This weekend, a client gave me a wonderful and flattering compliment. After a romantic and incredibly passionate evening in my suite at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch, my lover told me that I was a “perfect 10.” As a new working girl here, I was a little concerned as to how I would measure up alongside the most in-demand paramours in the world, so I really appreciated his adulation — any girl that tells you “flattery will get you nowhere” is being less than sincere, especially when such sweet talk comes at moments in our lives when we could really use it.
When I finally stopped flushing and my cheeks went from bright red back to their usual color, I thought about what the client meant when he said that I was a “perfect 10.” I mean, as a six foot tall busty bombshell with luxurious blonde hair and long sexy legs, I know that men (and many women) find me very attractive. But when I reflect on the time shared between me and my client, I think he was talking about more than merely my somewhat striking appearance. He was talking about the moments we had together and how he felt afterwords. He didn’t just have an experience with a perfect 10 — he had a perfect 10 experience.
I think that in order to have a truly magnificent experience with a working girl, you have to be engaged on a physical, emotional, and even on a spiritual level. In my opinion, if all of these criteria are met, you will have a fervent rendezvous that scores 10 out of 10!
Let’s Get Physical
Having sex is primarily a physical phenomenon. Sexual attraction between two people is chemical, animal, carnal. The drive for sex is an irrepressible and supremely powerful urge — and when we make ourselves vulnerable to another, give in to our desires, and fall into the sensuous embrace of our lovers, we can achieve a state of incalculable euphoria and immense satisfaction.
I love getting physical. I love looking into my lover’s eyes as we touch each other, pulling your body close to mine and feeling you get excited because of what I’m doing to you. I love that moment when your attraction to me reaches an apex — you just can’t handle the teasing of my mouth any longer and you just take me, every nerve ending in our bodies tingling as you enter me. I love how we just have to let everything go and lose ourselves in the rhythm of our passion until we both burst with joy! If I didn’t love everything about sex I wouldn’t have chosen to be a sex worker. But, there’s more than just hot sex to a perfect 10 experience.
An Emotional Connection
People are often surprised to hear that working girls are not simply the best one-night-stands money can buy, but that we actually have numerous repeat clients. Why do people see women like me on a regular basis? What do we offer that our clients need regularly in their lives? Well, it’s definitely not just sex.
As a working girl in a legal, safe, and very private establishment, I provide a nonjudgmental situation where my clients can express who they really are and talk about the aspects of their lives that cause stress and insecurity. Having feelings bottled up and not having a trustworthy person to share your experiences with can be painful and lonely. My clients are not just “fuck buddies,” but actual friends. We get to know everything about each other and, in time, we understand what we need to be for one another and how we fill in the gaps of each other’s lives. A relationship with a Bunny Ranch girl is a real relationship — with authentic romance and genuine empathy. Truly being yourself with another, and sharing your wants, desires, dreams, and heartaches, can be as satiating and cathartic as a sexual orgasm.
A perfect 10 experience with a working girl, in my opinion, should not be something that only lasts in the moment. It shouldn’t feel good only when a client is alone with me. No. If it’s really marvelous, our physical and emotional connection will raise the spirit and my lover will return to the world uplifted — all desires fulfilled in our bedroom, all anxieties laid bare and released, and all negativity purged.
I’m not being pretentious when I say that a working girl can change a person’s life for the better. Our lives are enhanced every day because of loving, attentive people that take the time to listen to us and appreciate who we are and what we need. The true magic of being human is that, at any moment, a person can enter our fleeting lives and dramatically change the way we look at the world, and the way we approach life, for the better. That’s real beauty — that’s a perfect 10.