Why I Love to Cater to the Introverted and Antisocial 

Do you find social groups to be emotionally draining? Do you feel like you require extended time by yourself to feel recharged and refreshed? Well, you’re not alone—one third of our population feels exactly the same way. Would your electricity being cut off end your sex life? Let me plug you in, and we’ll make our own sparks, alone together, in comfortable privacy. Allow me to be your keyboard—stroke me till you find the answer to your desires. I guarantee the answers to your emotional and erotic needs can be found in my hands holding yours, my arms hugging you, my thighs welcoming you. I will never make you feel embarrassed, but will thrill you beyond anything you have ever imagined. 

As an introvert myself, it has always been a struggle to socialize and open myself to others, but my lifestyle and career as a legal sex worker has brought me in touch with other anxious and shy people who have taught me how to be more open, and how to reveal the hidden sexual talents we all possess. All it takes is a kind, patient, and understanding person to bring a new lover out of his or her reticent state. I have taught myself to be that person. I want to show you the path to a thriving and stimulated social and sexual life.

Caressa Kisses from Dennis Hof’s Moonlite Bunny Ranch

I flourish on growing with you and helping you dive into your passion. I find the balance of privacy and participation to be alluring. I start by taking you from masturbation to stimulation and slowly but firmly sliding you out of your shell. Let my soft sensual approach disarm you and be your guide. I take great pleasure in helping you explore the possibilities of sensual touch. As an introvert, your thoughts are always racing away and trying to analyze and improve your environment; knowing that, I can lay you in the lap of relaxation and tailor-fit your psychic settings to whatever your needs and desires may be.

I’ve made it my personal mission to give my fellow introverts, who are highly intelligent and emotionally advanced individuals, the opportunity to live beyond your screens and keys. To use me as your personal muse to create the intimate experience of a lifetime. 

We are not limited to just the confides of my bedroom. We can engage in a romantic dinner and dancing, take in a movie, go bowling, or enjoy a picnic in the Sierra Nevada Mountains — Taking our time to become thoroughly comfortable with one another before walking  you back to my room, hand-in-hand, to establish the beginning of our bond. After we get to my private suite at the Bunny Ranch, I will gently undress you, then ask you to undress me. That gets us used to each other’s touch, physical presence, body scents—anything that creates that sweet sense of trusting intimacy. We won’t hurry; I want to savor the sight of your nakedness being revealed, and I’m sure you’ll want to see my bare, beautiful body emerging before your eyes. You needn’t worry if you feel butterflies in your stomach—yes, you’re feeling nervous, but it’s the glow before the lovemaking. 

After we’re both completely naked, we’ll sit and chat casually. Perhaps I’ll take your hand and place it on one of my breasts, and show you how to stroke it to make the nipple erect (and start turning me on, and you too). Being shy, you may feel weird about asking “permission” to touch my body, and my gentle action will make no permission necessary.

But, wait. We introverts fancy anticipation—that period of building up, feeling your breathing quicken and your imagination dance, knowing that you are indeed going to unite sexually with another person. For shy people who can struggle just working up the courage to ask someone on a date, the situation we’re in now will be a dream coming true. That electric thrill running up your spine is from my hand stroking you for the first time. All this anticipation will go on as long as we want it to. No hurry, no rush.

The feeling of freeing a man of their insecurity about sex is so wonderful. If the person is shy and particularly sweet, I may find myself later on laying in bed and touching myself to the memory of the encounter. 

So, if you’re a shy violet like me, contact me so we can help each other sweep away all doubt about the wonders of sex. Allow yourself to be pleased and to please another. You deserve it! 

Caressa Kisses

Caressa Kisses

Legendary courtesan Caressa Kisses is a perfectionist in everything she does, and that includes all things sensual. Internationally renowned for her sexual prowess and flawless body, an encounter with Caressa Kisses is sure to be the apex of your sex life.

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I’m the Hottest Sex Teacher You Will Ever Meet!

When I applied for a job at the Sagebrush Ranch, I asked, “Does age matter, because I’m not 20 years old anymore.” I just turned 44, and it’s been the best job I could ever imagine, and I’ve done things I never could imagine, outdates and overnights. I could be working on site for awhile, and then I get an email to go to Vegas, and off I go. I don’t know from day to day what I’m doing. It’s pretty awesome. I’ve been asked out for overnights and outdates because of my age. If you want to sit down and have dinner with a woman, well, what are you gonna talk about with an 18-year-old? I’ve had girls who have been here 10 years, and they ask me, “Why haven’t I gotten an outdate?” Well, you are the image that you project.

When the driver picked me up at the airport, I told myself, This is crazy, what am I doing? And I thought, this is going to be the best or the worst thing I’ve done, but my first two weeks, I did five figures’ worth of business! The first 4 years that I was here, I worked on my computer for 8 hours straight every day to build the name that I have.

Shelby Star from Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch near Reno, Nevada,.

I do like my parties because they’re different. I tell the guys what I want; I mean, I ask them what they want, but I tell them what I like to do. I get a lot of mature, sexually experienced men, and they want to please me. I feel you always have to find a connection with a client. My mom was a teacher when I grew up, and we visited every single state in the United States. That really helps me in relating to a client because, if they bring up a state or a town, most likely I’ve been there.

I’m a very sexual person, but I’m relaxed, I like to crack jokes. I’m on a mission to make clients feel confident to be sexual. Maybe they’ve had a partner in the past who sucked in bed. It’s about a healing process. Every client that comes in here has a want or a need. There’s a reason why they’re here. Like, married men, their wives won’t get on top anymore, won’t give them a blow job anymore. They’re here to fulfill the things the wife won’t do.

One of my clients is from Asia. He didn’t like to make eye contact with a woman because the women in his country shamed him. He would lose his erection. So I tried something different: I blindfolded him. And I was able to give him a blowjob and have sex with him successfully. I’ve been seeing him about two years now, and he’s become very self-confident sexually. He even learned to do cunnilingus. I sent him DVDs on how to do it. And I told him to study them, and that the next time I saw him, we’d try it.

I think that conversation is No. 1 before anything else. I ask questions of a guy, like, What are your hobbies, where are you from, what do you like to do? It builds a relationship with this person to be a regular and come back and see me. I keep a book. When a customer is a first-time client, I write down his name, and something about him, like, does he like country-western music? So the next time he visits, I have country-western music playing in my room. They remember and appreciate stuff like that.

Sometimes I think I have more fun than my clients! They tell me that they can see that I love what I do. I love sex. You think that all these women come into this profession, that they know all these different sexual positions? I learned so much from my clients. They’ll come up with some off-the-wall position that’s really good! It works both ways: They learn something from us, and we learn something from them.

I think the best thing about coming here is you’re going to unleash your inhibitions the first time. I have clients who are transvestites, and they want me to make them up as women. They know that I’m older, and what they say is not going to shock me. I don’t think they’re weirdos. A married guy will say to me, how did my sex life go so wrong?” It’s because you haven’t explained what you want to your wife. If you come to me, and I suck your cock in a way that you don’t like, you’re gonna tell me want you want. I think when a man comes here, he can communicate because I’m a professional, and I’ve done everything. If you walk out of here unsatisfied, it’s because you didn’t communicate with me. Because I’m pretty much open to whatever you want to do. You want to role-play? I do role-play parts all the time. Like, you’re the “boss,” and I need a job really bad, and I fuck you to get it. It excites me to role-play; it’s fun. Playing a teacher is a favorite: you’re the teacher or I’m the teacher, and they’re a student hitting on a hot teacher. Or a cheerleader with football players. I even had one client that wanted me to be a slave on a pirate ship! Sometimes people want me to be a submissive or dominatrix.

I do a lot of couples. I’m into women too sexually, and when a couple comes in, I always negotiate what we’re gonna do with the female. I don’t want to do anything that the woman doesn’t want to do. We need to talk about what the boundaries are. I don’t want the couple fighting over whether he’s going to fuck me or not. I’ve learned to get her permission, her agreement about what kind of sex will happen. And some of the wives have watched me fuck their husbands and have learned something new that they want to try later at home. I have one guy whose wife has cancer and can’t have sex anymore, and she wanted him to be safe and be happy. He’s been seeing me for five years. Her only condition was that she wanted him to pick one girl and stay with her. That made it okay.

I get a lot of virgins, and virgins are fun because they don’t really know what they’re doing, and I get to show them what to do for the first time. I not only have sex with them, but after I’m done having sex, I say to them, “I’m going to show you exactly what a woman does when she’s building up to orgasm.” For men, the best part of the whole party is to watch me orgasm, because I’ll tell them, “Watch my breathing.” My breathing is going to go a little different, I’ll start moving my pelvis up, and when I get close to cumming, my body is gonna start to spasm, and I cannot control it—it’s going to do what it wants to do. They love it, and they walk out like they’re on Cloud Nine. Now they know if a woman is faking it or not. And they can say to a woman they’re with, “What can I do to make you orgasm?” And I show them all the tricks: touch here, do that, use this sex toy, don’t use that toy. (I love my Hitachi Magic Wand! I have the original one, and one I can travel with.)

Foreplay to me is everything; if I had to choose between fucking or foreplay, I’d choose foreplay, although I love sex too. Sometimes it depends on the guy’s health, like if he’s had prostate cancer or is diabetic. If someone has diabetes, there needs to be a lot of foreplay, a lot of buildup, and it takes a while sometimes for a guy to cum. I really want to please him, with him feeling that he’s gotten what he paid for. I don’t want for this to be a party of “Hurry up and cum.” That’s not fine for either one of us. I had a guy say, “I can’t cum twice during a party.” Well, I made him shoot twice, and he left happy. saying, “Oh my God, how did you do it?” Well, there’s a time frame. After he’s cum the first time, I give him a back rub, then a blowjob. He’ll be ready to cum again, no problem.

The whole point of what I do is I really like people. I like smiling at them, making them feel special, showing them sexual things to do that they never did before. I inherited my instructional skills from my mom, and over the years, I’ve become a really hot teacher! Cum one, cum all! I’ve got a heart as big as Texas, my home state, and I’ll show you the time of your life!

Shelby Star

Shelby Star

Shelby Star is the quintessential girl next door. A Texas native with a heart as big as The Lone Star State, her infectious personality and charming demeanor will instantly enchant you.

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To Faithful Men Who Chose Monogamy, But Not Celibacy

She’s the love of your life. She’s beautiful, and you always want her. But, lately, something has been missing… As much as you’d like to fulfill all your intimate desires with only her, and as much as she’d love to reciprocate, it’s just not possible right now. You’ve tried everything, and it’s not working. A part of you is slowly suffocating; you signed up for monogamy, not celibacy.

The physical repression has begun to take a toll on the rest of your relationship and your ability to care for her. You still have every intention to stay by her side to the very end, just as you always vowed, but you know that if you don’t start taking care of yourself, you won’t be able to continue being the partner she deserves. If only there were some way to seek the relief and comfort that you need to stay strong and supportive for her when she needs it most…

Amelia Heart from Dennis Hof’s Kit Kat Ranch near Reno, Nevada

I’ve recently encountered several clients who are happily married, in love and lust with their spouses, but, due to physical, neurological, or mental health limitations, their wives are unable to continue intimacy at the level they desire (if at all). Some prognoses are only temporary, while others may be permanent or terminal. These clients find that the inability to continue to express themselves in intimate ways leads to a core part of themselves becoming deprived, which is damaging the relationship and inhibits their ability to live up to what they promised as a faithful spouse.

I’d personally like to commend those who dig deep to consider what they were really committing to when it came to choosing to love and support one person for the rest of their lives — those who can think about what it means to “put your own oxygen mask on first” in order to take care of another. We all have needs as human beings, and sometimes truly caring for someone else means rethinking superficial constraints and choosing to transcend the physical boundaries that were enacted under different circumstances, when there were no limits on fulfilling intimate desires between partners.

I have to express great admiration for those clients who have reached out under these circumstances, because it goes against a lot of traditional understanding of what it means to be married and faithful to one’s partner. But, when intimacy isn’t possible with the one you love most in the world, the psychological devastation of denying that part of yourself altogether can undermine all other efforts to care for them.

Fortunately, a solution exists: we, the courtesans at the legal brothels in Nevada, are experienced in surrogate intimacy and can help to bridge this gap. We are here for emotional support, physical closeness, and friendship through these difficult times. While what sets us apart from other platonic support structures is the physical connection we provide, the psychological side effects of reconnecting with this part of oneself can be even more profound. One recent client stated to me in a private message, quoted with his permission:

“Within hours of calling the Bunny Ranch to book that first party […], I experienced a change in attitude, outlook, and the way I interacted with my family and friends. That is, just knowing relief was on the way precipitated a profoundly positive change, a few weeks ahead of my actually being at the ranches.”

If you are struggling with the challenges of being in a loving, committed relationship that no longer provides an outlet for sexual release, I invite you to consider the opportunity to find that outlet here in a safe, discreet way that supports your desire to care for your partner in all other ways. Remind yourself what it was like to experience all the physical pleasures; I promise I won’t take offense if you find yourself thinking about her the whole time you are with me. In fact, I hope that you do.

Amelia Heart

Amelia Heart

A slender, all-natural brunette, Amelia Heart is a confident, compassionate, and open-minded woman seeking to share all the vitality and spirit of life, of which sensuality and sexuality are such important components. She is currently seeing clients at Dennis Hof's Kit Kat brothel near Reno, Nevada.

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Couples — Let Me Be Your Sex Teacher!

There are many kinds of therapists. Some provide emotional support, some physical therapy, some instruct you in the positions of yoga, and so forth. I am what you might call an Intimacy Therapist. I will show you, as well as your wife or girlfriend, together or separately, how to add so much more affinity and affection to your sex life. No matter how long you’ve been lovers, and how successful and satisfying your love life has been, I can help you make it even better than you thought it could be.

Let’s start with foreplay. Simply put, it takes a woman’s body longer to get fully ready for sex. And some men have considered that fact to be a hindrance or an inconvenience. They get hard and horny fast, and a man can barely wait to penetrate his lady’s tight pussy and start stroking away madly. And it’s true that sometimes this method works for women too; it’s called “surprise sex,” and you often see it depicted in movies, with the amorous couple tearing themselves out of their clothing and flopping wildly on a bed. The woman’s head jerks back passionately as the man opens her legs and rams himself right in. They grunt and groan until their climaxes shake them. But the key to understanding how surprise sex works is that, usually, there has been a tremendous buildup of sexual tension between the couple beforehand. Their hearts are pounding, their blood is up, he’s rock-hard and she’s soaking wet where it counts. Surprise sex can be dirty fun, but it’s not always the way to go.

Randy Ryder from Dennis Hof’s Moonlite Bunny Ranch

Anyway, back to foreplay. It should be part of a man’s sexual education to learn how to tenderly handle a woman’s body, but although some men do very well at stimulating a woman’s sexuality, other men may lack knowledge of what to do, or need a refresher course. That’s where I come in—or, should I say, cum in. I have the experience of hundreds of sexual encounters with men and women. I can serve as your go-between to bring you together for astounding sex.

Our session will begin with disrobing. As we stand there naked, you, the man, will live the dream: two beautiful women, their breasts rising and falling with each breath, waiting for you to caress them all over. You can start with me or your lady friend, and I’ll show you tricks like how gently tickling a girl’s rib cage can make her nipples stiff, and how gently rubbing your palms over her erect nips can make her groan, her back arch, and her buttocks tighten. Your penis will rise like the sun in the morning. I’ll position you behind her body or mine, your dick resting in the crack of the ass. I’ll tell you to draw her or me close to you, close your eyes, and let your hands—and imagination—wander over the smooth, sensuous peaks and valleys of the female body. Think the pussy is the only sexual part? Think again. Draw in the scents of hair and skin. Stroke and kiss the neck. Run your fingers down the arms to the delicate hands. Cup and massage the boobies. Let them down gently and stroke the belly and circle the navel with a fingertip. Travel further south and pet the pubic hair. Feel its softness? Just below is the flower of desire. Stroke its lips, and let your middle finger find the clitoris. Gently massage it. It’s every woman’s hot button, her sex trigger. But it’s delicate, so don’t be rough.

I’ll ask you to perform these caresses on me and your lover. Neither of you should worry about jealousy. I’m here to bring you closer together, not drive you apart. After we complete the first part, I’ll get us girls up on the bed, on our backs or doggie style, but either way our pussies will be open and ready for finger-banging. I’ll be wet by now, but if your girl is still a little nervous and needs some help, I’ve got plenty of slippery lubricant for you to use on her. You’ll kneel between us, and slowly insert your middle and ring fingers into our pussies (that’s because those two fingers equal the size of most men’s cock shafts). We’ll all get a thrill, because when a woman’s getting ready for sex, her vaginal canal will lengthen and relax, ready to receive the penis. Sensing that lengthening—the pussy silently saying, “I want cock,” is one of the biggest thrills a man can experience.

Now, explore inside us with your fingers. There used to be a silly argument among doctors about whether clitoral or vaginal stimulation was more important to a woman’s pleasure and orgasm. The answer: They both work. A well-fingered box is the best sex toy you’ll ever experience. If you take the time to “really love that pussy,” you’ll see the erotic transformation that good men hope for—a woman gone crazy with lust, and eager to jack, lick, and deeply suck your cock like mad.

Maybe your girl will go first, gripping your joint and vacuuming it with her mouth, cock-hungry as hell. She’ll do amazing things with her lips and tongue, giving you so much pleasure you’ll think your eyes will roll back in your head. Or maybe I’ll go first, because I have learned enough oral techniques to bring a guy as close to shooting his load as possible, and ready to fuck. Your lady friend will watch as I service you, slurping your shaft greedily, getting that glazed look in the eyes of overwhelming horniness. Maybe she’ll join me in cock-worship, and you’ll feel like a king.

Then it will be time to fuck. When two well-prepared women take control of your dick, you’ll think you’ve come under the spell of goddesses drunk with erotic power. We will ride you hard, pumping our pussies up and down wildly; we will get up on all fours, beg you to stick it inside us balls-deep and ram away like a man-machine; and, when you’re ready, your lady will gasp, “Cum in me! Cum in me now!” and you’ll feel the most incredible buildup of preorgasmic tension until you suddenly ejaculate so much cum your anus will contract, your cock will pump stream after stream—You will be completely drained, sweaty, and faint with happy exhaustion.

I’ve given so many of my clients memories like this to share, and new sex skills to enjoy at home. I’m Randy Ryder—why not make me part of your Wild West experience?

Randy Ryder

Randy Ryder

A sexy, blue-eyed, big-booty brunette with a great smile and a warm personality, Randy Ryder is the VIP companion who specializes in being your secret girlfriend. Randy is currently a full-time dream-maker at Dennis Hof's Moonlite Bunny Ranch.

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The Pleasure of Pegging


Do you know what it means?! If you do — yay! if not, no worries! Any place surrounding me counts as a safe space and ya girl here is here to help! No such thing as judgement or shame here with li’l Doomy!

Pegging is the term for when a woman uses a strap-on to indulge a man anally, stimulating and pleasing his mythical and also very real, prostate gland.

Now ya girl doesn’t wanna get too medical, but I have to for just a hot second — then it’ll get real sexy, I promise!

Draven Star from Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch near Reno, Nevada

So — are you a touch nervous about taking it up the butt? SAME. Same with a lot of people! Trust me when I tell you that with enough time, patience, lube and trust – it can be and is amazing. Remember the first time with vajay sexings? Kiiiiind of like that, but for some people it takes longer – boys and girls! Here, we’re talking about the boys, though…

Hear me out – I know I can be the “wild child” porn star but I will let y’all in on a secret. The very first time I had a P in my B was ON CAMERA (Joanna’s Angels 3) so I might be a little crazy but I feel that my experience helps with providing a safe environment, as well as giving some advice for preparation. if you touch the stove, you can get burned – you feel me? Trust and believe that your fav goth slut has all the knowledge you want!

So! Boring stuff first (I think the boring stuff is hot buuuuut that isn’t everyone)! Basics, safety, logistics and prep – in no particular order cause I tend to bounce around…

First off – CONSENT! Make sure everyone is down for the butt party or things get real un-fun real quick.

ALSO – before I get too into prep and stretching I want y’all to know that spit and lube are all that should be going in ya buttholes. Coconut oil clogs pores, and anal numbing creams are a real easy way to get hurt or torn. Getting torn in the b-hole takes a very long and un-fun length of time to heal. Just go slow. Please please please. I care so much about your b-hole even if you don’t! You only get one! Be sweet to it!

Consider this – if you are numbed, you don’t know if you are experiencing pleasure — or pain! Sooo just invest in lube and some grown and sexy tunes. Like, who doesn’t love long sexy sessions? Something about a tortoise and a hare? Finishing is cool but the run is where all the fun lives!

Logistics! Done!

Prep! Go!

So! Your body is yours and boys are fancy but this is what has worked for me!

If I know Im gonna get weird in the butt, the day beforehand, I pay a lot of attention to what I eat. I try to stay away from anything too fatty or drink too much; I also keep my portions to the size of my palm and stop eating solid foods around 5-6 PM.


Enemas aren’t scary! Just PLEASE DUMP OUT THE SALINE AND REFILL THAT THANG WITH WATER. The fluid that comes in enemas is designed to make you wanna, ya know….mondo duke. NOW!!!!! If your butt plans are a surprise and you wake up early but aren’t getting weird until the evening – maybe don’t dump the saline haha! It all depends on how YOUUU and your sweet sweet b hole are feeling.

NOW ITS TIME TO GET WEIRD AND SEXY. (About fucking time, right? Jesus Draven, maybe stop talking about how much you care about my butthole for like 30 seconds?!)


Since you’ve gotten this far in my li’l tale, I will take this moment to say that there is nothing ‘queer’ or ‘homo’ or ‘faggy’  or any other slur about wanting an internal orgasm as a man. AND I AM QUEER SO Y’ALL CAN BELIEVE ME.

Do what feels good – and boys, this feels reaalllll good.

So, like I mentioned before, the prostate gland is how dudes can have internal orgasms. This. Shit. Is. Lit. Not all women can have internal orgasms, but as one that can – trust me when I tell you that you want one. Or five.

Lube is fun and important! Showers are cool but water isn’t lube. Take the plastic curtain off of your ish, lay it on your bed and that is a KILLER start.

I usually tell girls to play with their pussies or clits but y’all have different parts! Jerking off in that sweet way that keeps you hard but not cumming (you fucking know!) is the best way to loosen ya’self up. Personally, I adore watching a dude jerk off so please make sure you ain’t being shy.

Breathe deep and go slow. Put on your favorite jam and let passion take over. Sooner than you know it, you’ll be feeling some shit you never thought you’d feel before and taking more than you thought you ever could.

When you start to feel funny, don’t hold back. When women are fitting to have g-spot orgasms, they low key feel like they are gonna pee. When they don’t hold back, squirting happens. Y’all love squirting. We love watching y’all cum real hard. It’s all relative and beautiful.

You will probably have one of the most intense orgasms as well as one of the biggest loads of your life — who doesn’t want that? I want that! I love pleasing a man and watching the different faces he can make – to see how much I can make him sweat and beg for me to do more for him. Have him grinding against me, aching for me to grind against and eventually penetrate to please him. Make him chant my name, the name of his chosen deity and then in turn make me never forget his. This is my goal in every party, but something about a man being this vulnerable and open makes me drip so much more (though I tend to get extraordinarily wet as it is…).

Sound interesting? Feel free to come visit me at the Sagebrush Ranch, or email me for more info! I love humans and all of their different facets and shapes and smells — and questions!

Draven Star

Draven Star

Also known as the "Doom Doll," AVN and Inked award-winning porn star Draven Star is the kinky Girl Next Door you’ve been lusting after all your life. She currently offers the finest in Girlfriend, Porn Star, and Kink experiences at Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch near Reno, Nevada.

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Deep Throating — Taking You All In

The act of deepthroating, or taking the full length and girth of your partner while giving oral sex, can be an intensely romantic and sexual experience if done properly. With a partner you trust and have good communication with, along with an adventurous attitude and a willingness to relax, it can be one of the most deeply fulfilling sexual acts you can perform for the pleasure of another person; it will set you apart from any other experience your partner has ever had and leave them fantasizing about you whenever you aren’t around. Done properly, it can even arouse you as intensely as it does your lover. Below are a few key points I’ve come to respect as a woman who sincerely enjoys performing deep throat blow jobs.


The first step of any new sexual act is trusting in your partner. You will have to leave your comfort zone when deepthroating, and that is easiest to do with a person you trust, as they are literally depriving you of air and you are relying on them to pay attention to your silent communication so that they know when you need to breathe. You will be making your partner feel amazing, and possibly in a more intense way than they’ve ever felt before, so it’s easy for someone to be distracted enough to forget to let you breathe!

Make sure to communicate beforehand about what kinds of silent signals you’ll be relying on so that the act itself is effortless and smooth. Usually a simple push with the hands is enough to communicate that it’s time to take a breath, but if your partner is distracted, don’t be afraid to be more aggressive with your hands. You’ll also need to pay attention to the rhythm and speed your partner needs to edge closer to orgasm. If you’re able to reach under the scrotum to the perineum and apply light pressure with your fingers, you’ll feel when you’re arousing your partner and when they are getting close to orgasm. This will also help you time your breathing so that you aren’t in the middle of trying to take a respiration break when your partner is close.


Surrender is crucial to the deepthroating experience. You must allow all of your muscles to relax and only focus on three things, (1) when to take your next breath,(2) the rhythm of your partner’s thrusts (or the movement of your head), and (3) relaxing your throat so that there is no pain or tension. Depending on the size of your partner, you may need them to give you a little pressure with their hands to completely take all of them, so make sure you discuss your comfort level with your partner beforehand. Some people enjoy hands in their hair or a more aggressive partner during oral sex, and some people enjoy a slower and more sensual oral sex sensation, or are just getting the hang of deepthroating. Make sure to communicate these expectations to your partner beforehand for a seamlessly enjoyable experience.

Hannah Foxx from Dennis Hof’s Kit Kat Ranch near Carson City, Nevada


Breath control is not difficult to master. As a competitive swimmer, I have had lots of practice holding my breath, but anyone can develop the same skills with practice. Breathing a little more frequently before holding your breath can put more oxygen in your bloodstream, but it can also cause you to hyperventilate or black-out, so I recommend learning your limits in a safe environment with a safety buddy before moving onto techniques in the bedroom, especially if you’ll be dangling your head off the edge of the bed, which can give you a little more room to take all of him without extra work but requires them to know when to back off and let you breathe.


Gagging is a part of deepthroating. Some people are able to completely suppress their gag reflex, others embrace it, using the muscular action of gagging to heighten their partner’s pleasure and taking advantage of the additional lubrication it usually encourages. As long as you practice at suppressing your vomit reflex, you can even add additional techniques to heighten their pleasure as you gag, such as humming to cause your throat to vibrate, or extending your tongue to lick and massage his testicles and scrotum and edge him even closer to orgasm.


For me, there is almost nothing sexier than a man holding me down with strong hands grasping my hair, gagging on his cock while tears come out of my eyes and make my mascara run. I love the weight of my partner’s hands on my head, and the look of shock and surprise as their entire length disappears down my throat and they begin to feel my muscles closing down on them. Enthusiasm is incredibly important during oral sex. You want your partner to feel incredibly wanted from the moment you first start teasing them with your tongue to the last moment before their orgasm, where you pull them in as deep as you possibly can and let the muscles in your throat close in on them and make them unable to stop themselves from tumbling over the edge.


For many, oral sex is an exchange of power, and for those seeking a feeling of control or domination in the bedroom oral sex can be the gateway to an immensely satisfying sexual experience. For others, it’s a way to connect to your partner and show them that their pleasure can be the focus of a lovemaking session. One thing is undeniable, having a woman on her knees worshipping your cock can make you feel invincible, and having a woman take all of you in her mouth as she lowers herself onto you in the 69 position can be just as memorable and impossible to resist. There are even women like me, who have their gagging reflex force them closer and closer to orgasm. Communicating with your partner will control your expectations as well as theirs and allow you to focus on the pleasure instead of boundaries, limits, and discomfort.


Deepthroating is an intense oral sex experience, and not one that everyone is comfortable with. I specialize in this technique, as well as teaching others to deepthroat. One of my most popular booking requests with couples is an instructional session where we take turns polishing your partner’s deepthroat skills; having two women focusing for one or two hours on giving you the perfect blowjob doesn’t hurt either. As with all sexual acts, good communication and enthusiasm are things you’ll need to bring to every session, but the potential reward is a sexual encounter that literally blows away everything else you’ve ever experienced.

Hannah Foxx

Hannah Foxx

A sexual maelstrom with an impressive resume in the erotic arts, Hannah Foxx provides the finest in romance and risque. Hailing from the deep American South, Hannah is currently a premier companion at Dennis Hof's Kit Kat Ranch near Carson City, Nevada.

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Does size matter?

Hi! I’m Sable Renae and I am a legal courtesan at the Sagebrush Ranch in Carson City, Nevada. I’m also an adult film performer, so I have had my fair share of Mother Nature’s plethora of penis sizes and shapes. I get missives and pictures from all over. On the Bunny Ranch Message board, Twitter, Facebook, ect. Pictures of all sorts of “equipment.” Big ones, little ones, circumcised, un-circumcised, every color, every race, every creed, and all these penises belong to men who all with the same question…”Is it big enough?”

So, in order to put your mind at ease, here are some things you should know. Most males, at some time in their lives, worry about whether they are “big enough.” Many women also wonder whether bigger is better.

Dr. David Buss and his colleague Dr. Cindy Meston wrote a wonderful book called Why Women Have Sex. In it, they discuss penis size and sexual satisfaction. Their results may surprise you.

Sable Renee is a veteran porn star and sex expert at Dennis Hof's Sagebrush Ranch
Sable Renee is a veteran porn star and sex expert at Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch
First, some penis facts…

The average penis ranges from 5 to 6 inches in length when erect.The penis averages 3 to 4 inches in length when flaccid, or non-erect. Contrary to popular belief, penis length is not closely related to height. In a study of over three hundred flaccid penises, the largest was 5.5 inches long (about the size of a bratwurst sausage) and belonged to a

5’7-inch tall man. The smallest non-erect penis was 2.25 inches long (about the size of a breakfast sausage) and attached to a stocky 5’1-inch tall man.

Does size really matter to women? More Importantly…does it matter to us working girls?

When people talk about penis size, they are usually referring to penis length. But according to one study, penis width is more important in determining if a potential mate “measures up.”

Psychologist Russell Eisenman and his fellow researchers at the University of Texas in Edinburg asked 50 sexually active university women whether penis length or penis width was more important for their sexual satisfaction. 45 out of 50 women said that width was more important. Only five said length felt better and none said they were unable to tell the difference.

Now that being said. I know for me there is “Everyday Cock”, “Special Occasion Cock”, and “Once in a lifetime Cock.” If you fall into the ranges of the Average Male which is 5 to 6 inches, honey I want to see you everyday! We are going to have a LOT of fun!! If you are 6 and 1/2 to 8 inches well then you are that “Special Occasion” for me… lots of foreplay and lube and ……OH MY that was a grand time that I will cherish on those nights when I haven’t had any and really need that naughty fantasy to take the edge off. Now if you are bigger than 8 inches….you my friend are that ONCE IN A LIFETIME!

A Rollicking good time…BUT I may need some prep work for this one.

LOTS and LOTS of foreplay and toys and LUBE on my the LUBE!! I-am-not-going-to-be-walking-normal-for-a-while LUBE!

Sable Renee has seen her share of penises
Sable Renee has seen her share of penises

“But,” you say, “I’m not any of those things” with a frown. Never fear my sweet. See, while everyone out there is focused on length, they forget girth is also a factor. Studies have shown that a wider penis provides greater clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse as well as more stimulation of the outer, most sensitive portion of the vagina. So smaller but with more girth is actually more fun. So although you may, and I state may not be John Holmes, Ron Jeremy, Peter North, Even Stone, or any of the other male actors out there in the adult industry…if it is wider than a sausage, we are going to have a TERRIFIC TIME!

“BUT, BUT SABLE,” you say with a blush and a tear, “I don’t have even that!” Never fear sweetheart. I have the knowledge and the desire for “not even that.” See, I know ways to compensate for “not even that,” and I will teach you everything you need to know. You, my dear sweet embarrassed darling, can pleasure yourself and me with positions and techniques you’ve probably never thought of, and I am more than happy to show them to you. As they said in that T.V. show: “We have the tools, We have the Technology” — and because I am a professional, I invest heavily and wholeheartedly in learning about all of the different ways to please YOU. (Which, consequently, pleases me.)

SO…….NO MATTER THE SIZE, the girth, the color, ect…we are going to have a GOOD time. That I promise!

Sable Renae

Sable Renae

Sable is a courtesan of vast experience and incomparable grace. Whether you seek tender intimacy or hardcore discipline, Sable is able to satisfy the deepest desires of your body and mind.

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Sex and Married Men: Unhappily ever after?

With Valentine’s day fast approaching, gentlemen are often at their romantic best as chocolates, lingerie, impromptu vacations, and other glamorous gifts are showered upon their ladies. This isn’t an exclusively February occurrence however. I see plenty of men all year round that are madly in love with their wives, gushing as they speak about their soulmate and mother of their children, and yet many of these men consider themselves unhappily married. They feel that sexual communication in their marriage is limited or they cannot express their true erotic desires to their wives. This leads to a lot of sexual as well as emotional frustration. If you cannot be open up with your life partner, who can you be open with?

While many would say you can share everything with your spouse but keep it professional with a prostitute, it is often quite the opposite. I have had my fair share of sex parties that were truly about a married man exploring his kinks with a nonjudgemental professional. I see many recent divorcees as well, whose marriages have not been successful because of a lack of communication or an unwillingness to try new things in bed. It’s stunning how many sexual secrets lovers hide from one another, for fear that their partner will harshly judge their “deviant” sexual inclinations. Whether it be foot fetishism, anal play, cross-dressing, or even dirty talk, many men only reveal their true sexual selves to working girls like me.

Lexi James from Dennis Hof's Love Ranch
Lexie James from Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch

In my personal life, I am married, but lead an open polyamorous lifestyle. My husband and I attend orgies and parties, but we also date others and are allowed to pursue sexual relationships on our own. I can have boyfriends and lovers as well as pursue this line of work because I truly love what I do — and I do it with the full trust and blessing of my husband. It is what makes the relationship between my spouse and I strong. I wonder: If my gentlemen clients had an open dialogue in their home and a partner willing to explore new things with them sexually, maybe their marriages would be more successful and complete. For the time being, it stands unanswered, and that’s where sexually open women like me can truly provide a service to the frustrated men who seek our company.

As a married man or divorcee, when you come into a Nevada brothel, no judgement is passed. We understand the bitter reality of unhappy marriage. You will be welcomed with open arms and an open line of communication, in a highly discreet and private environment. You will be given an opportunity to share what exactly it is you would like from our experience — no fetish is shunned here. We can also serve as emotional support by providing a sincere and genuinely compassionate listener, if that is what you need. The ladies truly enjoy giving you this experience and, if this post strikes you, we hope to be able to do so for you soon.

Lexi James
Lexie James

I have found the perfect lovers for me because I always was, and continue to be, open about my personal and sexual feelings. It’s a fearlessness that I’m proud of and that serves me well in my relationships and in my role as a sex worker. Without fail, honesty is the best path to not only a happy life, but also a healthy and fulfilling sex life.

Lexie James

Lexie James

Lexie is a featured courtesan at Dennis Hof's Love Ranch North and comes from Huntington Beach, California. She prides herself on always saying YES and trying new things, making your every dream come true.

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Curious about Prostate Massage?

Growing numbers of both men and women are becoming intrigued by the possibilities of pleasuring the prostate gland. As a legal Nevada sex worker, I’ve been performing prostate massages for about 5 years. A percent of my clients request or are intrigued by prostate stimulation. I’m quite skilled at it and know how to do it safely. Now, it’s important for me to state that this activity is done for pleasure! Prostate massage opens up a whole new door to sexual satisfaction. Unfortunately, many men feel awkward or uncomfortable about requesting a prostate massage when they visit a sex worker, thinking that the simple fact of practicing it will make them feel less masculine, or even homosexual. But the truth of the matter is, the prostate, also called the “Male G-Spot”, is accessible only via the anus (which is itself an erogenous zone, by the way). If you’ve never experienced prostate massage, you should try it at least once! It’s the only way for you to know if it’s something you enjoy or not. The important thing to keep in mind is that both the giver and receiver must be into it. Then the rewards will be tremendous! When you have a willing, sexually creative partner, the most intense orgasms and the highest level of sensual bliss can be achieved.

It’s been known for a long time that women can have intense pleasure with anal stimulation. Now it’s time for you, the man, to learn what this anal play is all about it and why it feels so good! Sexual curiosity has always been part of the human mind — it’s what many people find so enticing about sex. I know you’re curious, so don’t pretend like I’m not talking to you. I will show you how to safely find and stimulate this little love marvel that is the prostate.

Know that us ladies will not find you less of a man for letting us touch and explore areas of your body. I can honestly say that I get very aroused by doing it. 

Locating your “Male G Spot”

Every man has a “male G spot”. The prostate lies just beneath the bladder and is easily reached by the insertion of a finger into the canal (see diagram below). The prostate’s normal function is to secrete a milk, alkaline fluid that protects sperm once semen has been ejaculated. It surrounds the top portion of the tube that carries urine out of the bladder (the urethra). The prostate is about the size of a walnut and actually changes in hardness just before and last during the orgasm. The whole canal up to the prostate is also full of nerve endings, making for a very pleasurable experience when massaged with the finger or a male toy. 


Before Starting 

Before you begin, it’s important to make sure you are ready. It takes a huge level of trust and intimacy between two people to do this right! Be gentle and careful when testing both your limits and the recipient’s limits as well. First, make sure you’ve emptied your bladder. Second, the giver must trim the nails well in order to prevent any tearing of the delicate rectal lining. Nails can cause injury even when gloves are worn! Third. make sure your bowels are emptied and your entire rectal area is very clean. I offer showers before and after. That will make us both comfortable about the experience. Fourth, you must be relaxed in order for your body to allow the passage of a finger, making it painless. The session should begin with an external massage. Your partner may touch and press on the gluteus maximus (the butt cheek!) in the direction of the anus. It could also start with a simple back massage. Or oral sex while simultaneously beginning to touch massaging the perineum (the skin between your testicles and anus) or the anal area itself. The whole idea is to arouse you and get you ready. I always encourage my clients to express what feels best when I am doing it. 

Jade Capri from Dennis Hof's Love Ranch near Reno, Nevada
Jade Capri from Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch near Reno, Nevada

Lubrication is essential

Whether a latex glove is used or not (a well-oiled glove will slide more easily than your bare skin), make sure the giver’s finger is covered in lubricant. I have my personal favorites and it works wonders for me and my partners. Affectionally and slowly insert one finger. When the time comes, you will feel that the finger is “sucked” in by the anus. Once the finger has been allowed in, hold still and allow the anal sphincter muscles to become accustomed to it’s presence. Do not move fingers in and out unless it’s to add more lubricant. It can become uncomfortable at this stage for the recipient to experience eve subtle moves. 

Finding the “G Spot” 

When your partner is more comfortable. it’s time to go deeper into the anus —about 5 centimeters (2inches). Move your finger in an upward motion against the anterior rectal wall (the side of the rectum that is closest to the recipient’s stomach). Slowly and gently try to find a round, bulb-like mass. This is the prostate. It’s important to breathe and relax the muscles of the whole body as well the anal muscles. If you become tense, you will lessen the probability of pleasure. 

Now that You’ve Found It… 

Once you’ve located the little male love mound, start massaging the prostate very lightly, using the pad at the tip of your finger. (Remember not to use nails!) A toy designed for men can also be introduced into the mix, however, I have learned that it is always better to start with the finger. 

Always ask your partner if he would like a little more or less pressure, or slower or faster motions. You can take breaks until the whole sensation is no longer foreign for the recipient. Depending on your level of intimacy, you can touch with your other hand, lick, stroke the penis in an up-and-down motion, he can stroke it as he pleases, or you can also perform oral sex while massaging the prostate. It may take some coordination on the part of the giver, but you will get the hang of it — and always remember: don’t apply your weight on the hand that you are using to massage the prostate! Once it’s fully aroused, you can begin to rhythmically move the partially inserted finger in and out to stimulate the super-sensitive nerve endings around the anus. I like to do this and reach for the prostate every time my finger slides back in.

During the male orgasm

A combination of events occur simultaneously when a man orgasms. The prostate gland releases prostatic fluid, which makes up about one-third of the total volume of semen and contains various enzymes, zinc and citric acid. I like to apply a firm but gentle pressure rhythmically or irregularly to the prostate before and during orgasm, which increases the duration of those wonderful sensations. I know you are about to cum even before you know it, because your prostate glad inflates and become hard as a rock!

Jade Capri
Jade Capri

Who should learn more about prostate massage 

• Couples interested in new ways to pleasure (yes, I can teach it)

• Adventurous and curious men of any age

• Men over 40

• Men with fetishes 

• Men with performance challenges

• Prostate cancer survivors

• Men with erectile dysfunction

• Seniors

Jade Capri
Jade Capri

Quotes from my clients

“I would agree that men have a genuinely hard time allowing anyone near their butt hole and prostate. I am very clean as a man and also very open and curious. There is a lot to feel and experience, so why not down there.

I went in thinking I would not be as shy compared to if it was a girlfriend.  

The initial play was arousing and really caught me off guard to how my body wanted to keep trying, as though it knew where to go. The feeling quickly vanished from embarrassing to pleasure. I have never felt that kind of pressure build up to the end. It was well worth my trip!” – R.

“If you’ve experienced ED and had prostate surgery, prostrate massage can give you additional stimulation.  It may assist you in keeping and or getting an erection, something prostrate surgery makes difficult “. I would also say the partner is as important as the practice.  It takes skill and patience and trust to make the experience special. I can say “JADE” has those skills” – A.

“I wasn’t sure if I was all in yet, but I did discuss my fantasies with my lover. Then, one night, soon after,  while we were making love and she was getting me hard, she pulled out a rubber glove. I had no idea what was coming. So she proceeded to lube up the glove and insert her finger into my butt hole. I was totally surprised. She slowly moved it deeper and deeper, taking care not to cause any pain. The sensation was very erotic and exciting. It didn’t hurt, but was very pleasurable. Once she had her finger all the way in, she proceeded to give me a prostrate massage. Something I had never experienced before. It felt very pleasurable and I was getting so excited, I chose to started jerk it. She continued to pleasure me and get me more and more excited. Eventually, I jerked my cock so hard with the excitement that I exploded with my cum. It was truly a fun, erotic and pleasurable feeling and experience and I ended with an amazing orgasm. I look forward to the next time my lover and I get to try this.” – R.

“I found out about this during a visit to the medical examiner. My regular doctor wasn’t available, so a female physician took his place. She was attractive and when she started the exam around there. I immediately got an enormous erection which caused her to become embarrassed.  Later I did some research and learned more about what had happened.” – M

Jade Capri

Jade Capri

Jade Capri is a Brazilian bombshell beauty with a to-die-for authentic and exotic body built for pleasure. Her specialties include virgins, GFE (Girl Friend Experience), Couples, 2 Girl Sex Parties, Fetishes, Overnights, Outdates, and Bachelor Parties.

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Sex: Is It Really Better if You’re in Love?

A lot of people will tell you that great sex can only be between two people that are truly in love. And, don’t get me wrong, sex between two people in love can be truly great, however, just because you are in love does not mean you are likely to have great sex…let alone even good sex.

Now you might remember the first time you had sex with a new partner, or even your spouse. You might remember it being the best sex of your life. But if you really think back, how was it a week or a month later? Not as good, was it? In fact, if you are honest, it was boring, plain, uninspired, and probably the worst sex of your life. Why is that? The first time we have sex it is blinded by the excitement of something new, and in some cases it has just been so long that any sex would be better than none! We ignore all the bad things in the excitement of the moment. Eventually, as the novelty wears off, we begin to realize there are more “bad things” than good things and the sex becomes just another activity, if we even continue to have sex at all.

Why are there more “bad things” than “good things” in our sexual activity with someone we love? Simply because most people don’t know how to do sex “right.” They have no real skill in the art of “making love.”  They rush thru every aspect of sex without taking time to enjoy each other or the feelings that are going on within their bodies. They try as many positions as they can think of without knowing why they are trying them or if they actually even feel good.  They just know they saw them somewhere.  They try to seem experienced by what they think they are doing right when in reality they are not. But no one says a thing so nothing changes.

Catrina Costa from Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch North

How did you find out about sex? Maybe you experimented in the back seat of a car with someone equally inept, repeating what felt good. Is that the best way to learn a new skill? To develop an art? Just fumble along, the blind leading the blind? Think about it how much do you really know about having sex. What do you know about pleasing another person…what do you know about pleasing yourself. Could you help someone learn to please you? No, then how do you expect your sex life to get any better by following the same pattern.

Maybe you read or watch porn. Perhaps you even learned a technique or two that actually work in the real world. Most guys just end up angering, or even hurting, their partner by trying something impractical they saw in porn. Not every position you see in porn is designed to be used during your sexual encounter, they are not what feels best, but are what is best for the camera angle.  Think about it? Men, have you ever had a lady climb on top for sex? How many of them chose to face your feet in the position seen in virtually every porn “Reverse Cowgirl”? I’ll bet none of them (if you have had one choose that position, take that as a hint and check your breath next time!). Why? Why is that position in nearly every porn but never in real life? Because it doesn’t feel as good for the lady, and generally women like to look into your eyes, to see you. So if it doesn’t feel good, doesn’t offer connection why is it in so many porns? Because it looks great on camera. That is right just because it looks good on camera does not mean it feels good in reality. So remember that if you want to make a hot sex tape, but forget that position if you want your lady to enjoy the session! I could go on about other positions in porn’s that are downright awkward and uncomfortable, and even a few that are downright dangerous. I have been in porn films, and if you watch carefully, the non-porn positions are generally the ones in which you’ll see me cumming (over and over and over again!).

With the experience I have had in my private life, in porn, and as a legal licensed courtesan I maintain that the best sex is with someone who is experienced. The one who has practiced the art of making sex enjoyable for both parties. Someone with the skills and knowledge to not only make the current session more fulfilling but to raise your level of knowledge and experience, to make you a better lover in the process.

Catrina Costa, a MILF porn star, chats with fans and prospective clients
Catrina Costa, a MILF porn star, chats with fans and prospective clients

The first thing I have learned as a legal licensed courtesan is that in order to make your fantasies come true I need to truly listen to you and your needs and wants.  I enjoy listening to your stories, ideas, fantasies, and learning what makes you tick.  This gives me an advantage since it allows me to use every skill I have to make you feel good, let you enjoy yourself, and give you the best mind blowing orgasm you have ever had. So the ability to not only make our time together more enjoyable by showing you tricks I have learned in my own life experiences, but also those I have learned on porn sets.  But since I am a life long learner I love to research topics and then thru practice I do my best to perfect those new skills to make you my VIP and fulfill your fantasy.  On top of all that I really enjoy sex and being a courtesan. One of the other important parts of being good at sex is actually enjoying it.  I can honestly say that I do enjoy it and enjoy it even more when I see that you are enjoying yourself as well.

Here at the Love Ranch North, you’ll find ladies that are trained and practiced in the art of sex. Ladies that enjoy sharing their knowledge with you. Ladies that are patient and willing to train you. Ladies that are ready to share that art of sex.

Our ladies enjoy instructing and practicing with both men and women. You could come alone to learn what we have to offer, however consider bringing your lover with you. What better way to add a new thrill to a boring sex life than for both of you to work together, under our guidance, to become great lovers together. We love to work with couples to teach each of you things that you may not know to help you have a better sex life to enjoy a more satisfying and enjoyable orgasm. 

After you have learned from me or one of the other ladies, then you can truly enjoy great sex with the one you love or come to the Love Ranch North and have mind blowing sex with one of us.

Catrina Costa

Catrina Costa

A premier courtesan at Dennis Hof's Love Ranch, Catrina Costa is a porn star and MILF extraordinaire who is well known for her sophisticated yet naughty companionship.

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