A True Girlfriend Experience

Prostitution may be the oldest profession, but the way services are presented and marketed gets a fresh reboot every so often. Through the decades the activities and experiences that clients desire change based on the culture of the sex work industry at the current time. While ten to twenty years ago it may have been just fine and satisfactory to book a quick half hour with a provider, now the male clients in this business want more. They want what is called the GFE – Girlfriend Experience.

But what IS the Girlfriend Experience? Is there one single definition that can be a legitimate representation for both clients and providers? What do clients expect, and what’s the experience that sex workers provide? That’s what I’m going to explore here. Clarification on what a GFE entails is needed in these muddy waters, especially from the perspective of a legal sex worker entertaining out of a Nevada legal brothel, such as the Love Ranch North.

Ruby Rae is a licensed courtesan at Dennis Hof's Love Ranch North near Reno, Nevada
Ruby Rae is a licensed courtesan at Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch North near Reno, Nevada

Before the summer of 2014 when the government seized the website domain, there used to be a review and discussion site called Red Book. Hobbyists of the pay for play world would gather here to discuss their opinions and “reviews” on various providers they had seen.  Red Book had a clear-cut definition of what GFE meant, to the client. This became known as the RBGFE (Red Book Girlfriend Experience) standard and it defined GFE by activities. Those activities included deep French kissing, uncovered blowjobs, covered intercourse, multiple orgasms for the client, and cunnilingus.  If a lady did not offer or perform these activities during a session then she was not “true GFE.”

However, from a sex worker’s point of view, we do not usually characterize our GFE sessions by activities, but rather by feeling. The providers in this industry usually describe their GFEs as a way to combine the physical with the emotional for a paid price. It can include affection, empathy, intimacy, and a connection that is formed with the client that would make the experience feel like time being spent with a real girlfriend. Many men seek this experience for a multitude of reasons, whether it be to enhance their bedroom skills on a variety of levels or to experience intimacy when it is lacking in their lives, etc. Is this purely just a way of marketing a girlfriend experience? Is it just semantics? I think not. Since we are in a legal brothel setting, some sex options differ from RBGFE because safety is of utmost importance here, and condoms are mandatory by law for many activities. Providing deep French kissing and cunnilingus can be a very personal decision to some sex workers. If an individual provider chooses not to offer certain services, does that automatically mean she cannot provide a girlfriend experience filled with affection, empathy, intimacy, and form a connection with her client? By RBGFE standards, it looks like no, but many sex workers and our clients would have to disagree with that.


I saw a new client recently who had previously been with six or seven courtesans before me in the past year or so. He claimed all these sex parties were GFE. However, after our party, he said to me, “What you gave me just now was a true GFE party. None of my other parties have been like this.” I was beyond happy to hear this, because it meant that my client and I were on the same page about what a true girlfriend experience is. He was not talking about merely activities; he was talking about the feeling he obtained from the whole experience with me, which in my opinion is better than a checklist.

Graduate student Ruby Rae specializes in legitimate Girlfriend Experiences

What true GFE is to me is simply being genuine with a client and trying to connect with them not only through sex, but also on a mental and emotional level. I value good conversation and I believe it’s important to get to know each other during a GFE. This does not mean surface level conversation, but rather, what are your passions? How is life, truly, going for you right now? What do you aspire for? What really brought you to the brothel? We can have these conversations during pillow talk, or over dinner during an outdate. Getting to know my clients deeply and personally after a few visits is what forms a real connection between the two of us. I also believe that affection and foreplay are extremely important in a GFE, not only for the client, but also for me personally. I enjoy taking it slow, exploring each other’s bodies, and not rushing to get it over with. A GFE party can be just as much about passion as it is about relaxation. I like to excite and soothe.

A Girlfriend Experience will always be about activities to some gentlemen, and that is more than okay. But I do believe it should be seen as more than that, and that’s what I strive to give each of my lovers. I want every person who walks out of my room after a GFE with me to feel accepted and understood, to be satisfied sexually and intimately, and to be walking on cloud nine all the way home.

Ruby Rae

Ruby Rae

Graduate student and luxury companion Ruby Rae is a lovely and sophisticated young woman with a passion for film, yoga, reading, and traveling. Her favorite type of encounter is one that includes dinner, dessert, and time beneath the sheets.

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Breakfast in Bed: Why Morning Sex is the Best

Waking up first thing in the morning is never fun, but what if you had something incredible to look forward to? Picture this: Get dressed, get into your car, and head on over to the legal brothel for some hot morning sex and scrumptious breakfast in bed! Delicious waffles, with whipped cream and chocolate- followed by a fresh, tall glass of orange juice – cooked and served to you while you’re nice and naked under the sheets. If you ask us, that’s the perfect way to start off on the right side of the bed. Why not enjoy a Banana, while me and my girlfriends enjoy a different kind of breakfast (if you know what we mean…)


When you go out for breakfast, there’s a bevy of different options available: eggs and bacon, french toast, croissants – but here, we offer a different kind of combo. Not only are you getting a healthy, well balanced meal, you’re getting sexual satisfaction as the main course! Brunette and Redhead, with a side of fruit loops anyone? We can cater to your preferences: gluten free, low sugar, your favorite fruit, etc. It would be our pleasure to make your favorite breakfast combo even better. A healthy breakfast will be just the thing to give you the energy for incredible morning sex!


For us, Breakfast in Bed is the perfect girlfriend experience. You get to have one or two fresh-faced ladies cook for you, cuddle you, and of course, pleasure you. First thing in the morning we’re full of energy, and probably still in our pajamas too. If you’re looking for a memorable encounter, we strongly suggest indulging in morning sex. It’s something different than the normal ranch encounter- more intimate, personal, and friendly! Morning sex is the best- and not just for the breakfast! It activates all the feel good hormones that will continue to flow throughout the rest of your day. You’ll feel energized, refreshed, and ready to take on whatever the day brings you. Most importantly, it’s fantastic motivation to wake up!


Many folks say the best sex they have happens first thing in the morning. We could even begin together the night before, and wake up cuddled in each others arms. Allow us to gently coax your body out of sleep, and right into pleasure. Let us handle the cooking- we’d love to prepare your favorite breakfast, then sensually feed it to you- or you could always instead choose to eat it off of us instead! There are so many fun options to explore, combinations to try, and positions to indulge in. We can spoon together, then we can spoon feed you cereal! this is hands down one of our favorite sex experiences. Let us help make your morning the best part of the day.


 Pictured: Working Girls Alice Little and Roxanne Price

Alice Little

Alice Little

Alice Little is a 4’8” red-headed cutie – but don’t let her small stature deceive you. she is a Dom in BDSM, an expert in all things kink, and possesses unparalleled lovemaking skills. Alice is the part-time girlfriend coveted by both men and women, and will make you feel right at home at the Sagebrush Ranch.

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Have a real Porn Star Experience at the Love Ranch Vegas with AVN award winner Sunny Lane!

Being known as “The Girl Next Door Turned Hard Core” comes with a lot of lofty expectations.  While legions of my amazing fans have supported my award winning career in adult films for years, only a select few have had the truly unique experience of traveling to Dennis Hof’s Love Ranch Vegas legal brothel to have an actual sexual encounter with me!  You read that right…pay-for-play sex is completely legal in places like the Love Ranch, and I am available to provide you with the Ultimate Porn Star Experience…and when I say ultimate, I really mean it.

Would you like to recreate one of my scenes that sticks out in your spank bank?  Maybe one of my AVN award winning performances?  We can replicate the scene blow by mouth-watering blow.


At this point, you’re probably getting a pretty clear picture of the “hard core” side of my persona, but you may still be wondering where the “Girl Next Door” description originated from.  That’s where my GFE “Girlfriend Experience” comes into play.  If you would like to have a softer, sensual, more intimate experience with me, let’s cuddle and be a couple for as long as you would like our experience to last.  I’m really a small town girl at heart, and I love having a personal experience with a fan that I can get to know over the course of our time together.

Do you want to film a private sex tape with me that you can take home for your personal library?  Let’s do it!  We’ll keep it between us of course, but if you’re an exhibitionist yourself and would like the world to see you giving it to me hard, let me know and I may use the footage on my own website!


I was born in Georgia with early aspirations of Olympic figure skating, but after foot surgery left me unable to skate, I tried feature dancing at the suggestion of friends in the NHL. Overnight, I came to be in extremely high demand and was later named Deja Vu’s “Showgirl of the Year”.  That also led to me being featured on the covers of many magazines including: People Australia, Playboy, Hustler, Club International, and Penthouse.


Whether it be the Hard Core Porn Star, the Sweet Girl Next Door, or some combination of the two, I’m so anxious to set up our date together!  I even have my own private suite on site.  You can contact me directly at sunnylane@loveranch.net and I will respond to you personally to get you set up to come down my Lane!  In fact, I can even send our complimentary limo to pick you up at the airport or at your hotel.  Once you get to the Love Ranch Vegas and join me in my room, that’s when the real fun starts!

Reach out to me today and let’s get to know each other a little better.  I’m looking forward to hearing from you!


Sunny Lane

Sunny Lane

Sunny Lane

AVN Award-Winning Adult Entertainment Superstar Sunny Lane, your Girl Next Door Turned Hard Core, is exclusively available at Dennis Hof's Love Ranch Vegas for the Ultimate Girlfriend Experience, Porn Star Experience, and more one-on-one sexy-hot encounters!

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What Happens During a Girlfriend Experience with a Sex Worker?

Prostitution has been cutting the BS out of dating since 5,000 BCE, so it was a little confusing when I arrived at Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch and came across clients that wanted to date a working girl like myself. While the single girl in me wanted to say Yes I would give you a chance, the business woman in me wondered How do I capitalize on this? To go over the mechanics of this situation I must explain that, yes, I do come across certain men in this profession that I would love to have a serious relationship with. However, we have certain house rules to abide by, such as not seeing our clients outside the Ranch.

This is where I should pause and say that it can be difficult at times to not mix emotions with business. Since I am single, the temptation is always there to snag a cutie that picks me out of line up all for myself. In situations like these I suggest the next best thing… The Girlfriend Experience. 

Sarah James offers the Girlfriend Experience at Dennis Hof’s Sagebrush Ranch

The Girlfriend Experience or “GFE” fantasy is just what it sounds like. Let’s not get confused, it does not entail you rubbing my feet and listening to me complain about my boss, (that is called the Wife Experience.) It does include me asking, “What would make your day?” This is where I would take the time to listen and offer up suggestions to create a lovely evening just for the two of us. Normally, with these types of requests I like to take my time, and, just like a real girlfriend, get to know you first. 

We could start off by chatting over drinks at the bar, shooting a game of pool or being silly by serenading each other with the karaoke microphone. Once we are emotionally comfortable with each other we would talk about being intimate. I usually do more listening, as I normally don’t have too many restrictions on my parties. You would set the pace as the night is all about you.

Like most girlfriends you probably have dated, it is my prerogative to make you feel like my boyfriend. I find it extra stimulating to kiss and caress your body, maybe lather you up with soap in the shower if you just came from work, or give you a sensual massage with soft music by candle light. I try to keep my parties light hearted by cracking jokes whenever I can. I feel it is the best way to take away some of the nervous tension.

Foreplay is big part of this equation. When it comes to oral, I love giving as well as receiving. To maximize, I would, at some point, suggest we indulge in the 69 position.  Since we are not concerning ourselves with anything else, I like to punctuate our time with more kissing and stroking. I like to get a little naughty and snap a couple pictures or record some of our action, so you can have something to remember our first time together.

VIP companion Sarah James

The Girlfriend Experience does not stop when the party is over. Most clients requesting the GFE usually become regulars. What I mean by this is we continue to chat over emails, texts and phone conversations throughout my time at the Ranch. We exchange daily photos and silly links to thing we are interested in.

The ultimate Girl Friend Experience is when we leave the Ranch to go on an outdate. I have been on some memorable outings here as Carson City has a lot to offer in the way of entertainment. My Favorite outdate was skiing Lake Tahoe’s Heavenly slopes. Any adventure seeker will tell you, there are few views that can compare to overlooking the beautiful lake at 10,000 feet on top of the Cascade mountains.

So why do gentlemen seeking the services of a sex worker want to get emotionally involved with one? The answer is simple, it’s because they are not getting enough of it in their regular lives and want the fantasy of being in a relationship, and the caring and sense of responsibility and loyalty to another person that goes with it. Most often in these parties it is not about sex but experiencing the passion of spending quality time or being in someone’s arms that makes for a more intimate night. I can truly say, the Girlfriend Experience is my favorite request because I get to take the time to form a deeper connection.

I have now hit my one year mark here at Sagebrush Ranch and have found lasting friendships in this place. I have loyal patrons that I can truly call on in stressful times. I am planning on extending my time here in Carson City and have room for a lot more long-term companionships. I look forward to meeting you whether it be just for the day or for years to come.

Sarah James

Sarah James

Sarah James is the sexy Girl Next Door you've been dreaming of all your life. Offering the authentic Girlfriend Experience at Dennis Hof's Sagebrush Ranch, Sarah is a compassionate VIP companion with a down-to-Earth personality and a deeply sensual nature.

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