gently thrusting in and out. As you both become comfortable, he can grab your waist or thighs and start pulling you towards him with each thrust.
His extra hand can be used to stimulate your clitoris. Try variating this pose by throwing one leg up against his shoulder to enjoy deeper penetration.
How to do it:
1. Begin by lying on your back, with both knees bent and feet flat on the floor hip width apart.
2. Arms are placed alongside the body with palms facing down. Fingertips lightly touching the heels.
3. Press the feet into the floor, inhale to raise the hips up.
4. Lightly squeeze the knees together. Press down into the arms and shoulders to lift the chest up.
Engage the legs, buttocks and mula bandha to lift the hips higher.
Puppy Pose- Uttana Shishosana
Why this pose is great:
• Stretches the spine and shoulders
• This pose increases flexibility in the spine
• As an inversion, more blood is available to the heart and head
• Opens the back and chest to feel emotionally buoyant and physically energized
Great for Sex Because:
Who doesn’t love doggie style? Puppy pose calms the mind while invigorating the body. This sex position creates deeper penetration. You can variate by using a hand to stimulate the clit… or lightly grasp his balls (I find that most men love this!). Or… You can prop yourself up with a pillow to relax and enjoy the ride!
How to do it:
1. From Table position, tuck the toes under and walk your hands forward.
2. Spread the fingers wide apart.
3. Lift up through the tailbone to keep the spine straight and long.
4. Pull the shoulder blades together and down the back.
Why this pose is great:
• Strengthens the spine
• Stretches chest and lungs, shoulders, and abdomen
• Firms the buttocks
• Stimulates abdominal organs
• Relieves stress and fatigue
• Opens the heart and lungs
• Builds heat
Great for sex because:
Bhujangasana is said to awaken the raw life force energy of the kundalini.
This sex position creates a snug fit for your guy’s penis and he will feel even larger.
How to do it:
1. Lie on your belly with palms flat on the floor and elbows underneath shoulders.
4. Use your hands to pull your chest forward.
5. Shoulder blades should be pressing together and sliding down the back.
6. Legs together, thighs activated and abdomen should engage.
Wide-Legged Forward Fold: Prasarita Padottanasana
Why this pose is great:
• Lengthens your hamstrings, calves, spinal column and core
• Strengthens feet, ankles, and legs
• Stimulates digestive, uro-genital, nervous and endocrine systems
• The inverted shape and the forward fold promotes a feeling of calmness
Great for Sex Because:
This sex position tightens the vaginal walls tighter and increases the intensity of the friction.
While supporting you with one hand, your partner can use the other to tickle your clitoris. If you want to play around with some light bondage, loosely have him tie your hands together with a silky scarf.
How to do it:
1. Your forward fold should come from hinging at the hips.
2. Engage the low abdomen to gently pull the belly up and in.
3. Palms can be flat to the floor or grasping the ankles.
4. Use the strength in your upper body to pull yourself deeper into the pose.
Recap: Yoga tones and strengthens your body in all of the right ways. It energizes the body from the inside out; sharpening your focus and improving your stamina. Yoga promotes deep and powerful breathing, which in turn will increase your oxygen intake and result in a sexy, confident state of being.
My favorite benefit from yoga, and the inspiration for my daily practice is the reward of enhanced awareness. Yoga allows us to harnesses our innate ability to live in the present moment. Imagine how our lives could be changed for the better by the simple act of allowing ourselves to become more aligned and in sync with our senses.
Wishing you totally paramount and liberating love-fueled experiences!
Sexy and fit, Mercedes is the luxury companion with a body that can do things you won't believe. A headliner at Dennis Hof's Moonlite Bunny Ranch, Mercedes looks forward to turning every single one of your sexual fantasies into sweet memories.
According to the Massachusetts Male Aging Study, 52% of men ages 40 to 70 years reported some form of ED.Of the 52%, 17% had mild symptoms, 25% moderate, and 10% severe. Erectile Dysfunction is much more common than we think.
Short or long term ED (Erectile Dysfunction) brought about by meds, health or aging, can be a feared source of embarrassment to many men who fear they will now be unable to please their partner, and having ED will mean the loss of their sex life.They feel emasculated, impotent and less of a man.And while intercourse may no longer be possible, you can still have a great and satisfying sex life by learning new ways to give and receive pleasure.
Intercourse is only a small part of the countless avenues to give and receive pleasure, and studies show that a large portion of women do not orgasm this way.Plus as people get older they find that orgasm is not the big goal it once was.In fact it becomes less and less important, and what becomes more gratifying is connecting, sharing of intimacy, touching, romance, kissing, feeling close, loved.
We mostly have the mindset that fucking is the destination and all other things are foreplay leading up to that.But what if fucking is the foreplay and the real objective is experiencing one another, sharing intimacy, sensuality and connection, and all else is just a byproduct.
With this mindset, having ED can open up a whole new world of exploration in touching, kissing, intimacy, closeness and sensuality between you and your partner, that’s not just physical, but mental and emotional as well.
On the physical front, studies have shown it’s easier for women to orgasm from oral sex or the use of a toy, such as a vibrator, than to cum from vaginal sex.When a guy knows how to lick pussy really well, it’s a very good thing. Too often men want to zero in on the sex organs in an attempt to please their partner, and don’t think of giving full body, mind pleasure.There’s ways to touch that are so erotic, so sensual, and feel so amazingly good.And there’s ways to kiss the mouth and body that are so damn sexy, so damn arousing.
Remember the entire body is an erogenous zone, with the mind being the greatest of them all. Learn to stimulate your partner and turn them on mentally and emotionally, as well as physically. Foreplay isn’t just sexual, nor is it just the physical stuff before sex.Foreplay is also a series of emotional events used throughout the day and week to turn your partner on, emotionally and mentally, by making them feel special, validated, appreciated and noticed. Ways to do this could be as simple as making a point daily to look for the good in them, and express appreciation for the things they do.
A great form of emotional foreplay is that of impeccable listening skills. If you want your partner to feel really special, try looking at them as they speak, and hanging on their every word as though they are of life and death importance to you.Hear what they’re saying, and what they mean.Good listening skills in a man are very, very sexy.Having someone focus all their attention upon you, and take a genuine interest in you is a very potent kind of foreplay. It should be taught as part of foreplay 101. Another sexy turn on for women is a man who repairs things around the house for her, carries things for her, does chores and helps with kids.
Make the time you spend together fun.Have interesting things to talk about.It’s also a good idea to ask one’s mate what makes them feel special.Because what makes one person feel special is different from what makes another feel special.
I think most women would agree that good emotional and mental foreplay is much more satisfying and arousing than intercourse.And if you pair that with stellar pussy licking skills, plus knowing how to touch and kiss for maximum pleasure, your sex life can metamorphose into a richly satisfying and rewarding experience for both you and your partner. Knowing how to kiss and touch is very important.Give more time for slow, voluptuous kisses all over your lover’s body, from head to toe; also in cuddling and caressing.
When touching, don’t just go for the genitals.That’s boring. Let these be the least of your focus, and touch her everywhere but there. The same rule applies for pussy licking.Don’t zero in on the clit and forget the rest.Do the entire pussy as your main focus.You can give a woman G-spot orgasms, clitoral orgasms and more, with skillful use of your tongue.
A lot of women have stronger orgasms from being held close with lots of kissing, and use of a vibrator than from standard coitus.
Explore going into sex with no agenda or destination other than the giving and receiving of pleasure.This tiny adjustment can work wonders for one’s sex life.It also takes the pressure off of having to perform.
Erectile Dysfunction need not be the end of your sex life.Whether or not you’re in a relationship you can have a truly rich and rewarding sex life with ED.In my ED parties we connect and share intimacy on a deep level, while sharing intensely pleasurable ways of touching, kissing, and of giving and receiving pleasure.
Don’t let ED keep you from experiencing deep levels of intimacy and pleasure.If you don’t have a sex partner, you can make the most out of your ED by visiting a sex provider at the Nevada brothels who is specialized with ED.Who knows, your ED could be a blessing in disguise that leads to new sensual and sexual horizons.
Bryce is an elegant, sophisticated, full service courtesan who is specialized in Erectile Dysfunction (ED), GFE (the Girlfriend Experience) and Role-Playing. Bryce Stevens caters to upscale, distinguished gentlemen who seek deeply satisfying, intimate encounters.
Let’s face it. Sex workers have seen more penises than just about any other demographic, including physicians. As a licensed prostitute in a Nevada brothel, I’ve seen and serviced at least 1,000 men, and I’ve given blow jobs to most of them. To say that I’m a blow job expert is an understatement.
In my profession, fellatio is one of the most important skills a woman can have in her repertoire. Possessing the ability to give a client unforgettable head could mean the difference between a repeat customer and a man I’ll never see again. It is absolutely crucial to my profession that I’m the best cocksucker you’ve ever had, and that when you’re not with me, you’re dreaming of having my lips wrapped around your throbbing, raging member, sucking you fiercely as the erotic tension builds to an eruptive climax.
But what makes a blow job truly great? After all, to paraphrase David Lynch, “A bad blow job is better than no blow job at all,” right? Well, sure. But what makes a blow job worth paying for? Why is a blow job from a woman like me better than just about any blow job any man will ever have?
What separates a spectacular blow job from a mediocre blow job?
She’s gotta be into it!
The first step to a great blow job, or great sex of any kind, is for both participants to be enthusiastic about it. So many women approach a blow job as something to “get it over with,” which is why so many men come to sex workers like me to experience a real blow job. If you’re with a woman who thinks that oral sex is disgusting or demeaning, or thinks that dick-sucking is an act designed only to give the receiver pleasure, you’re not going to get a good blow job.
During a truly sensational blow job, both the receiver and the giver should be enjoying themselves. I love cock. I love to touch it, lick it, and suck it. I love that your dick is hard because of what I’m doing to it, and that I’m so good at what I do that I’m going to give you an amazing orgasm. It makes me feel beautiful and sexy and powerful. I’m totally into your dick!
Every woman knows that they have the power to get a guy off quick, but rushing through a blow job is really doing a disservice to men. Good fellatio is slow and sensual, beginning with the slightest touch of my lips and tongue as my hot breath teases and tingles. When you’re rock hard and moaning for it, I’ll take your rigid cock into my mouth and start sucking and bobbing, first just with the head of your penis and then gradually taking in your entire shaft. I’m careful to not go too hard, too fast. It’s important to take breaks from the wet hot friction of my mouth and the tantalizing flicking of my tongue, so that I can let you savor your erection while I kiss and lick your shaft and balls. As you squirm with pleasure from my teasing and denial, and bask in the prolonged bliss of having your dick sucked deeply and thoroughly, I’m gauging your level of readiness to orgasm, and paying close attention to your verbal and nonverbal cues. When it’s time, I go hardcore on your cock. Taking you in deep and wet, faster and faster, as I finally release you. Your orgasm is intense and you come hard because I took the time to build up a truly climactic experience.
More than just a tactile sex act
A blow job doesn’t just involve the sense of touch. When my lips are wrapped around your dick, I want your eyes to see my tight body posed subserviently as my heart shaped ass moves up and down in tandem with my mouth. I want you to hear me moaning and gurgling in ecstasy as you pound my sweet throat. The sexy scent of the candles in my room. The taste of me,should you decide to reciprocate by burying your face between my legs.
A blow job is an all-encompassing experience that operates on the psychical level as well. It’s important to understand the psychology of a blow job in order to make it truly engrossing. Men need to feel like they are the king of their domain, like they are the masters of their destiny. A blow job is one way that men gauge their manliness. Every man wants to be in a true position of power, and nothing says “power” like having a beautiful woman kneeling before you with your dick in her mouth. A lot of women don’t understand that there’s a lot of role play involved in cocksucking. Some women don’t feel comfortable playing the submissive. A truly strong, sexually confident person like myself has no trouble begging for dick and being your mouth-slave when we’re together.
These are just a few elements that separate a run-of-the-mill blow job from an oral adventure. Ultimately, a great blow job is all about being into it, savoring it, and making oral sex as engrossing an experience as possible so that the two of us can enter our own private world of naughty fun. No one gives a blow job as good as an expert, so if your cock finds itself longing for a wet and wild mouth, maybe it’s time to drop me a line…
A country gal looking for adventure, Magenta is a small town girl who understands the value of genuine companionship. With her unmatched sexual enthusiasm, Magenta is up for a wide variety of sexual escapades, including the Girlfriend Experience, Porn Star Experience, fantasy role-play, fetishes, threesomes, and all manner of naughty fun!
Sex in our society is a taboo subject – especially when it comes to sex with more than one person, and couples inviting an additional person into the proverbial marital bed. However, the past few decades have brought a resurgence of sexual exploration, including a new found interest in threesomes. There are countless reasons for the interest in three-way sex, including the ongoing popularity of the swinger lifestyle, but the fact still remains: Couples are coming out to the ranches in droves, looking to fulfill their fantasies of having an additional partner in the bedroom.
It makes perfect sense to bring a legal sex worker into bed with you and your partner. Here are just a few common reasons:
1. It’s Legal and Safe
Each lady working at a legal brothel undergoes an extensive background check prior to working at the ranches, so you can feel comfortable around your lady of choice. Additionally, we undergo medical testing each week, ensuring that your encounter here is risk free. The number one fear of bringing in another partner is that they may have an unknown STI. By visiting a ranch lady to meet your desires, you no longer have to worry about that risk.
2. It’s Discreet
Couples often are concerned about neighborly gossip- What will the neighbors think, if we bring home another lady? This is a serious concern for many, as it is perfectly normal to value one’s privacy. When you and your partner come to the ranch, you know that your identity is safe and secure. Our billing process is equally discreet, for your benefit and protection.
3. It’s Professional
When you need your teeth cleaned, you make an appointment with your dentist. In the same fashion, when you’re looking to have your sexual desires met, it makes perfect sense to hire a professional. Many ladies, including myself, welcome and enjoy spending time with couples. In fact, I have a number of glowing reviews from couples I have spent time with. When you already have an established relationship with someone, it can be difficult for a third person to navigate their way into the dynamic. With me, thats never an issue. I always take the time before our party to talk to both parties- jointly and separately, as to what their wishes, wants, and desires are for the encounter. We also go over any limitations that you may have, so that you can lay back, relax, and enjoy our encounter.
4. It’s a Bucket List Item
Many men, and women consider the act of having a threesome to be a major bucket list item! It’s like anything else in life that you want to experience- you seek out the best way to make that happen, and plan ahead. By e-mailing the lady you are interested in before your appointment, you have the chance to get to know them better, and discover common interests.
5. It’s Life Changing
There is no better way to get to know yourself and your partner more intimately in the bedroom. You’ll be surprised to discover new sexual pleasures you can give each other, as well as discover new things about your own sexual interests. Couples often tell me that having an encounter with a legal sex worker was just the thing their relationship needed. It brings an added spark to the bedroom, something new and different!
I encourage any couples considering an encounter with me to e-mail me, so we can begin discussing our time together. I personally respond to all e-mails, and will happily take the time to answer all of your questions. If you’re looking to surprise your spouse with an encounter- just let me know, and I’ll help you plan everything. A beautiful woman, willing and waiting for your significant other in bed is one of the best presents I can think of to give someone. No matter what you have in mind, I promise we will find a way to make your fantasies come to fruition, and have an incredible time doing so!
Are you ready for your first threesome as a couple?
Many couples have concerns when looking for their first three-some adventure. These are very valid, and are worth talking to your partner about in advance. I always encourage my couples to express their personal desires to each other, as well as to me. Are there any particular positions that you have in mind? Are there specific boundaries that you aren’t comfortable with? Are both of you 100% on board with the idea of a threesome? Keep in mind that a threesome encounter can change your sex life for the better- so long as everyone is genuinely interested in the experience. If one of you are hesitant, or have concerns, do take the time before your appointment to address those things. The most common pitfall in my experience is when both partners aren’t on board with a threesome. If you’re already having marital issues, a threesome isn’t going to be a magic fix. Instead, consider spending time together without a third and working on that aspect of your relationship before bringing in the new dimension of an additional partner.
If you and your partner are devoted to each other, and ready to explore new sexual possibilities, proceed ahead to your encounter!
Top Must-Do things Prior to Your Three-Way Adventure:
1. Set Boundaries
Common examples include ‘no vaginal intercourse’, ‘no french kissing’, and establishing protocols to stop all activity. You can even write these out, and bring them with you. It’s important that you make it clear what is off-limits for the sex worker. Of course, I can help you sort these out when we get together.
2. Trust me, and each other
You’re visiting with a sex worker because you trust each other and have a bond so strong, and a relationship so stable, that you’re willing to enhance your sex life by adding another sexual participant. Now it’s time to trust in the experience of your sex worker, and let her guide you on your exciting and sensuous journey. While every threesome experience is unique and special, it’s important to understand that your sex worker intimately understands three-way sex. This isn’t her first rodeo. She knows all of the emotional and physical cues to look for, and is well versed in a variety of positions and techniques. Let her help you decide the most comfortable approach to this experience so that all parties involved could have the most intense and pleasurable erotic experience imaginable.
3. Arrive Early
I always welcome and encourage my couples to arrive prior to our set appointment time, so we can spend some time beforehand together in the parlor. We can have a couple of drinks, sit, talk, and get to know each other better. It’s very important to me that both of you are feeling comfortable before we enter the bedroom. We will take as long as you both need to settle in and relax before the festivities begin!
Alice Little is a 4’8” red-headed cutie – but don’t let her small stature deceive you. she is a Dom in BDSM, an expert in all things kink, and possesses unparalleled lovemaking skills. Alice is the part-time girlfriend coveted by both men and women, and will make you feel right at home at the Sagebrush Ranch.
I have been a working girl at Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch (located across the street from the Bunny Ranch) for quite a while now. When I first started as a legal courtesan, I had sexual experience, have had different partners and relationships, but I wasn’t prepared for what would happen next.
I was so nervous the first time I was with a client that the first person who picked me in line up walked out on me. He was just as nervous as I was and neither of us were prepared to cope with each other’s anxiety. As time passed, I overcame my shyness, and I became more relaxed and better able to cater to clientele requiring my special type of sensitivity, such as adult virgins, the shy, widowers, the rusty and the recently divorced.
What drives someone to seek out a working girl?
The idea of a sexual experience for many can cause major anxiety and nervousness whether it has to do with performance limitations, lack of experience, or inadequacy of any sort in the bedroom. Not to mention how many men can be self-conscious of their personal appearance and never make a “move,” overthinking about how girls view them.
For many, engaging with the opposite sex and pursuing a relationship doesn’t come easy. There are a lot of guys who legitimately need intimate guidance from a discreet and empathetic woman to help men overcome their inhibitions about sex. This is why they contact women like myself.
I have received many emails that started with people pouring their hearts out to me, tormented souls who felt as if they were alone in the world. The truth is that their plight is very common, and as we corresponded and got to know each other, it became clear that the solution to their problem was to connect, spiritually and sexually, with someone who understood them and was sympathetic to their needs. Below are some details about the types of individuals that often seek my services.
I can sit here and tell them over email all day long how they shouldn’t be feeling afraid, anxious or nervous, that everything will be okay when they come visit. Society doesn’t always understand why someone could have not lost their virginity at the “right” time. What is their idea of a right time anyway? It’s when you feel comfortable and confident that it’s your right time. Truth of the matter is that some have waited to save themselves for when they find love, others have missed an opportunity by being too polite and falling into the “friend” category, others pursued girls that were simply not interested in any interaction with them.
Reasons for being an adult virgin can include religious upbringing, family background, being an introvert, putting school and degree first (it’s a form of not being distracted from life goals), even being a loner plays a big role on why a man over the age of 18 is still a virgin. It’s common to find people that will resort to being alone in order to avoid the pressure society puts on them.
What I try to explain to people is that being a virgin, and not having experienced sex or anything about sexuality with another human being, is mostly about not having the courage to let go and give yourself to another. Putting pressure on yourself and thinking over and over about all the negative things that could happen is a type of excuse to not try. A lot times is easier to think that waiting or tricking your mind that you don’t need it is an escape.
It’s not an easy decision to set a date for your first sexual experience with a woman when planning a trip to a brothel to see a working girl, but it is a start to a healthy sex life and a worthwhile learning experience. Remember, having sex for the first time is only wetting your toes in an ocean of possibilities. You’ll never learn to swim if you avoid the water.
A lot men get really anxious, nervous and almost scared about talking to women. It’s a real struggle for some to think about interaction with the opposite sex and push through it to talk to them. I have met many that described that feeling being at times similar to a physical pain, almost like and invisible force they could never overcome.
Some will try online interaction with ladies, but never make themselves go on a date as the thought of rejection is stronger than the desire of following it through. Many shy man find themselves in the Adult Virgin or Rusty category. A number of shy men have experienced sex, but might fall in to the Rusty category as it takes a long time for them to feel comfortable with another person. These type of guys can be great conversationalists given the chance. Many have very interesting hobbies and would love to share with a girl, but the thought of being intimate with a lady that they are interested in having a relationship with is like sending people to do the most impossible task you can think in life.
If you build the courage to visit me, I try to point out the good as well as what needs improvement. It’s much like a real life exercise in that you don’t need to be perfect, you just need to try – and a lot of times that works. Encouraging a person to do something that is emotionally painful to them while in a supportive environment can do wonders for a person. I am not saying that it will be instantly successful, but before you realize it, you will open up to things you never thought would be possible, and learn a great deal as you allow yourself to indulge in new sexual experiences.
There can be a lot of reasons why men take a sabbatical from sex at certain times in their lives. Some don’t even realize it is happening until one or two years go by and they realize they are taking time to raise the kids, enduring a marriage that does not include sex, healing from a past relationship, or have been divorced for a while, widowed, or dealing with health issues.
Being rusty does not mean they don’t know what to do, just that they haven’t had a partner in a while for a number of reasons including the ones above.
It might come as a surprise to women, but it’s hard for many men to get back in the “game” after not having any kind of physical intimacy for a while. Yes, over time, men can develop a degree of anxiety towards interaction with women that will paralyze them from approaching the opposite sex.
A lot times it’s that barrier that I help break with my dates here at the Love Ranch. Many people feel like they can take on the world after visiting with me, and that is the way a lot of my rusty visitors want to feel: confident and prepared to reenter sexual society.
Losing a partner of many years can be utterly devastating. It’s important to engage in different activities to keep your mind occupied. The family may provide great support and spend time with you, but it’s not the same as having a presence of a woman. I know you will catch yourself feeling guilty at times because you are experiencing positive things while your partner is gone.
I have met people who have lost their wives years ago and did not know what to do next. They were basically stuck in a limbo that didn’t provide any light at the end of the tunnel. I know how it is because I have been there. I lost my love four years into our relationship, and it was one of the most difficult task to overcome in my life. I thought that I would never find love again.
It can be very hard to bounce back and rediscover intimacy with a woman. It feels like looking for the person you lost in others and trying to compare every single aspect of your lost relationship.
I can help you muster up the actual courage to pursue sexual intimacy with a new person. I have successful stories where people opened up to me and let themselves enjoy the moment. It’s a long process to learn how to start living a life without your honey, but it’s a path that you must take in order to find ongoing happiness. My lesson is that you find a place in your heart for your loved one and tuck her in. It will be a safe place to go when you want to remember the experiences you lived together. That won’t go away. You will just learn that you can find fun and good moments with another person. That might take time, but it will happen.
While you may have been thinking that an interaction with a woman wasn’t in your plans for a while after a divorce, the desire for another’s touch might overpower your plans. Your body has needs and you may find yourself thinking “How will I begin again?” How to get your mind around the fact that you are past the club scene, but certainly youthful enough to spend time with a new partner.
Forget all the bitterness that went through you and your ex during the divorce. Now, you need to focus, be positive, and get back in the game. You probably had sex with one person for a long time or haven’t had it in a while. Whatever your situation is, it’s clear that you need a little push. You just need an incentive to get moving in this life that doesn’t stop for anyone.
You will have to get out, way out of your comfort zone and experience the cruel world of dating again. Trust me, ladies can be a little judgmental when looking for a new specimen, and they will know you are the new deer-in-headlights on the block. You will probably have to start meeting new people, friends of friends, accepting invitations to parties and get togethers. Some will be dreadful and some will be fun. You won’t find someone that you click with in a snap of a finger, but don’t get discouraged. It will happen. You will also have many good stories to tell after a few dates.
You will probably need a little more than just the physical touch of a woman in your life. It is like riding a bicycle again, but depending how long you have been married it will be like an “exploring time” to learn new things sexually and get a feel for intimacy with a different person.
Why not combine it all and have one person be your part-time new lover, stylist, confidante – someone that will boost your spirits and show you that is not the end of the world by a longshot.
Seeing a working girl is a short cut to the fun time without the pressure. Being with me, you will get to experience intimacy without the need to impress or prove yourself all over again. Sometimes is ok to treat yourself to what you truly want, without compromise or judgement. I will be open to what you like and show you things that you might have yet to experience. All in your own time, of course.
Jade Capri is a Brazilian bombshell beauty with a to-die-for authentic and exotic body built for pleasure. Her specialties include virgins, GFE (Girl Friend Experience), Couples, 2 Girl Sex Parties, Fetishes, Overnights, Outdates, and Bachelor Parties.